Reventon saidAny tips for keeping him motivated? ...Lol
What kept ME motivated to attend a gym with a former BF were the other facilities there. We'd not only shower together in the gang shower (with an occasional quick BJ when nobody else was around), but sit naked together in the sauna, or in the whirlpool. Too bad the days of naked men's swimming pools had passed by the time we got together.
Not only did I find it a great treat to do public things with him in the nude (we went to nude beaches, too), but being seen naked, by him and other men, made me very conscious of maintaining my appearance. Clothes can be a disguise and an excuse not to stay in shape. Naked your build is fully revealed.
And while one could argue that naked appearance can be a negative incentive to return to the gym, fortunately he was in good shape and attended religiously (he still does). My attraction to him therefore extended to my tagging along with him to the gym, too, that included those lovely naked moments.