Chainers saidUm, im sorry dude but kids scare the shit out of me, and the idea of me or any other man getting prego just freaks me the fuck out.
Signing off from this thread, effective immediately.
oh hai, um just to be clear you are saying that the idea of a man getting pregnant freaks you out? Because he's talking about him getting women preggers so it seems like you may have missed his point.
I'm not trying to flame or anything because that same idea kind of makes me feel uneasy, but it's fun to play with the idea (just thought about what you said about a man getting pregnant) because I like to challenge myself to get over things. ( A: people have too many gender issues B: It would be pretty cool since there would be a lot more baby back ribs in the world)
and to the OP, i will say I kind of get what you're saying about it being a fetish and not a sign that you are straight.
The thought of having sex with a woman for me is sexually provocative and something I've explored growing up. Now mind you I always knew that I was gay, like the moment I could think thoughts I knew that I was gay and I came out pretty early in life (13) but I've always fooled around with the ladies. Not because I was closeted or anything but in the way the way that people with explore their sexuality. Like how straight guys will jerk off together. Or Sean Cody.
Women are really nice and I like doing things with them so I will put that out there. If i had a partner and we invited a "guest" I'd actually like it to be a woman. I haven't had sex yet (yeah I know pathetic and I'm cutting myself over it as we speak) but I can say anything I've done with a man I've done with woman and I really enjoyed experiences with ladies.
I'm %100 sure I'm gay. I love being gay, I love bear hunting, I like the male experience but I think there is something to that machismo thing that was mentioned. The sexually or naturally gratifying thing a "man" does. I don't think it's even an instinct really or even a fetish. I mean this may be some kind of polar opposite to straight men who engage in sex with men (i'm not of the idea that having sex with a man makes you gay because there are plenty of guys who have sex with women on this site and it doesn't make them straight) I will say to people who have issues with these ideas that sexuality is not a concrete thing. Saying one thing makes you straight and another makes you gay is just like what straight people do who pass judgement and stereotype "the gays" and on the flip side of that a lot of gay men need to get over their heterophobia.
Like, I love to finger and go down on a woman and there is nothing like the way a woman feels when she climaxes right under or next to you which is often why I'm drawn more to straight porn. There is just something about it that is pleasing to a certain part of my "maleness". I've had a few bfs and I've loved the things we've done together but there is something that a woman does for me that men can not.
...maybe I am straight...>.>