So I think I've become a hypocrite

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    Nov 14, 2011 10:14 AM GMT
    In the sense that I've kind of always not understood how guys could develop feelings or crushes on a straight guy. I always figured it's probably some fantasy or a typical male 'wanting what you can't have' syndrome.
    Then this straight guy (presumably) last week was super nice to me the first time I met him and now in this particular circumstance I think I've let myself think about him too much and thus kind of developed an attraction.

    Right now I'm just giving him the benefit of the doubt that he's just a naturally super friendly guy, but maybe it's also because this is the first time it's happened to me I think.
    I have straight friends who I am good friends with but it took time to get to that level.
    Lol or maybe I'm just easily smittened which sucks since I thought I was tougher than this but I guess I'm not.

    Anyway just felt like sharing this since this is my only outlet at the moment.
    Tips on moving on from something like this? I naturally tend to just use time and let it pass, but anything to speed it along would be nifty.
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    Nov 14, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    You can't help who you're attracted to but if you're still thinking the same way about people who crush on straight guys then you're a hypocrite after all. Hey it could be worse.
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    Nov 14, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
    Shinra_Tensei saidrape him.


    LMAO!!! Thats what my friends always say when i have a crush on someone lol
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    Nov 16, 2011 1:03 PM GMT
    Mixleanmachine saidYou can't help who you're attracted to but if you're still thinking the same way about people who crush on straight guys then you're a hypocrite after all. Hey it could be worse.


    Thanks lol. Well I don't really judge people who have had feelings for straight guys, I just never understood why they would let themselves get to that point. I can understand the 'fantasy' of it but the reality is usually different (depending on what you're looking for I guess).
    But I can kind of see how it can start lol, not many genuinely nice guys I've come across (presuming he is of course, I don't know him) and so I think from there I let it feed my thoughts.

    Also, lol to the rape suggestion.