What do you regret ?

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    Nov 07, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    What do you regret boys?
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    Nov 07, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention.
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    Nov 07, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    I regret not fighting my ex wife more in court with what money I had remaining. She outspent me 8 to 1 and got the same that she would have if we settled day one in a more amicable way. Difference is Im still broke and I have to sneak to see my oldest and my youngest thinks I abandoned her. I hate my life
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    Nov 07, 2011 3:03 PM GMT
    Spending $80 on dinner last night...
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    Nov 07, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
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    Nov 07, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    I left a job that I loved going to every day and coworkers that some were my best friends.

    I thought I needed to take a big step up in my career that was offered to me. In my head I guess I thought success was the size of my pay check and job title. Yeah its fun to make lots of money but I discovered materialistic things do not make me happy and do not overcome the things I use to take for granted. In my current job I have no friendly coworkers, the work is boring as shit, I have to travel way too much leaving my dog and friends at home, no one wants to date or be serious with someone that can barely spend a lot of time with...

    Grass was not greener.
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    Nov 07, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    Saying hurtful things about nice people who didn't deserve it. It doesn't happen often (I'm talking twice in my life) and I'm sure they forgot about it, but it haunts me sometimes.
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    i'm still young, so i have only one.

    i broke up w/ a kind, funny, fun, sweet, driven, highly intelligent, sexy and handsome guy from AL. the distance, very different career paths, and time constraints just seemed too much to handle at this pt in both our lives.

    he recently started dating someone. i regret that i will not be the 1st guy who kisses him, who will wake up next to him, and who will have a marriage and family w/ him. i regret how much i hurt him.

    i don't regret mtg him, but.....yeah.
  • trijiminal

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    Nov 07, 2011 4:06 PM GMT
    leading on a couple of ex girlfriends before i had the nads to come out.
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
    being born.
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:16 PM GMT
    Not able to Scream out loud before the world that i am Gay till date! May be that! yes!
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:17 PM GMT
    going to the gym this morning, having the BEST WORKOUT EVER, then doing some cardio and opening up my pores real nice and big through sweating ONLY to go to the locker room and get

    1) breathed heavily on and feeling that COOL chill of another man's breath hot breath on my back whom was all sweaty and aesthetically exerted followed by

    2) a cough that I can only assume was created by his lungs getting rid of all the shit stored there through the decades he has spent on this earth

    i can only assume I have a week to live icon_cry.gif
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    There are a lot of things I'd like to say I regret, but when I'm honest with myself, I don't regret them.

    They are the reason for me being the person I am. In hind sight I think I could have been a better person or done better things had I taken another path but the reality is, I'd be a different person and seeing who I am today, I think I'll stick with what I've done and know that what ever I did, what ever choices I made, what ever paths I have chosen, they have lead me to where I am today and, although I sometimes dream, I don't regret how I got here.
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:37 PM GMT
    1. Losing weight really fast and paying $5500 to fix the damages

    2. Not cutting my dad out of my life sooner

    3. Hating myself to the point where I caused a break up with someone who cared for me (though he lived in Europe...wouldn't have worked out anyway)

    4. Not writing sooner

    5. Giving up the violin

    6. Not having the strength to stand up for myself when i was younger

    7. Not staying in touch with my friends this past summer...I just worked

    8. World of Warcraft

    9. Not getting over a stupid argument with a friend and not accepting her apology on that sunday...she killed herself that wednesday

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    Nov 07, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    i'm not sure if i regret this or am proud of doing it but i made a JO video when i was at the club in 2007. never actually posted it on Xtube though.icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    I don't have any
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    Supra89 saidbeing born.


    you shouldn't regret that. you clearly were a tough enough sperm to beat millions out of reaching that egg you were chilling in 8-10 months.
  • asana

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    Nov 07, 2011 4:51 PM GMT
    Letting fear and insecurity inform too many of my decisions.
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    Nov 07, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    bigbrother4alexander said
    Supra89 saidbeing born.


    you shouldn't regret that. you clearly were a tough enough sperm to beat millions out of reaching that egg you were chilling in 8-10 months.


    ah that was a good say bro icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 07, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    I regret how some things turned out but I don't regret my actions because given the same set of circumstances at the time, I'd do it all over again just the same..

    In my 20s I fell in love with an adventurous risk taker who accidentally died. On hindsight, it was bound to happen. And since, his death put me in pain for 20 years and counting. But I wouldn't give up that to have not had the 10 years with him.

    Then I loved another guy for another 10 years. He smoked too much and drank too much but also he had some pretty freaking amazing qualities. So now I've been in pain all these years from burying him too.

    I loved a few friends who required a lot of maintenance, so when I had to divert my attention to care for my mom, they screwed me because they weren't getting what they needed from me and they weren't able to give me the support I could have used at the time. Does that mean I should never have befriended them in the first place, when my life was easier and I could devote to them the attention they required? How would I have known that one day they would screw me? How can I regret that?

    So while some things in life are regrettable, the regret is not necessarily on me. I loved people for their good qualities not their bad. I've always tried to be considerate of others. But bad things still happen. That's life.

    I'm a good guy, and I have tried to do right by the people around me. So I regret some results. But for the most part, I don't have regrets of what lead up to those results.

    Why regret the inevitable regrettable? It is nothing but life's little joke on us all.
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    Nov 07, 2011 6:17 PM GMT
    Not studying to become a marine biologist....I love sea animals with a real passion but I guess it's kinda too late now...icon_sad.gif maybe next lifetime...
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    Nov 07, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    black cat it's never too late. I've seen dudes in their 70's at holyoke community college. life isn't over until it's over.icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 07, 2011 6:22 PM GMT
    bigbrother4alexander saidblack cat it's never too late. I've seen dudes in their 70's at holyoke community college. life isn't over until it's over.icon_cool.gif


    I'm soooo tempted to go back and study it but I'm kinda afraid because it'll bury me in further debt but I may do it once I get a job and pay off this current college loan...I like my current major but I LOVE marine bio....it's where I belong.
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    Nov 07, 2011 6:30 PM GMT
    well i wouldn't wait too long and besides that kind of det is considered good debt.
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    Nov 07, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    I regret not taking an appointment with a Physical Therapist the first time I dislocated my shoulder a year and a half ago. I redislocated again last friday while doing shoulder press at the gym, and I'm on track for a long, long re-education. Bye bye work-out and progress icon_confused.gif