How are you approaching other men?

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    Nov 11, 2011 8:59 AM GMT
    Just as the subject states, how do you guys personally approach other men you find attractive? I feel like gays, especially the closeted ones always have this fantasy of being approached first
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    Nov 11, 2011 9:07 AM GMT
    They approach me.
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    Nov 11, 2011 3:14 PM GMT
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  • Diceroll

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    Nov 11, 2011 3:30 PM GMT
    I've always been terrible at approaching guys in person, I don't know why though. One of my best friends can start up a conversation with almost anyone and I don't know how they do it lol
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    Nov 11, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    Ok Ill write to my best to help you.

    First why do men approach you? Well there are hundreds of reasons for this but, I'll keep this short to the point.

    First when a guy approaches you there are 3 types. Talk, sex, and love. Let me write the groups with descriptions to help every one.

    Talk-
    Job- Ask for a job.
    Gossip- Spread rumors to you.
    Friendship- Ask to be you're friend.

    Sex-
    Anal/ Oral- These average guys seek sex dayly or during times. They go to any man they choice and ask them/ lure them to have sex.

    Love-
    Not possible- A random guy trying to get you in love which shows in his face he just wants sex no love.

    True love- A honest guy would love you no matter what and not just for sex.

    Other types of love are possible you must understand the 3 points in a man to win him over.

    1. Emotion (brain) Understand his love length and feelings.


    2. physics (body) learn how he likes to be touched.

    3. chemistry (heart) dont push a guy into something he hates this can cause a break up.

    Hope this helps.
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    Nov 11, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    Ok Ill write to my best to help you.

    First why do men approach you? Well there are hundreds of reasons for this but, I'll keep this short to the point.

    First when a guy approaches you there are 3 types. Talk, sex, and love. Let me write the groups with descriptions to help every one.

    Talk-
    Job- Ask for a job.
    Gossip- Spread rumors to you.
    Friendship- Ask to be you're friend.

    Sex-
    Anal/ Oral- These average guys seek sex dayly or during times. They go to any man they choice and ask them/ lure them to have sex.

    Love-
    Not possible- A random guy trying to get you in love which shows in his face he just wants sex no love.

    True love- A honest guy would love you no matter what and not just for sex.

    Other types of love are possible you must understand the 3 points in a man to win him over.

    1. Emotion (brain) Understand his love length and feelings.


    2. physics (body) learn how he likes to be touched.

    3. chemistry (heart) dont push a guy into something he hates this can cause a break up.

    Hope this helps.
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    Nov 11, 2011 4:34 PM GMT
    I just walk up and say hi . Or just tell them that they are Beutiful .
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    Nov 11, 2011 4:50 PM GMT
    balmain saidThey approach me.


    lol, alot of ppl say that..
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    Nov 11, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    Here's a great pick-up line: "sure is hot in this steam room..."
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    Nov 11, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    S'up man... icon_lol.gif!
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 11, 2011 6:15 PM GMT
    I give them "the look" gets their boxers dropping all the time.
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    Nov 11, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    i can talk to anyone. I can talk to a brick wall or a cast iron skillet. I canNOT for the LIFE of me, talk to hot guys


    of course, this could also be because i can't FIND...hot guys?
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    Nov 11, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    We're allowed to talk to attractive guys? I've been seriously misinformed.
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    Nov 11, 2011 6:43 PM GMT
    Trollileo said
    DudeInNOVA saidWe're allowed to talk to attractive guys? I've been seriously misinformed.
    You have to get an appointment with him through his agent.



    DAMMIT!!
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    Nov 11, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
    I now have no problem approaching hot stranger and talk about anything
    But as soon as I send out a message that I may be interested. They back the shit off *sigh*
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    Nov 11, 2011 6:56 PM GMT
    Dionn_Runk saidOk Ill write to my best to help you.

    First why do men approach you? Well there are hundreds of reasons for this but, I'll keep this short to the point.

    First when a guy approaches you there are 3 types. Talk, sex, and love. Let me write the groups with descriptions to help every one.

    Talk-
    Job- Ask for a job.
    Gossip- Spread rumors to you.
    Friendship- Ask to be you're friend.

    Sex-
    Anal/ Oral- These average guys seek sex dayly or during times. They go to any man they choice and ask them/ lure them to have sex.

    Love-
    Not possible- A random guy trying to get you in love which shows in his face he just wants sex no love.

    True love- A honest guy would love you no matter what and not just for sex.

    Other types of love are possible you must understand the 3 points in a man to win him over.

    1. Emotion (brain) Understand his love length and feelings.


    2. physics (body) learn how he likes to be touched.

    3. chemistry (heart) dont push a guy into something he hates this can cause a break up.

    Hope this helps.


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    Nov 11, 2011 6:57 PM GMT
    I don't.

    If I did. . .awkwardness and stupidity would ensue.
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    Nov 11, 2011 7:08 PM GMT
    SkittleGangsta said
    Dionn_Runk said[LOLWUT?!]


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    I always try to guess what the poster's country of origin is with posts like these... based on odd language patterns and overall lack of coherence...

    I always get a good ROFL when it turns out to be USA. Who'd have thunk it would be a native English speaker? bah.
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    Nov 11, 2011 7:16 PM GMT
    The best part is the promise to keep it "short and to the point" only to ramble incoherently.

    And then post twice.

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    Nov 11, 2011 7:33 PM GMT
    7Famark saidI don't.

    If I did. . .awkwardness and stupidity would ensue.
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    Aren't you a supermodel?
    Just stand there look pretty and let them come to you. : wink:
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    Nov 11, 2011 7:35 PM GMT
    7Famark saidI don't.

    If I did. . .awkwardness and stupidity would ensue.
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    Aren't you a supermodel?
    Just stand there look pretty and let them come to you. : wink:
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    Nov 12, 2011 9:26 AM GMT
    I'm almost sure it's never possible to tell if a straight acting guy isn't haha, it kills me sometimes especially if they're good looking!

    But I guess, no risk, no gain.
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    Nov 12, 2011 9:43 AM GMT
    I just sit there at the club, and give them my constipated-sexy stare.

    Only fair since that's how it's done to me mostly.
  • alphatop

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    Nov 12, 2011 9:47 AM GMT
    I don't approach to other people, and if they approach to me, I tell them I'm not interested. I totally don't want a boyfriend, and even sex is not so important to me. Less guys, less problems.
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    Nov 12, 2011 9:50 AM GMT
    How do I approach guys. I look at em smile and then head my ass over there and try to strike a conversation relevant to where we are or what we are most likely doing.