They Always Come Back.

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    Nov 08, 2011 1:08 AM GMT
    Let me start this off with a narrative, a long narrative. LOL

    So about 4 months ago I met this guy on this gay chat app. Things started off amazingly well. Talked to this guy that I thought was good looking and when I spoke to him I loved what I heard. Well fast-forward it to 6 weeks later. We finally meet face to face and some time afterwards I found out some not-so-good things about him. He had lied about various things.

    When I met him he wasn’t 5’9 as he stated on his profile, he was 5’7. Then in one conversation we had he made a sexually derogatory comment towards me and I’m told him he was fucking stupid. He hung up. I texted saying I was sorry but that he had offended me and that I don‘t put up with shit like that. He ignored what I was trying to say and just focused on the fact that I insulted him. So a week passes and he doesn‘t contact me and vice-versa. He completely ignores the problem which is not what he says he does. He said he liked to confront problem head on. Guess that was false too.

    A couple weeks before that he had added me on Facebook. So I logged on to see if he had been on. He had told me various times that he had not been talking to anyone else because not only was he only interested in me but he didn’t have time anyways. Well he had been talking to a guy for over 2 weeks and it was pretty flirtatious, it was getting serious.

    The next day he changes his relationship status to “in a relationship.” Not gonna lie I was pissed, not cause I cared about him, but because his trifling ass lied to me.

    So last night at 12 A.M. I was practicing for piano and who texted me saying sorry? And who's ass got ignored? That’s right. He did.

    This has happened so many times and each time it is so much more gratifying. These assholes think they are playing you but in the end who comes crawling back like a miserable little shit? They do. And you get the pleasure of ignoring their sad selves. Haha.

    But yeah I just felt like posting about it and being a bitch. Hahaa.

    Any similar experiences/stories you guys care to share? icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    I predict this thread will become a flame war.
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:42 AM GMT
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    im going to make some popcorn and sit back, watch the war begin!
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:43 AM GMT
    FrostedFlakes saidI predict this thread will become a flame war.


    How? Unless it has to deal with the promiscuous or celibate sensibilities of the gays on here, which I don't see it doing so. LOL I don't see this thread going anywhere for that matter. Haha!
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
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    im going to make some popcorn and sit back, watch the war begin!


    LOL! I don't get it how is this going to be a flamewar, seriously? Haha!
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    lol..

    Some guys find having someone come back to them satisfying, but I don't see anything cool about it. In the end, you're still right back where you started.
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:52 AM GMT
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:53 AM GMT
    Snype saidlol..

    Some guys find having someone come back to them satisfying, but I don't see anything cool about it. In the end, you're still right back where you started.


    Haha very true. But you still get that that kinda-messed-up-yet-very-good feeling that they tried to make you look like a fool yet who's knockin on my door beggin me to let them in. Yeah. And I might still be the same, but they sure as fuck got worse.
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    Nov 08, 2011 5:55 AM GMT
    well, i never had an issue like that, partially because i dont use grindr, adam4adam, etc.

    But, my ex-boyfriend 3 years ago wanted to go for dinner like a month later because he told me we needed to talk. So, I accepted, and something came up last minute and I called him to cancel...he said he and his friends were waiting for me....didnt know it was an open invitation -_-

    Also texted me a week after that the song he wrote for me was on youtube icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:01 AM GMT
    AlexanderB saidwell, i never had an issue like that, partially because i dont use grindr, adam4adam, etc.

    But, my ex-boyfriend 3 years ago wanted to go for dinner like a month later because he told me we needed to talk. So, I accepted, and something came up last minute and I called him to cancel...he said he and his friends were waiting for me....didnt know it was an open invitation -_-

    Also texted me a week after that the song he wrote for me was on youtube icon_rolleyes.gif


    Haha. Wait so did he say he wrote the song for you but in reality he got it from YouTube, or did he post it up on YouTube? lol
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:01 AM GMT
    Y'all Hispanic men can be so damn vindictive sometimes. That's why I just stick with my vanilla.

    The fact that you're 'getting off' on him crawling back means that you'll probably let him do it to you again and then piss you off again. You shouldn't of texted him back when he insulted you. And then found out all them lies.

    So what? He comes back. That's going to happen alot. Sometimes people have things going on that may not make them ready RIGHT NOW but maybe at some point in the future. Move on and meet someone better. But this guy. after lying to you several times you keep giving him chances.

    Stop playing tennis. Ignoring people is not a victory (contrary to belief). Ignoring people is a defeat method and tells the offender: Oh he must be mad at me, so now he playing the silent treatment.

    Speak up and stop being a little bitch.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:05 AM GMT
    mochamuscle saidY'all Hispanic men can be so damn vindictive sometimes. That's why I just stick with my vanilla.

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    You're always stereotyping, you idiot, btw what happened to that thread where you called ALL Hispanic men cheap?
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    mochamuscle saidY'all Hispanic men can be so damn vindictive sometimes. That's why I just stick with my vanilla.

    The fact that you're 'getting off' on him crawling back means that you'll probably let him do it to you again and then piss you off again. You shouldn't of texted him back when he insulted you. And then found out all them lies.

    So what? He comes back. That's going to happen alot. Sometimes people have things going on that may not make them ready RIGHT NOW but maybe at some point in the future. But this guy. after lying to you several times you keep giving him chances.

    Stop playing tennis. Ignoring people is not a victory (contrary to belief). Ignoring people is a defeat method and tells the offender: Oh he must be mad at me, so now he playing the silent treatment.

    Speak up and stop being a little bitch.


    Oh my God excuse you, did you just call me a little bitch? I NEVER too him back. He had one chance he fucked up. And now he's texting me trying to rekindle something he squashed in it's developing stages. Sorry, but no.

    I never once gave him a second chance. Hahaha calling me a little bitch. Haha!!! I don't know why I think that's funny but yeah no. I never gave him a second chance and it never got passed the first date.

    The only reason I texted him apologizing was because it was a bit uncalled for on my behalf to tell him something like that. But beyond that I never contacted him until last night when he was trying to come back.

    And I second Hypnotico's notion. We Hispanic guys are not vindictive, not all of us at least. LOL Just me and a couple others. Haha
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:08 AM GMT
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    mochamuscle saidY'all Hispanic men can be so damn vindictive sometimes. That's why I just stick with my vanilla.

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    You're always stereotyping, you idiot, btw what happened to that thread where you called ALL Hispanic men cheap?


    Shit, I was trying to find that myself. Someone must have called it out. I didn't even get to read any replies.

    And be quiet. Hispanic people stereotype about other Hispanics too. Just like I can stereotype about my race or White people too. It's meant to be taken lightly don't get all pantie twisted.

    And I specifically said in that thread that not ALL were cheap. For fucks sake there's only 1 thing a Hispanic guy can shove in my mouth and it shouldn't be words icon_mad.gif
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:08 AM GMT
    So much flakey drama fluff it's like watching a pastry recite King Lear.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
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    Hypnotico said
    mochamuscle saidY'all Hispanic men can be so damn vindictive sometimes. That's why I just stick with my vanilla.

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    You're always stereotyping, you idiot, btw what happened to that thread where you called ALL Hispanic men cheap?


    Shit, I was trying to find that myself. Someone must have called it out. I didn't even get to read any replies.

    And be quiet. Hispanic people stereotype about other Hispanics too. Just like I can stereotype about my race or White people too.


    It got deleted because if was full of racist remarks made by you.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
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    Oh my God excuse you, did you just call me a little bitch? I NEVER too him back. He had one chance he fucked up. And now he's texting me trying to rekindle something he squashed in it's developing stages. Sorry, but no.

    I never once gave him a second chance. Hahaha calling me a little bitch. Haha!!! I don't know why I think that's funny but yeah no. I never gave him a second chance and it never got passed the first date.

    The only reason I texted him apologizing was because it was a bit uncalled for on my behalf to tell him something like that. But beyond that I never contacted him until last night when he was trying to come back.

    And I second Hypnotico's notion. We Hispanic guys are not vindictive, not all of us at least. LOL Just me and a couple others. Haha


    LOL, I'm just kidding!

    Well it sounds like you went ahead and met him after he lied to you which is why I thought you took him back. You said, "he told a bunch of lies" and then you went on to say you met up with him???

    So perhaps the events didn't happen in the way you say they did? You met him and THEN found out lies?

    You should not have called to apologize. Or texted. You were offended which you had the right to be, but you felt you were out of line. No, he was out of line.

    Don't worry, I used to be vindictive too. I once spray painted ASSHOLE in green letters on my X's mom's car. I was much, much younger though. Lord have mercy LOL.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:20 AM GMT
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    likewatuc said
    Oh my God excuse you, did you just call me a little bitch? I NEVER took him back. He had one chance he fucked up. And now he's texting me trying to rekindle something he squashed in it's developing stages. Sorry, but no.

    I never once gave him a second chance. Hahaha calling me a little bitch. Haha!!! I don't know why I think that's funny but yeah no. I never gave him a second chance and it never got passed the first date.

    The only reason I texted him apologizing was because it was a bit uncalled for on my behalf to tell him something like that. But beyond that I never contacted him until last night when he was trying to come back.

    And I second Hypnotico's notion. We Hispanic guys are not vindictive, not all of us at least. LOL Just me and a couple others. Haha


    LOL, I'm just kidding!

    Well it sounds like you went ahead and met him after he lied to you which is why I thought you took him back. You said, "he told a bunch of lies" and then you went on to say you met up with him???

    So perhaps the events didn't happen in the way you say they did? You met him and THEN found out lies?

    You should not have called to apologize. Or texted. You were offended which you had the right to be, but you felt you were out of line. No, he was out of line.

    Don't worry, I used to be vindictive too. I once spray painted ASSHOLE in green letters on my X's mom's car. I was much, much younger though. Lord have mercy LOL.


    Haha yeah my mistake. I found out about his lies afterwards.

    And LMAO!!!!! @ The green color ASSHOLE on his mom's car. LMAO!!!!!!

    Sounds like something I might do one day. Haha thanks for the ideas. icon_smile.gif

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    There I fixed it. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:23 AM GMT
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    And LMAO!!!!! @ The green color ASSHOLE on his mom's car. LMAO!!!!!!

    Sounds like something I might do one day. Haha thanks for the ideas. icon_smile.gif


    Well, then he came back and we had sex after all that. So yeah...Or maybe it was me who came back? I don't remember. I just know after that I didn't see him again for over a year. I ended up moving to Texas a few days later.

    But no, don't do that. I was 18 and didn't know any better. Plus he was Hispanic so his vindictiveness kind of rubbed off on me.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    mochamuscle said
    likewatuc said
    And LMAO!!!!! @ The green color ASSHOLE on his mom's car. LMAO!!!!!!

    Sounds like something I might do one day. Haha thanks for the ideas. icon_smile.gif


    Well, then he came back and we had sex after all that. So yeah...Or maybe it was me who came back? I don't remember. I just know after that I didn't see him again for over a year. I ended up moving to Texas a few days later.

    But no, don't do that. I was 18 and didn't know any better. Plus he was Hispanic so his vindictiveness kind of rubbed off on me.


    HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!! You and this Hispanic vindictiveness. LOL You’re the one who spray painted ASSHOLE in giant green letters on his mom’s car! Hahaha!!!!
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    jpBITCHva saidOkay, so, I'm with a guy for six years, and the last two were pretty difficult. So I'm begging him to go to counseling with me, see if we can save this, etc. But he wasn't having any (I don't need no stinkln' therapy when you're the problem! etc.) So, at long last, after some provocation or other, I tell him it's over. He moves out.

    One month later, he calls and now wants to go to counseling. I should have told him to fuck off, but I said I'd go, even though I was already over it and him. We go to a session and he spends the entire session complaining about me so bitterly that I literally didn't get a whole sentence in.

    When we leave, he says he wants to continue the sessions. I say. for what? So you can yell at me and drown me out for an expensive hour? He begs, promising that the second time I can do all the talking, he'll just sit there and let me vent.

    So I go. He repeats the first performance. I walk out mid-session. I haven't spoken to him since, and it was 11 years ago this month.


    Aww I'm sorry. But aren't you glad you're rid of him? Or was he someone special in your life?
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:29 AM GMT
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    AlexanderB saidwell, i never had an issue like that, partially because i dont use grindr, adam4adam, etc.

    But, my ex-boyfriend 3 years ago wanted to go for dinner like a month later because he told me we needed to talk. So, I accepted, and something came up last minute and I called him to cancel...he said he and his friends were waiting for me....didnt know it was an open invitation -_-

    Also texted me a week after that the song he wrote for me was on youtube icon_rolleyes.gif


    Haha. Wait so did he say he wrote the song for you but in reality he got it from YouTube, or did he post it up on YouTube? lol


    He said he posted it on youtube; never looked at it. He sang it to me once. Cute and all but its like...I am done...lol.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:30 AM GMT
    likewatuc said
    HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!! You and this Hispanic vindictiveness. LOL You’re the one who spray painted ASSHOLE in giant green letters on his mom’s car! Hahaha!!!!


    That's because that mother fucker stole from someone for drugs, used me to do some illegal shit to cover his tracks, that would have landed me in jail for years...and then broke up with me later. Luckily everyone knew he was the one who set the shit all up and one guy was about to kill him.

    I was actually going to bust out the windows and set the bitch on fire but I was so scared LOL.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:35 AM GMT
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    likewatuc said
    AlexanderB saidwell, i never had an issue like that, partially because i dont use grindr, adam4adam, etc.

    But, my ex-boyfriend 3 years ago wanted to go for dinner like a month later because he told me we needed to talk. So, I accepted, and something came up last minute and I called him to cancel...he said he and his friends were waiting for me....didnt know it was an open invitation -_-

    Also texted me a week after that the song he wrote for me was on youtube icon_rolleyes.gif


    Haha. Wait so did he say he wrote the song for you but in reality he got it from YouTube, or did he post it up on YouTube? lol


    He said he posted it on youtube; never looked at it. He sang it to me once. Cute and all but its like...I am done...lol.


    Oh haha.
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    Nov 08, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
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    likewatuc said
    HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!! You and this Hispanic vindictiveness. LOL You’re the one who spray painted ASSHOLE in giant green letters on his mom’s car! Hahaha!!!!


    That's because that mother fucker stole from someone for drugs, used me to do some illegal shit to cover his tracks, that would have landed me in jail for years...and then broke up with me later. Luckily everyone knew he was the one who set the shit all up and one guy was about to kill him.

    I was actually going to bust out the windows and set the bitch on fire but I was so scared LOL.


    Oh damn. Was he Mexican, he was huh? lol