What happens when Reality doesn't measure up to Fantasy

  • Tomz

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    Nov 11, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    Just Wondering if this ever happened to you and your thoughts...
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    Nov 11, 2011 7:42 PM GMT
    We are three-dimensional people living in a world of two-dimensional profiling.
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    Nov 11, 2011 7:51 PM GMT
    SHHHHHHH!!!!
    I wanna stay in denial.....
  • patmos9990

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    Nov 11, 2011 8:01 PM GMT
    a person ends up single
  • rnch

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    Nov 11, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    welcome to the Real World.
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    Nov 11, 2011 8:11 PM GMT
    it happens to everyone at some point and can happen in almost all situations
    whether it's sex or a vacation - usually the fantasy of it is better than reality.
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    Nov 11, 2011 8:13 PM GMT
    You adjust the fantasy to incorporate the reality. After all life can only be lived in reality.


    Unless you are into some kind of kinky role playing, in which case, can I join in.icon_twisted.gif
  • Tomz

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    Nov 11, 2011 8:28 PM GMT
    The guilt comment grabs my attention because I have no guilt I have regrets of things I can't change in my past but it's been a long time since I experienced guilt, my favorite emotion is crying it's magical you can take all your sadness and hurt and pain and release it to the four-winds. As a Rroma I believe heavily in real none trickery magic...

    As a Rroma I have a very different view on reality but that's a long story...

    I asked this question because it happened to me so many times with girls that if I had a penny for each one of these times I'd be China. Looking forward to more thoughts on this and rather appreciate the responses so far. Interesting stuff...
  • okologische

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    Nov 11, 2011 8:44 PM GMT
    lol simple, your not doing it right ;)
  • Tomz

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    Nov 11, 2011 8:50 PM GMT
    Ha! ((!!!)) lol I submit to your reasoning "Notz"...
  • no1timehookup...

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    Nov 11, 2011 8:50 PM GMT
    That explains one reason why people cock hop, always looking for something to knock them off their feet.. Guys always want something they can't get..
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    Nov 11, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    Our mind is an amazing construct. It is able to create imagery that satisfies our deepest desires and meets our every need. Left unchecked by reality, it produces insanity. That is why I say adjust fantasy to incorporate reality. You may not meet the man of your dreams, but you will meet men that enbody some of the elements you desire. Focus and build on those. And look to reframe your thoughts with respect to those areas where he does not make the grade. Bottom line, left to its own device, fantasy will always win out to reality, because it knows you too well. You have to tame fantasy with reality so you can experience life.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 11, 2011 10:04 PM GMT
    Shinra_Tensei saidUGH LIKE ALL THE FREAKIN TIME!

    I used to fall for guys, which is a mistake. In my book all gay men are guilty until proven innocent. Which is impossible, because there is not innocence, only varying degrees of guilt GAY GUILT!

    guilty gear?

    try guilty gays........icon_mad.gif

    wow, who pissed in your bowl of cereal.
  • Tomz

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    Nov 11, 2011 10:11 PM GMT
    Deep tri

    Male throat noises something so appealing about the notion I conceptualize...

    Lol noses heh too caught up in the three stooges movie three stooges meet Hercules I'm a little disappointed that instead of curly it's curly Joe but I'm glad I bought it... -Editz-...
  • Tomz

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    Nov 11, 2011 10:35 PM GMT
    A video for my thread? 2cool what's it all about? Latter I'll find time to watch...
  • Tomz

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    Nov 11, 2011 11:18 PM GMT
    Well I tried watching the YouTube but it's not mobile friendly...
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    Nov 12, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    Move on. There is always another fantasy awaiting.
  • Tomz

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    Nov 12, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    Longs I think that philosophy is wicked cool2'z