Up the ass is ughh.

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    Nov 13, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    Personally I haven't done it before (either giving or taking) and I find the idea quite repulsive. It is fascinating in a gory kind of way, though. But I need enlightenment on this one!

    1. Does it smell? Bad?
    2. To the bottoms, won't it make you want to take a dump right there and then? And won't you become... loose and flabby?
    3. To the eaters, how can you stand it??!

    These are painfully blunt questions, but I assure you all young virgin boys like me out there are thinking exactly the same thing icon_twisted.gif
  • rogerfederer

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    Nov 13, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    ur thinking strictly that the bottom doesn't clean himself which CAN happen but if u wash up then you should have no concerns.

    1,) the smell is very sexy like it smells like sex if that makes any sense. But i wouldn't say it smells bad....i dnt wanna wear it as perfume but its hot in the moment

    2.) it kinda hurts the first few moments but its nvr made me want to use the bathroom....thats only if ur super tight. and unless u having sex everyday bottoming then no i dnt think u'll becomes loose or flabby

    3.) Again, if u clean very well then u should have no problems...it would b like licking or kissing any other part of the body (a vagina for example)
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    Nov 13, 2011 6:31 PM GMT
    I'm a top, but I actually created a video I call "Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it." on xtube.
    http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=DqtMu-G540-&c=myv&page=1
    I address a lot of whys/hows in this including your questions.
    Enjoy!
    Pete (I love fucking butt!)
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    Nov 13, 2011 8:14 PM GMT
    To The Chris Guy,,Don't knock what you don't know,,I've been bottoming and topping since I was younger,,even back then us guy's knew how to clean up before and after,,as long as you're not RUOGH the first time it wont hurt that much either way,,and as some one else said the taste is ok as long as it's cleaned just like any other body part.
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    Nov 13, 2011 8:24 PM GMT
    There's no rule saying you MUST do anal sex - giving or receiving.
    I've tried both several times and never enjoyed either.
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    Nov 14, 2011 1:22 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThere's no rule saying you MUST do anal sex - giving or receiving.
    I've tried both several times and never enjoyed either.


    Yeah, that's exactly how I feel. So what DO you actually do when you make out with guys?
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    Nov 14, 2011 1:57 AM GMT


    Chris. Please watch this educational video which will explain what gay men like to do with ass sex......
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    Nov 14, 2011 12:10 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said

    Chris. Please watch this educational video which will explain what gay men like to do with ass sex......


    He's really getting into it, no? The first guy seems pretty excited about pupu to me icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 14, 2011 1:37 PM GMT

    This is what Tosh had to say about that meeting.
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    Nov 14, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    I like it myself.. to each his own
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    Nov 14, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    GreenHopper saidI like it myself.. to each his own


    Fair enough icon_wink.gif But why do you like it? I'm not looking to reject the idea, just to better understand it. Maybe even get converted!
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 14, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy said
    GreenHopper saidI like it myself.. to each his own


    Fair enough icon_wink.gif But why do you like it? I'm not looking to reject the idea, just to better understand it. Maybe even get converted!

    Why do guys in generally like it (getting fucked)? Because the anal area has tons of nerve endings that get stimulated with a pleasurable response effect. Get a guy to rim you and you will understand that part. Because man has a prostate gland (which is what the doc feels when he sticks his finger up your ass during an exam) which gets massaged in the process, producing waves of pleasurable sensations. Try using a dildo or vibrator if you want to find out. Your posts indicate (I think) that you are not sure at all about gay sex. Watch a lot of gay porn, and see what turns you on by watching. Then, when you are bold enough, try those acts. If nothing in gay porn turns you on, you are probably not gay. As to the pleasure of the anal areas and the prostate, use google, and you will learn a lot. There is an old book (from the 70's perhaps?) The Joy of Gay Sex. Read it.
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    Nov 14, 2011 3:50 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy said
    paulflexes saidThere's no rule saying you MUST do anal sex - giving or receiving.
    I've tried both several times and never enjoyed either.


    Yeah, that's exactly how I feel. So what DO you actually do when you make out with guys?

    I don't know what paulflexes does, but I do whatever occurs to me at that moment. It could be just about anything vanilla. Unless you are highly into some particular fetish, sex really isn't planned out that much - at least not for me. Part of what what I do is whether at that instant I am trying to turn on/pleasure my partner or I am lying back and receiving his attentions. You would be surprised at how if you are in the mood, nearly your whole body can become an erogenous zone. I would suggest that you find some experienced versatile guy that is all over you, lay back, and spend the night letting him pleasure you.
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    Nov 14, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    It's impossible to explain why someone likes something.
    You need to try it first and see if you like it, maybe even with few different guys.
    I was repulsed by this idea, when one guy offered me his butt, but went along with it.
    Didn't enjoy it that first time.
    Then there were few more.
    Now... it's like: OH YEAH!!! BRING IT ON!!!
    I even bottomed few times.
    Didn't like it myself, but was pleased that other guys enjoyed themselves.
    It's hard to explain why!
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    Nov 14, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    Chris, is there someone who you are planning to get intimate with? Is that what got you started thinking all about these sex stuff? icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 15, 2011 1:13 AM GMT
    uberick saidChris, is there someone who you are planning to get intimate with? Is that what got you started thinking all about these sex stuff? icon_smile.gif


    lol NO.
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    Nov 15, 2011 1:19 AM GMT
    my8kitso saidI'm a top, but I actually created a video I call "Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it." on xtube.
    http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=DqtMu-G540-&c=myv&page=1
    I address a lot of whys/hows in this including your questions.
    Enjoy!
    Pete (I love fucking butt!)


    Impressive video Pete!
    Very instructive without being crudely pornographic.
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    Nov 15, 2011 3:16 AM GMT
    rogerfederer saidur thinking strictly that the bottom doesn't clean himself which CAN happen but if u wash up then you should have no concerns.

    1,) the smell is very sexy like it smells like sex if that makes any sense. But i wouldn't say it smells bad....i dnt wanna wear it as perfume but its hot in the moment

    2.) it kinda hurts the first few moments but its nvr made me want to use the bathroom....thats only if ur super tight. and unless u having sex everyday bottoming then no i dnt think u'll becomes loose or flabby

    3.) Again, if u clean very well then u should have no problems...it would b like licking or kissing any other part of the body (a vagina for example)


    You are giving sex advice now? how ironic when a few weeks ago, you started a thread saying how you couldn't taking it up the ass and that you were going to break up with your boyfriend icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 15, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
    my8kitso saidI'm a top, but I actually created a video I call "Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it." on xtube.
    http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=DqtMu-G540-&c=myv&page=1
    I address a lot of whys/hows in this including your questions.
    Enjoy!
    Pete (I love fucking butt!)


    Cool.

    I would add that they should keep the fingernails trim and smooth.


    I'm actually more interested in anal in theory. I fantasize about getting fucked, but in reality it's sometimes not worth the trouble. And it doesn't feel as good for me as I wish it did. I think some peoples' prostates are more responsive than others, and some can even cum from stimulation to their prostate only. Others feel just a little nice feeling.

    Also, I'd say that it feels better when you're jerking off at the same time as rubbing the prostate. I don't feel any pleasure from it when not touching my dick.
  • rogerfederer

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    Nov 15, 2011 4:04 AM GMT

    You are giving sex advice now? how ironic when a few weeks ago, you started a thread saying how you couldn't taking it up the ass and that you were going to break up with your boyfriend icon_lol.gif[/quote]

    ummm we in fact did break up btw. and just bc i dnt like it doesn't mean i cant give advice. Im not gunna say NO DONT DO IT IT SUCKS ASS but i think i can give my opinion figuring he was asking for some. Ok? thanx.
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    Nov 15, 2011 7:55 AM GMT
    I didn't know people thought about sex so clinically.....try it, if it feels good then keep doing it...if not, don't

    this is like a person that looks at food and decides he doesn't like it. I decide I don't like certain foods after I taste them. I even go back and try it a different way, just to make sure. I didn't decide I don't like scary movies by eating popcorn. I watched a few with my eyes. Let the appropriate sense do it's job and turn off the brain. icon_smile.gif.

    In this case, let your dick and ass decide....Keep it simple!!
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    Nov 15, 2011 9:45 AM GMT
    TheChrisGuy said
    paulflexes saidThere's no rule saying you MUST do anal sex - giving or receiving.
    I've tried both several times and never enjoyed either.


    Yeah, that's exactly how I feel. So what DO you actually do when you make out with guys?
    Pretty much everything that does not involve anal play (not even rimming). Flexing/touching and mutual masturbation is my fav. Fortunately it's not difficult to find others down here who like the same thing.
  • SoDakGuy

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    Nov 15, 2011 5:17 PM GMT
    Anal sex gets better over time. First time, it kinda sucks, but after awhile, it's LOADS OF FUN. I didn't care for it at 18, but now at 34, I REALLY enjoy it.
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    Nov 15, 2011 5:36 PM GMT
    kevinap saidI didn't know people thought about sex so clinically.....try it, if it feels good then keep doing it...if not, don't

    this is like a person that looks at food and decides he doesn't like it. I decide I don't like certain foods after I taste them. I even go back and try it a different way, just to make sure. I didn't decide I don't like scary movies by eating popcorn. I watched a few with my eyes. Let the appropriate sense do it's job and turn off the brain. icon_smile.gif.

    In this case, let your dick and ass decide....Keep it simple!!



    Exactly!
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    Nov 15, 2011 6:36 PM GMT
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