I Don't know how?

  • kemoze

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    Nov 06, 2011 2:03 PM GMT
    Guys first of all let me say hii to every body here,

    actually guys last night i was chatting with some friend of mine here on realjock, before i met that guy , who imed me and we started talking about 9.30 pm we talked the whole night, on cam, actually i never get naked on cam but he was ok with that, we had fun, we were laughing the whole night, we talked about every thing till 3.30am

    but i am really into him i dont know how , i just miss him know, he lives in south africa and i am here in kuwait. i was planning to move one day but i dont know if we can make it and meet oneday .

    he is so far and we have different cultures but i have never enjoyed my time with anybody but him only ..


    i am sure i love him .. we could talk for two days, never get bored from him .. i found the real love
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 06, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    Sounds like you have a reason for a quick vacation in S.Africa - nothing like seeing someone in the flesh so to speak, before falling love.
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    Nov 06, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    6 hours of convo is not love; it's infatuation.
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    Nov 06, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    Just remember, it's not marriage until he Hot Lists you.
    Good luck!
  • calibro

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    Nov 06, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    how do it put this gently...

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    Nov 06, 2011 5:26 PM GMT
    Dont take internet relationships seriously until you meet and get to know someone in person for while hun.... real life and internet people are not the same....
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    Nov 06, 2011 6:17 PM GMT
    You're falling in love with your own imagination of who you *think* that guy is. It's not the real him. Several reasons:

    1. Oftentimes online, people come across as differently as they are in real life.
    2. People are also different when you first met them, either online or in person, because they put up a front.
    3. You have a blueprint of what your ideal BF should look like, and when you meet a person you tend to pay attention to those while neglecting other qualities. It's not until later after you've known longer, that those other qualities (which has always been present) start to become more apparent to you.

    When you have met him in person, spent time with him, and you still feel the same...then yes it's real.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 06, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
    Guys i know all of this.

    but we were real . i mean simply we were ourselves that's why we are kind of into each other.

    i am a realistic person all the time. i never dream of having Mr. perfect. instead i just want someone who is so simple, easy to get along with,

    this guy is really different we met by chance but he is not the gay scene yet but we both have a lot in common.

    i am just afraid to lose him. but really i dont know
    after i woke up today i was so happy and i thought for awhile real love does exist.
    we talked today again i just feel like i miss him even when i am seeing him at the same time. how come?

    he did stole my heart.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 06, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    GreenHopper saidDont take internet relationships seriously until you meet and get to know someone in person for while hun.... real life and internet people are not the same....


    you guys have the second option which is the real life i mean the real gay scene , but someone like me . here in kuwait and i am not even kuwaiti so there is again another discrimination i feel, its impossible to meet a guy here ,,

    IMPOSSIBLE so what, i only place for me is Realjock
  • calibro

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    Nov 07, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    kemoze saidGuys i know all of this.

    but we were real . i mean simply we were ourselves that's why we are kind of into each other.

    i am a realistic person all the time. i never dream of having Mr. perfect. instead i just want someone who is so simple, easy to get along with,

    this guy is really different we met by chance but he is not the gay scene yet but we both have a lot in common.

    i am just afraid to lose him. but really i dont know
    after i woke up today i was so happy and i thought for awhile real love does exist.
    we talked today again i just feel like i miss him even when i am seeing him at the same time. how come?

    he did stole my heart.


    seriously, you're 22 and you're emotionally stunted. you didn't actual meet this guy. if you honestly think what you're feeling is love, you clearly have no idea what love it. the reason you feel all these things is because your infatuated and new to the whole thing. you can deny it all you want, but you seriously need to understand the situation. you chatted with a guy online. big deal.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 07, 2011 11:03 PM GMT
    calibro said
    kemoze saidGuys i know all of this.

    but we were real . i mean simply we were ourselves that's why we are kind of into each other.

    i am a realistic person all the time. i never dream of having Mr. perfect. instead i just want someone who is so simple, easy to get along with,

    this guy is really different we met by chance but he is not the gay scene yet but we both have a lot in common.

    i am just afraid to lose him. but really i dont know
    after i woke up today i was so happy and i thought for awhile real love does exist.
    we talked today again i just feel like i miss him even when i am seeing him at the same time. how come?

    he did stole my heart.


    seriously, you're 22 and you're emotionally stunted. you didn't actual meet this guy. if you honestly think what you're feeling is love, you clearly have no idea what love it. the reason you feel all these things is because your infatuated and new to the whole thing. you can deny it all you want, but you seriously need to understand the situation. you chatted with a guy online. big deal.


    i know i cant argue with all of you guys .. cuz simply you are much more experienced in life and i do care about every single word you say .

    today 07.11.2011, i talked to him again we talked twice today and every time was at least four hours . we do concerned about being online friends and we cant help the feeling that we are apart by thousands of miles.



    he is in south africa now and he wants to say in US, as you know guys i was trying to move to canada but its not easy then i was planning to australia but after meeting him . i am totally confused and dont know what to do. but all i feel now is i respect him and my feeling is growing faster than i thought it would be ,.
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    Nov 07, 2011 11:19 PM GMT
    is this serious?
  • kemoze

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    Nov 08, 2011 1:06 PM GMT
    running11 saidis this serious?


    every single word is true and the whole matter is serious.