Getting a Woman Pregnant

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    Nov 07, 2011 4:22 PM GMT
    Just to put things into context. I fully understand that bringing a baby into this world is not something to be taken lightly, and it comes with huge responsibilities.

    What I am talking about here is something that happens with me. I don't know if it's rare, or if it's because I am bisexual or what, but it's kind of a fetish for me.
    Getting a woman pregnant that is. The impregnation act per se.

    I discussed this topic with some friends, and they arrived to a conclusion that it has to do more with a male instinct to spread his seed. The fact is the idea of getting a hot woman pregnant is one of the top things that turn me on.

    Does anyone share this fantasy / fetish (if u wanna call it that)? And what is your take on it from an evolutionary / sexual orientation point of view? Can a gay man be aroused by this also?

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    Nov 07, 2011 8:17 PM GMT
    I'm curious to hear what about getting a woman pregnant turns you on. Your message doesn't indicate if you've already engaged in this type of activity...?? Is the idea of cumming in a woman the turnon or is the idea of creating a life a turn on?

    Reason I ask these questions is some gay men think barebacking is a huge turn on. I would never do it personally because I know the health ramifications (I have to look out for number one you know...). But I've heard from folks that feel bareback sex is much hotter as you're having one on one contact with another man. Just not my cup of tea...but that's just me.

    Thinking and acting on something are two different things. Just my opinion...
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    Nov 07, 2011 8:42 PM GMT
    <--- Raises hand.

    I think it's rooted in our evolutionary psychology. Close friends of mine have 2 kids, each conceived in vitro with donor eggs then carried by a surrogate. They've told me about how radically it changed their sex life for a while during the long period that the fertilization was going on. Even though there was no actual hetero sex, they both tell of feeling dominant and raunchy in ways that were unfamiliar. Neither of them ever did anything more with a woman than kiss, but one confessed to feeling horney for pussy during that period, and to fantasizing during gay sex about fucking a woman.

    Funny how the (animal) mind works!
  • Dominican_Gen...

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    Nov 07, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    That is to straight for me, not a turn on at all. Maybe a big scare. I would do it for procreation purposes and in vitro. 100% gay here.
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    Nov 07, 2011 10:50 PM GMT
    I kinda get what you mean. I am gay, find men attractive and DO NOT find chicks attractive. But...for some reason I am hooked on pussy - I love to fuck it...it feels amazing! The 'plumbing' per se feels perfect.

    So, I usually end up fucking girls with other guys so I can get off on the guy... but for me it must be 'instinct' to find pussy attractive. Lets face it - it feels great!
  • fitdude62

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    Nov 07, 2011 11:02 PM GMT
    No desire at all.

    Maybe when I was in my 20's I might have thought I wanted a child but reality set and and I am so happy I never followed through.

    Peace
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    Nov 07, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    Um, im sorry dude but kids scare the shit out of me, and the idea of me or any other man getting prego just freaks me the fuck out.

    Signing off from this thread, effective immediately.
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    Nov 07, 2011 11:24 PM GMT
    Not in the least. I find women repulsive, so I'd rather have my toenails pulled out with pliers while submerged in rubbing alcohol than put my dick in a chick. Ask me later and I'll tell ya how I REALLY feel! icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 07, 2011 11:47 PM GMT
    Interesting notion (far reaching consequences aside). Within Spanish culture there is the social behavior of 'Machismo', a form of excessive masculinity. One aspect of machismo is procreation (not fathering) of childern with numerous women. It would appear to be a nurture, versus, nature phenomena, given the prevelance among hispanic male raise in hispanic culture, versus those raised otherwise. I fall in the later category and had children out of a desire to raise them and bond with them. The bonding with them speaks to the far reaching conequences. Should you connect to that expirience, you will find existence impossible without them. Becareful what fire you play with.
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    Nov 08, 2011 12:06 AM GMT
    Trollileo saidI tried having a girlfriend. It didn't work.... Like at all.

    However, I do know what you mean. The worst thing about being gay, for me, is that I won't be able to continue my father's bloodline. Contrary to popular belief, I have a few genes to contribute to natural selection.


    To be fair Trollileo, of all us RJers out there Im sure we want you passing on your seeds before anyone else.

    Its just higher quality of genes for humanity.
  • Neurons

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    Nov 08, 2011 12:14 AM GMT
    3em bif7em shu azduk, w akeed fi nass bi 7ibo 7a she
  • metta

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    Nov 08, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    I'm so thankful that I do not have any children. I have never wanted them. I don't need that kind of responsibility...that would just take over my life if I did that. When I see children, I see a need to spend several hundred thousand dollars plus college, etc. Running a household on my own is hard enough.
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    Nov 08, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    Must be a bisexual thing.... I dont get excited by these thoughts or descriptions
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Nov 08, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    Been there done that. The kids are great - lucky to be their Father but the Mothers are in your life forever too. That latter part is a real bitch.
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    Nov 08, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    I think it's just an instinct. Impregnating a woman feels empowering, give you a sense of domination...

    And again, this is just a fantasy. I know that having a baby is a BIG DEAL icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 08, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    TheKrisPandemic said3em bif7em shu azduk, w akeed fi nass bi 7ibo 7a she



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    Nov 08, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    samurai111 saidI think it's just an instinct. Impregnating a woman feels empowering, give you a sense of domination...

    And again, this is just a fantasy. I know that having a baby is a BIG DEAL icon_smile.gif


    There is certainly a strong emotional component for some. Whether it is instinctual or not, I don't know. I have a very close friend in his late 50's now. He and his wife got pregnent a number of times, but she could never carry the babies to term. Not being able to have his own childern has been a hard and life changing expirience for him. It seem to be a combination of both having biological childern and raising them as well. So there does seem to be a deep desire for some, but I'm not sure it is just a question of dominance and impregnation.
  • Neurons

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    Nov 08, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    kew1 said
    TheKrisPandemic said3em bif7em shu azduk, w akeed fi nass bi 7ibo 7a she



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    Nov 08, 2011 4:30 PM GMT
    I'm thinking it really depends on what part of this whole thing that turns you on... if its procreating, great! we need more proof that Moes can raise children just as well if not better then Troes! But if its just for the fact of planting your seed then I have issues with that! I have a niece whose dad would rather spend his time doing anything else but be involved with her life. I think its sad that many kids these days will grow up with single moms and dads who are not there for some reason or another... and vise versa.

    I think it must be a bi thing cause I'm 100% gay and I've definitely never had any desire to experiance parenthood. I don't really like babysitting my nieces and nephews. that may be personal preference tho...
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    Nov 08, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    I have no "fetish" about it, but I can see how it might be hot. And to satiate my male ego, i would want to "continue my bloodline" as well as Troll aptly said.
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    Nov 08, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
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    TheKrisPandemic said3em bif7em shu azduk, w akeed fi nass bi 7ibo 7a she



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  • sevencloud

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    Nov 08, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    Chainers saidUm, im sorry dude but kids scare the shit out of me, and the idea of me or any other man getting prego just freaks me the fuck out.

    Signing off from this thread, effective immediately.


    oh hai, um just to be clear you are saying that the idea of a man getting pregnant freaks you out? Because he's talking about him getting women preggers so it seems like you may have missed his point.

    I'm not trying to flame or anything because that same idea kind of makes me feel uneasy, but it's fun to play with the idea (just thought about what you said about a man getting pregnant) because I like to challenge myself to get over things. ( A: people have too many gender issues B: It would be pretty cool since there would be a lot more baby back ribs in the world)

    and to the OP, i will say I kind of get what you're saying about it being a fetish and not a sign that you are straight.

    The thought of having sex with a woman for me is sexually provocative and something I've explored growing up. Now mind you I always knew that I was gay, like the moment I could think thoughts I knew that I was gay and I came out pretty early in life (13) but I've always fooled around with the ladies. Not because I was closeted or anything but in the way the way that people with explore their sexuality. Like how straight guys will jerk off together. Or Sean Cody.

    Women are really nice and I like doing things with them so I will put that out there. If i had a partner and we invited a "guest" I'd actually like it to be a woman. I haven't had sex yet (yeah I know pathetic and I'm cutting myself over it as we speak) but I can say anything I've done with a man I've done with woman and I really enjoyed experiences with ladies.

    I'm %100 sure I'm gay. I love being gay, I love bear hunting, I like the male experience but I think there is something to that machismo thing that was mentioned. The sexually or naturally gratifying thing a "man" does. I don't think it's even an instinct really or even a fetish. I mean this may be some kind of polar opposite to straight men who engage in sex with men (i'm not of the idea that having sex with a man makes you gay because there are plenty of guys who have sex with women on this site and it doesn't make them straight) I will say to people who have issues with these ideas that sexuality is not a concrete thing. Saying one thing makes you straight and another makes you gay is just like what straight people do who pass judgement and stereotype "the gays" and on the flip side of that a lot of gay men need to get over their heterophobia.

    Like, I love to finger and go down on a woman and there is nothing like the way a woman feels when she climaxes right under or next to you which is often why I'm drawn more to straight porn. There is just something about it that is pleasing to a certain part of my "maleness". I've had a few bfs and I've loved the things we've done together but there is something that a woman does for me that men can not.

    OMFG

    ...maybe I am straight...>.>

    (Just kidding)


    (...Maybe)
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    samurai111 said
    TheKrisPandemic said
    kew1 said
    TheKrisPandemic said3em bif7em shu azduk, w akeed fi nass bi 7ibo 7a she



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    It's arabic.


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    Nov 08, 2011 5:30 PM GMT
    samurai111 saidJust to put things into context. I fully understand that bringing a baby into this world is not something to be taken lightly, and it comes with huge responsibilities.

    What I am talking about here is something that happens with me. I don't know if it's rare, or if it's because I am bisexual or what, but it's kind of a fetish for me.
    Getting a woman pregnant that is. The impregnation act per se.

    I discussed this topic with some friends, and they arrived to a conclusion that it has to do more with a male instinct to spread his seed. The fact is the idea of getting a hot woman pregnant is one of the top things that turn me on.

    Does anyone share this fantasy / fetish (if u wanna call it that)? And what is your take on it from an evolutionary / sexual orientation point of view? Can a gay man be aroused by this also?

    Thanks icon_smile.gif


    Samurai, Your impulses are perfectly normal and natural Habibi. Male sexuality is far more fluid than convention cares to admit. Before words like "homosexual" and "gay" appeared in the lexicon in the 19th and 20th centuries respectively, men were less inclined to think that exclusive partner gender choices for sex was required or "normal". "Gay" is not some complete lifestyle choice. Find your own equilibrium, enjoy yourself and own up to the consequences of your actions - if you father children take care of them and be part of their lives in a real way.
  • JonPk

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    Nov 08, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    sevencloud said
    Chainers saidUm, im sorry dude but kids scare the shit out of me, and the idea of me or any other man getting prego just freaks me the fuck out.

    Signing off from this thread, effective immediately.


    oh hai, um just to be clear you are saying that the idea of a man getting pregnant freaks you out? Because he's talking about him getting women preggers so it seems like you may have missed his point.

    I'm not trying to flame or anything because that same idea kind of makes me feel uneasy, but it's fun to play with the idea (just thought about what you said about a man getting pregnant) because I like to challenge myself to get over things. ( A: people have too many gender issues B: It would be pretty cool since there would be a lot more baby back ribs in the world)

    and to the OP, i will say I kind of get what you're saying about it being a fetish and not a sign that you are straight.

    The thought of having sex with a woman for me is sexually provocative and something I've explored growing up. Now mind you I always knew that I was gay, like the moment I could think thoughts I knew that I was gay and I came out pretty early in life (13) but I've always fooled around with the ladies. Not because I was closeted or anything but in the way the way that people with explore their sexuality. Like how straight guys will jerk off together. Or Sean Cody.

    Women are really nice and I like doing things with them so I will put that out there. If i had a partner and we invited a "guest" I'd actually like it to be a woman. I haven't had sex yet (yeah I know pathetic and I'm cutting myself over it as we speak) but I can say anything I've done with a man I've done with woman and I really enjoyed experiences with ladies.

    I'm %100 sure I'm gay. I love being gay, I love bear hunting, I like the male experience but I think there is something to that machismo thing that was mentioned. The sexually or naturally gratifying thing a "man" does. I don't think it's even an instinct really or even a fetish. I mean this may be some kind of polar opposite to straight men who engage in sex with men (i'm not of the idea that having sex with a man makes you gay because there are plenty of guys who have sex with women on this site and it doesn't make them straight) I will say to people who have issues with these ideas that sexuality is not a concrete thing. Saying one thing makes you straight and another makes you gay is just like what straight people do who pass judgement and stereotype "the gays" and on the flip side of that a lot of gay men need to get over their heterophobia.

    Like, I love to finger and go down on a woman and there is nothing like the way a woman feels when she climaxes right under or next to you which is often why I'm drawn more to straight porn. There is just something about it that is pleasing to a certain part of my "maleness". I've had a few bfs and I've loved the things we've done together but there is something that a woman does for me that men can not.

    OMFG

    ...maybe I am straight...>.>

    (Just kidding)


    (...Maybe)
    . You aren't gay. You're something else. Bisexual, perhaps.