Confused Some insight please

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    Nov 12, 2011 8:11 AM GMT
    so this guy who i see sometimes while im at work i think he is giving off a vibe of being interested. For example i was working mornings and i was waiting for my ride to come and he is across the parking lot staring at me alot. and sometimes when im near him he will smile smirk or say hey and act differently then he does with others. recently he started opening doors for me i just chalked it up too being polite, but afterwards he kinda walked off really fast like he was uncomfortable or something. what do you think?
  • cageym

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    Nov 12, 2011 4:07 PM GMT
    I think it'd be nice if you talked to him. You might learn a lot more.
  • alphatop

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    Nov 12, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    cageym saidI think it'd be nice if you talked to him. You might learn a lot more.


    +1. ^^This!
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    Nov 12, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
    Yeah, you will never know unless you communicate.
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    Nov 12, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    I find the advertisement for the Adidas shoe in-between your posting and the poster below it much more interesting.
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    Nov 12, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    I'd say talk to him, and make friendly conversation, and then slowly ease in questions like if he's dating someone or has a gf icon_surprised.gif .
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    Nov 12, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    The_Bestest saidI'd say talk to him, and make friendly conversation, and then slowly ease in questions like if he's dating someone or has a gf icon_surprised.gif .
    yep, this!
  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 12, 2011 7:53 PM GMT
    Most likely attracted, and giving you hints, but unwilling to take the risk of you actually being a straight fundamental ___________ who will beat him and hang him on a fence post to die.

    So he is doing 'nice things' to let you know he is interested, but doing them in such a manner that IF you have a problem with it, he can readily say it doesn't mean anything.

    I have no idea what the overall community is in your area, or what the company policy (non verbal policy) is when it comes to 'the gay'. If there is a need to 'hide' in your area/work then ask him out for after work coffee or beers.

  • Tomz

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    Nov 12, 2011 7:57 PM GMT
    I'd just be myself and let fate take me where it wills