Finding Men

  • comical44

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    Nov 06, 2011 4:06 AM GMT
    Where are some Good places to Find Other gay men?

    I know this is such a common topic and that gay men are everywhere obviously but where would be some good places to start besides a "Gay Bar"?

    Thanks for your responses
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    Nov 06, 2011 7:11 AM GMT
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    Nov 06, 2011 7:14 AM GMT
    The gay men department at your local Walmart.
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    Nov 06, 2011 7:15 AM GMT
    CHIdude saidThe gay men department at your local Walmart.


    Costco! Get that shit in bulk!
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    Nov 06, 2011 3:10 PM GMT
    comical44 saidWhere are some Good places to Find Other gay men?

    I know this is such a common topic and that gay men are everywhere obviously but where would be some good places to start besides a "Gay Bar"?

    Thanks for your responses


    Match the gay to your interests, that way you instantly have something in common besides the obvious

    Health conscious/organic granola - Whole Foods
    Cupcakes - Sprinkles
    Running - "Young professional running club"
    Politics - Stonewall Democrats/Log Cabin Republicans
    Sports - gay sports league
    Reading books - the library

    Or just use Grindr.
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    Nov 06, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    jaw_kneetrain saidrealjock.com icon_razz.gif


    I have to agree with Jaw on this one. Some really wonderful guys on this site. And participating in these forums is a great way to meet them.
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    Nov 06, 2011 3:41 PM GMT
    Although the best places to meet a potential partner may not be in bars, I met mine at the old Dixie Belle in Kansas City, MO. We've been together 19 years.

    If you are a churchgoer, check out local congregations that are accepting of gay men or are known to have a large gay membership.

    Sports clubs, outdoor groups....

    If you enjoy volunteering, there are numerous gay organizations you can volunteer with. Not only will you meet gay men, but you will be returning something to your community.

    ....or here. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 06, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    Realize that it could be anywhere. Really.
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    Nov 06, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
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    CHIdude saidThe gay men department at your local Walmart.


    Costco! Get that shit in bulk!


    You had me at "in bulk." icon_eek.gif
  • buckled

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    Nov 06, 2011 4:47 PM GMT
    BuddyinNYC saidRealize that it could be anywhere. Really.


    True that.. met someone last night at a straight bar when I was out with my friends. I wasn't interested in him but still nice to know that you can meet some gay guys outside of "the scene".. which I'm not a big fan of.
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    Nov 06, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    For me it's been the gym. Depends on where you go, of course, but I've found guys I've met there are pretty driven and have discipline... an alternative to the (often, but not always) vapid bar culture.
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    Nov 06, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    1. Get pics.
    2. Get verified.

    kthxbai
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    Nov 06, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    comical44 saidWhere are some Good places to Find Other gay men?

    I know this is such a common topic and that gay men are everywhere obviously but where would be some good places to start besides a "Gay Bar"?

    Thanks for your responses

    I'm also not into the gay bar/club thing. I haven't had much luck with the online thing either. I'm realizing that the gay bar/club maybe the only way to go.
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    Nov 06, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    I was at Byzantinium on Friday in Toronto, and that was a great place to meet guys, very relaxed martini bar.