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    Nov 07, 2011 4:08 AM GMT
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    Even if he had thick skin, WOW.

    If you talk negatively about a person you're with, they'll only guess you want more... Or feel somewhat inadequate. Did you get sex the nights of those conversations? icon_razz.gif


    The only negative thing I'l do is make fun of his Jewishness on occasion, but he laughs with me icon_biggrin.gif
  • commoncoll

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    Nov 07, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    It's really not about social norms and white lies or about being nice. It's about seeing a human being and respecting them.

    You can tease your partner, but there is no reason to insult or disrespect them.
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    Nov 07, 2011 5:38 AM GMT
    Holy JESUS.

    My boyfriend and I talk about how we need to start exercising and lose weight, but we don't flat-out call each other fat, which seems to be the tactic you would take.
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    Nov 07, 2011 6:18 AM GMT
    While it's great that you guys openly talk which is key for good communication, sometimes on particular subjects a little bit of grace would be much appreciated.

    Just saying for future reference.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:10 AM GMT
    I can see though how this is funny; if you two actually can talk like this to each other without making each other feel bad, you might as well be a regular sitcom or comedy show. So kudos in other words!
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    I would tell him: "Trollileo, you give me half of the elctric bill or your ass sleeps in the street tonight!" icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    I'm sorry @OP but when you have a BF, you support him and you tell him how hot you find him, not how ugly.If my BF ever told me that he didn't find me hot or something like that, it would cause irreparable damage to the relationship and I would never feel emotionally safe around him anymore.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    Hypnotico saidI'm sorry @OP but when you have a BF, you support him and you tell him how hot you find him, not how ugly.If my BF ever told me that he didn't find me hot or something like that, it would cause irreparable damage to the relationship and I would never feel emotionally safe around him anymore.


    This.

    It should also be true and if it isn't there is a problem.

    A lot of times I think people call their partner names as a reflection of themselve and not of their bf.
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    Nov 08, 2011 7:09 AM GMT
    mind you i was younger and a brat :-/ its not nice. i would never say that to anyone now. it was just not a happy relationship and it shouldn't have lasted 6 years.

    come to think about it, i dont think he ever said one mean thing to me... all our fights were because i was a prima donna, bitchy cunty kid. i didnt realize it, it was just how my parents raised me. that being said, i was over educated, better traveled, more open to new things. ugh, that relationship would suck the life out of me. tsk tsk never again


    "you're such a pushover"

    "stop with the mellow drama, suck it up because i wont have that shit near me"

    "man up! youre 4 years older and from a white upper middle class family, you dont know what it is to suffer. pansy"

    "you're a cultureless idiot"

    "cute, you overpaid for a second class education and you're a psuhover... i might as well be with a reTARD"

    him: don't hang up one me, i dont like it!
    me: I hang up. click!
    him: he calls back. ring ring
    me:yeah?
    him:why did you hang up?
    me: i was tired of your voice. I hang up on my parents who I owe my life to, you bet your ass you are at the bottom of that totem pole and therefore much easier to hang up on.









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    Nov 08, 2011 7:35 AM GMT
    two words its over. u talkto me like that i would kick your ass first then iwould walk out and not look back that is total bullshit. i dont get it
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    Nov 08, 2011 7:56 AM GMT
    “You're a meaningless sack of cat shit.”
    “I hope you crash and your car goes up in flames with you inside it.”
    >_>!!<_<

    Haha I was young(er). I apologized for it multiples times after I swear.
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