I have a rule, no pics no hook up, but alas, rules are made to be broken and every time I do break my rule, I really regret it.

  • Grubberboy

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    Nov 12, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    I thought that maybe talking on the phone would compensate, but that doesn't appear to be the case. When they show up at the door, I cant help thinking wtf, but end up fooling around with them anyways cause by this point I am so horny, I would probably do it with a sheep. In most cases, the sheep would have been better. Am I wrong in letting them come in? Should I have just said sorry, this won't work. I get so little action where I live it's really hard to just say no. What do you guys think about this?
  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 12, 2011 11:07 PM GMT
    I personally would never, ever ever give out my address (nor my phone number for that matter) to a perfect stranger.

    I have met people (not for sex) who I met on line, and always we agreed to meet in a public, neutral place. We got to know one another through a couple three face to face meetings FIRST before I allowed them to know where I live.

    Perhaps you should arrange a 'first face to face' meeting in a neutral place, meet them first with the understanding that there is no certainty of going home with you.

    I would assume that you would be less prone to follow through if it meant getting into the truck/car and driving home with them following than having them standing at your door.

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    Nov 12, 2011 11:59 PM GMT
    Bowyn_Aerrow saidI personally would never, ever ever give out my address (nor my phone number for that matter) to a perfect stranger.

    I have met people (not for sex) who I met on line, and always we agreed to meet in a public, neutral place. We got to know one another through a couple three face to face meetings FIRST before I allowed them to know where I live.

    Perhaps you should arrange a 'first face to face' meeting in a neutral place, meet them first with the understanding that there is no certainty of going home with you.

    I would assume that you would be less prone to follow through if it meant getting into the truck/car and driving home with them following than having them standing at your door.

    You pretty much describe my online dating/tricking protocol when I was single. Plus I usually would speak with them on the phone first, with my caller ID blocked, since a voice can tell me a great deal, too.

    Clearly our OPs problem is not his looks, but his location, that leads him to break his own rule. Have you checked his place on a map? He's way out on the Upper Peninsula. The guys who do arrive at his door have come by either snowmobile or dog sled! (Actually I did used to go on dates with one BF on our snowmobiles -- it really does happen)

    So I don't know what to suggest, when the pickings are that slim. Not a lot of choices. icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 13, 2011 12:00 AM GMT
    I've hooked up with quite a few no-pic profiles in the past, and only encountered an ugly dude once. Most of them were gorgeous.
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    Nov 13, 2011 12:05 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes saidI've hooked up with quite a few no-pic profiles in the past, and only encountered an ugly dude once. Most of them were gorgeous.

    Please, Paul, no names! icon_redface.gif
    I wouldn't remember them anyway. icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 13, 2011 12:06 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes saidI've hooked up with quite a few no-pic profiles in the past, and only encountered an ugly dude once. Most of them were gorgeous.

    Please, Paul, no names! icon_redface.gif
    I wouldn't remember them anyway. icon_twisted.gif

    I don't suppose you own a snowmobile?
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 13, 2011 12:20 AM GMT
    Grubberboy saidI get so little action where I live it's really hard to just say no. What do you guys think about this?

    I don't know exactly where Escanaba is, but perhaps you would have better luck arranging for encounters in Chicago, Detroit, or whatever other urban center is nearest - where there is a larger population in which to fish.
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    Nov 13, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    Grubberboy saidI thought that maybe talking on the phone would compensate, but that doesn't appear to be the case. When they show up at the door, I cant help thinking wtf, but end up fooling around with them anyways cause by this point I am so horny, I would probably do it with a sheep. In most cases, the sheep would have been better. Am I wrong in letting them come in? Should I have just said sorry, this won't work. I get so little action where I live it's really hard to just say no. What do you guys think about this?

    So you're inviting guys to your place without seeing their pics first? This seems dangerous, for one thing. And it sounds like you're not pleased with what shows up at the door most of the time. From looking at your pics, I find it hard to believe you can't find any decent guys. icon_wink.gif