All boys fool around

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    Nov 10, 2011 10:18 PM GMT
    When you confront a guy about their teenage years, they always attribute their sexual experiment with the same sex to the "fact" that "all boys fool around when they're young". It really didn't apply to me.

    I don't recall watching porn, comparing sizes, jacking off, or having any other sexual experiments with a guy growing up. Not my brother, not any of my friends. May be it was because I am a late bloomer. May be it was because I am gay, and I was afraid that exposing any of those sexual desires would "out" me.

    What kind of sexual experiences did you have growing up that you would consider just "fooling around, as all boys do"?
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    Nov 10, 2011 10:31 PM GMT
    uberick saidMay be it was because I am gay, and I was afraid that exposing any of those sexual desires would "out" me.


    Was definitely this for me.
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    Nov 11, 2011 3:33 AM GMT
    ...Like yourself, not enough !!
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    Nov 11, 2011 3:38 AM GMT
    jpBITCHva saidDoes being fucked by my 16-year old first cousin when I was 14 count?


    yes
  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 11, 2011 3:40 AM GMT
    None. I didn't have sex until I was 24, no touching, no kisses, no cuddling, no nothing when it came to sex or sexuality.

  • mrsmithers

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    Nov 11, 2011 3:48 AM GMT
    Me and a classmate along with another one did this behind the monkey bars during recess in elementary school. I was 10. It was more of a touching thing, until he asked to suck it. I said sure while the other classmate stood watched and giggled. LOL the teachers were sitting at a far away distance on a bench, and they we're sorta looking over that direction wondering what was going on.
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    Nov 11, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    I think the "teenage fooling around/experimenting time" was the turning point in my bisexuality. Damn my care-free mind!
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    Nov 11, 2011 4:42 PM GMT
    I didn't fool around when I was a teenager until I had a bf when I was 17.
  • TheIStrat

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    Nov 11, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier said
    uberick saidMay be it was because I am gay, and I was afraid that exposing any of those sexual desires would "out" me.


    Was definitely this for me.


    Me too
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    Nov 11, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    Nope. I was in college.
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    Nov 11, 2011 4:51 PM GMT
    I was fooling around when I was about 11 or 12 , and having sex when I was 14 . I did most of my friends . All of them now with wife's and kids. So yes I think that boys fool around in there teens and twenty something . But it was all good fun !
  • waccamatt

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    Nov 11, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    I was in college, also.
  • fitdude62

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    Nov 11, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    I guess playing started when I was about 10, Our favorite game was gear shift and ball bearings.....Like driving a race car using the person next to you as the gear shift..... icon_razz.gif

    Played with both boys a girls, Doctor, dress designer, fashon shows...etc.

    Dropped the girls when I was in college and the one I was seeing wanted to have a baby. Just to grown up for me......

    Peace
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    Nov 14, 2011 7:50 PM GMT
    TRACKBOY111 saidI was fooling around when I was about 11 or 12 , and having sex when I was 14 . I did most of my friends . All of them now with wife's and kids. So yes I think that boys fool around in there teens and twenty something . But it was all good fun !


    Were your friends guys or girls? What did you do together?
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    Nov 19, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    uberick saidWhen you confront a guy about their teenage years, they always attribute their sexual experiment with the same sex to the "fact" that "all boys fool around when they're young". It really didn't apply to me.

    I don't recall watching porn, comparing sizes, jacking off, or having any other sexual experiments with a guy growing up. Not my brother, not any of my friends. May be it was because I am a late bloomer. May be it was because I am gay, and I was afraid that exposing any of those sexual desires would "out" me.

    What kind of sexual experiences did you have growing up that you would consider just "fooling around, as all boys do"?


    Similar situation for me. I did, however, discover masturbation at a very early age (5 years old---and yes a child that young can masturbate, but obviously with no erection and cumming). Into my adolescent years there was lots of porn (started with gay porn right from the beginning) but absolutely nothing with another person. Straight through my college years---tons of gay porn but nothing with another person. My first sexual experience with another guy was when I was almost 26 years old.

    My current boyfriend has alluded to some of that "fooling around" stuff when he was a kid with another kid who turned out straight. I don't relate to any of that at all.
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    Nov 19, 2011 3:59 AM GMT
    i was 26 my first everything.
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    Nov 19, 2011 9:21 AM GMT
    I had a friend when I was 13-14 years old that was really sexually confident and comfortable around me. We never did anything overt, but there was a huge, lingering homoeroticism between us. The most blatant thing he did was give me the beginnings of a handjob, but with his foot, and I was fully clothed, and it was under a blanket. I was already hard down there, like usual, and he felt it. He also liked to go shirtless a lot, and I checked him out a lot. Turns out he's straight, but I'm not, and he wanted me to admit it.

    So nothing serious, and as soon as he wanted me to be concrete about it, I shrunk away.
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    Nov 20, 2011 11:29 AM GMT
    about 14 with my 12 year old cousin, playiing with each other an dry humping, jacking eachother off...that was about it for my first time...AHHH dry humping so HOT!!!
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    Nov 20, 2011 12:23 PM GMT
    you guys have such good memery. I can't remember shit.

    playing around and dry hump-yes I rememeber

    had sex a couple times with my friend, I was maybe 10 years old and we slept under the stars.

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    Nov 20, 2011 12:32 PM GMT
    uberick saidWhen you confront a guy about their teenage years, they always attribute their sexual experiment with the same sex to the "fact" that "all boys fool around when they're young". It really didn't apply to me.

    I don't recall watching porn, comparing sizes, jacking off, or having any other sexual experiments with a guy growing up. Not my brother, not any of my friends. May be it was because I am a late bloomer. May be it was because I am gay, and I was afraid that exposing any of those sexual desires would "out" me.

    What kind of sexual experiences did you have growing up that you would consider just "fooling around, as all boys do"?


    I was in the same boat. I would look at porn from time to time and everyone jacks off but I did it solo. I had my boyfriend but we were far from each other so it was hard to do things and honestly we kept our relationship very rated G as gay thinks go. He wanted to do things different with me. He had past relationships go wrong and wanted to I guess try making a gay relationship go as an ideal straight one would go. I liked it. When we got engaged I was ready (think with both were ready to cross that line) but didn't. He stopped because he said he didn't want out first time to be in a hotel on a weekend vacation.He wanted it to be inour home when and where we would be starting our lives together forever. Because of unfortunate events beyond our control, we never got there. He passed away 9-11-01. I would love to meet and fall in love with another guy and have all that I dreamed of with Michael with him. Hopefully, graduation will be a step closer to all that. It's been a long ten years.