Hooking up with college guys

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    Nov 13, 2011 8:25 AM GMT
    How do you end sex when your partner already cummed but you couldn't? There was no anal involved so you can't fake it.

    I hooked up with a hot 19 year old. The sex was good especially the kissing as he's a great kisser. After he cummed, he tried to make me cum but I couldn't (I tried so hard). This is the first time that this happened to me. I am 28.

    I really like to continue to see this guy but I think he felt bad for not making me cum. I just want to know how to handle this type of situation next time it happens.

    Has this happened to you?

    Edit: Some people on RJ are a miserable bunch. They must not be getting any for years...oh well, that's your problem.

    The real reason why I couldn't cum was he killed my dick due to inexperience...we've all been 19 or 20. The real question was: How do you end it respectfully, especially if you have feelings for the guy?
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    Nov 13, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    surfrider28 saidHow do you end sex when your partner already cummed but you couldn't? There was no anal involved so you can't fake it.

    I hooked up with a hot 19 year old. The sex was good especially the kissing as he's a great kisser. After he cummed, he tried to make me cum but I couldn't (I tried so hard). This is the first time that this happened to me. I am 28.

    I really like to continue to see this guy but I think he felt bad for not making me cum. I just want to know how to handle this type of situation next time it happens.

    Has this happened to you?


    Stop jeering off 15 times a day before you go on a date?
    BTW did you make that section on the wave?
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    Nov 13, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    First of all i like your hook up idea. that kind of boys are really good kisser.


    well be the top at first....

    do not kiss too much.......

    make him to suck your cock.........

    do not think that he is your brother or something otherwise you are not going to cum.
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    Nov 13, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    WTF does inhibited ejaculation have to do with hooking up w/college guys? Talk about bait and switch. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 13, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
    Badboy007 saidFirst of all i like your hook up idea. that kind of boys are really good kisser.


    well be the top at first....

    do not kiss too much.......

    make him to suck your cock.........

    do not think that he is your brother or something otherwise you are not going to cum.
    LOL that is the most ridiculous bunch of crap I have ever heard. That has nothing to do with the question.
    OP, what were you thinking when you were trying to cum? where you relaxed or tensed because you were worrying about cumming? Also, if you are j/o a lot during the week or day then that can prevent you from cumming as well.
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    Nov 13, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    haha...funny people here!!

    I couldn't cum because he killed my dick. There...I said it! (the cat is out of the bag). It still hurts. We've all been there, young and inexperienced. This experience is new to me so I just wanted to find out how to tell and be courteous about it without offending anyone, especially if you're just dating. If I didn't care for the guy, I would've just said, "you don't cut it."

    I still wanted to see him so I just said I wacked off before we met. I'm sure things will get better if we continue to date as I will be more honest and will show him the ropes.
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    Nov 13, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    Well ... happened with me a lot ... but only when i am so nervous ... but at the end i jerk off .. however it takes long time ..

    to skip this ... i would open Porn while we r doing it icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 13, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
    surfrider28 said
    I couldn't cum because he killed my dick. There...I said it! (the cat is out of the bag). It still hurts. We've all been there, young and inexperienced.

    Before I got a BF, a 19 year old used to text me and come over. Really cute, happy, bouncy guy. But he hurt my dick every time. I tried repeatedly to teach him how to handle it, but he did not listen. I finally told him not to call me anymore. Good luck.
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    Nov 13, 2011 7:07 PM GMT
    its common not to be able to "Finish" when its expected for u to. I was with this guy had awesome sex and was ready to sploodge, he came first and he was riding me so i knew he would want to get off soon since he was done but i wasnt, and that thought made it impossible for me to finish, only happened once tho
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    Nov 13, 2011 7:56 PM GMT
    Nivek said
    surfrider28 said
    I couldn't cum because he killed my dick. There...I said it! (the cat is out of the bag). It still hurts. We've all been there, young and inexperienced.

    Before I got a BF, a 19 year old used to text me and come over. Really cute, happy, bouncy guy. But he hurt my dick every time. I tried repeatedly to teach him how to handle it, but he did not listen. I finally told him not to call me anymore. Good luck.


    I swear I've had a couple guys who were trying to recreate my foreskin they were tugging me so hard. And then there are the guys who scraped my sensitivity away with their teeth. I tried to make the fuckbuddyship with them work but it just didn't feel good. Since then, I've only hooked up with older guys. Just got tired of trying to teach.
  • blkdevil66

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    Nov 13, 2011 8:12 PM GMT
    HA! Problem. I think in my 30 something years of having sex I have only Cum about 5 or 6 times. It's an issue I have tried tons of techniques but nothing works. I thought it all stemmed from when I was a teen I read a book on how to make yourself last longer (as many of my friends had told me how they had cum after only a few minutes) so years later I can have sex for hours and Nothing. So I just explain this to partners so they know, Hey, I might not cum that's cool with me, I'm in this for the good time. I usually wait till the other person goes to clean up or something and rub it out after that. That even takes 15 minutes and up.
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 13, 2011 8:42 PM GMT
    surfrider28 saidI'm sure things will get better if we continue to date as I will be more honest and will show him the ropes.


    Most of the guys I date are college guys. You have to take the time ( and be patient) to teach him exactly what you want. It's true that most college guys are " gung-ho" about things, but a little lesson as you go along, finding out what he likes and teaching him what you want him to do goes a long way. icon_wink.gif
  • Obese

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    Nov 13, 2011 8:50 PM GMT
    Aside from him killing it you couldve just been nervous. Ive not been able to get hard a couple times I've been with guys or girls cause I was nervous. Pretty embarrassing lol.
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    Nov 13, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    No, I wasn't nervous at all. The first part was awesome. One guy nailed it (I think his screen name is horrorgym or something). Once someone gets off, you are expected to follow suit so there is some added pressure. Unfortunately the oral was just ok and the jack off was done really hard so we tried and tried to finish but came up short.




    Obese saidAside from him killing it you couldve just been nervous. Ive not been able to get hard a couple times I've been with guys or girls cause I was nervous. Pretty embarrassing lol.
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    Nov 13, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    Sounds like a scenario I had, though I was the 19 year old who couldn't make the other guy cum. Only having given a blowjob like 3 or so times, I'm not so good at it, though he just jacked off instead.
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    Nov 13, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    jaybird680 saidSounds like a scenario I had, though I was the 19 year old who couldn't make the other guy cum. Only having given a blowjob like 3 or so times, I'm not so good at it, though he just jacked off instead.


    This is usually what happens the first few times....it's normal. icon_wink.gif
  • flahotstuff

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    Nov 13, 2011 9:44 PM GMT
    You cant come at 28! Wait until you are 40! a 19 year old would make me have mulitple orgasms...............
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    Nov 13, 2011 10:29 PM GMT
    Only once have I found a guy who was penis sensitivity challenged as I am. He still wanted me to come with him simultaneously and...that just never happened. Which was a shame because this guy was beautiful.

    I get little enjoyment out of a guy going down on me. I just don't feel anything and gagging noises are a bit disconcerting. Which is probably ok since I should just buy more lube and leave. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Frequent masturbation with your hands causes problems due to your ability to grip. Switching out to something like a fleshjack or a bit of celibacy will improve your chances as it will remove the brain-contact link. And, I had to stop wearing the Cin2 y-back thong that worked so well for running. If it constantly rubs, your brain pulls the plug after a while. Boxers help.
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    Nov 13, 2011 10:34 PM GMT
    Why dont you just show him how you like it done?
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    Nov 13, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    I don't like hooking up with college guys at all. Granted I am one but the ones I met honestly have no idea what the fuck they are doing. Pisses me off sooo much. I am not saying I am a pro but at least I know how to get a guy off.

    Thats why I generally go after guys in their 30's.

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    Nov 13, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    I always cum in time with any partner. I let it gush the minute he does.
  • offshore

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    Nov 13, 2011 11:57 PM GMT
    AlexanderB saidI don't like hooking up with college guys at all. Granted I am one but the ones I met honestly have no idea what the fuck they are doing. Pisses me off sooo much. I am not saying I am a pro but at least I know how to get a guy off.

    Thats why I generally go after guys in their 30's.

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    This! 100% enthusiasm, 0% skills, most college age dudes have no idea what they are doing, It really hurts if they top, and they don;t know quite how to cooperate when they bottom.

    That's why virgins turns me off
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 14, 2011 12:14 AM GMT
    blkdevil66 saidHA! Problem. I think in my 30 something years of having sex I have only Cum about 5 or 6 times. It's an issue I have tried tons of techniques but nothing works. I thought it all stemmed from when I was a teen I read a book on how to make yourself last longer (as many of my friends had told me how they had cum after only a few minutes) so years later I can have sex for hours and Nothing. So I just explain this to partners so they know, Hey, I might not cum that's cool with me, I'm in this for the good time. I usually wait till the other person goes to clean up or something and rub it out after that. That even takes 15 minutes and up.
    Now that would suck. Wow, sex can not be that pleasurable if you are not cumming as well
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    Nov 14, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc said
    blkdevil66 saidHA! Problem. I think in my 30 something years of having sex I have only Cum about 5 or 6 times. It's an issue I have tried tons of techniques but nothing works. I thought it all stemmed from when I was a teen I read a book on how to make yourself last longer (as many of my friends had told me how they had cum after only a few minutes) so years later I can have sex for hours and Nothing. So I just explain this to partners so they know, Hey, I might not cum that's cool with me, I'm in this for the good time. I usually wait till the other person goes to clean up or something and rub it out after that. That even takes 15 minutes and up.
    Now that would suck. Wow, sex can not be that pleasurable if you are not cumming as well


    I've wondered about that type of situation too-- like does it even feel good for the person?
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    Nov 14, 2011 12:51 AM GMT
    your partner must be really awkward at that time, icon_sad.gif