How would you approach a Guy you "like" without looking to infatuated/foolish?

  • Tomz

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    Nov 14, 2011 11:04 PM GMT
    I mean in real life I'm interested in your techniques and pick-up lines & philosophies or faults in doing this.

    A friendly curious inquiry...
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    Nov 14, 2011 11:10 PM GMT
    Depends on how much I like him.

    If I want him right then and there, I might be classy.

    "hey..........you wanna fuck?"

    If I want to be friends with the person:

    (Walk up to the person) "My name is Clay, what brings you to (where ever we are)? Then go from there.

    If I want to date the person:

    Same as above but I end the conversation by setting up a lunch or something to meet again.

    If its someone I think (for some reason) is out of my league.

    "I embarrass myself and that usually gets my foot in the door/his attention then I try and do damage control. Meaning I try and let them know how embarrassed blah blah blah I am.

  • Tomz

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    Nov 14, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    I really asking because I'm extremely shy in real life and think I'd never have the balls to actually be able to do it myself, you know make contact with somebody I fancied. Thanks for post'n clay I enjoyed your thoughts you know.
  • Nayro

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    Nov 14, 2011 11:26 PM GMT
    Claystation saidDepends on how much I like him.

    If I want him right then and there, I might be classy.

    "hey..........you wanna fuck?"

    If I want to be friends with the person:

    (Walk up to the person) "My name is Clay, what brings you to (where ever we are)? Then go from there.

    If I want to date the person:

    Same as above but I end the conversation by setting up a lunch or something to meet again.

    If its someone I think (for some reason) is out of my league.

    "I embarrass myself and that usually gets my foot in the door/his attention then I try and do damage control. Meaning I try and let them know how embarrassed blah blah blah I am.



    Ur first pickup line worked a lot for u I guess? icon_razz.gif ^^
  • Tomz

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    Nov 14, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    Moonhawk cool name btw "keep that thought" that's kinda what I'm affraid of I think my mind in a "dear God like me back" approach to a Guy I'd have a zillion thoughts racing through my thinkings; fluttering though my mind lol. I won't lie some of the answer here that might be giving I'll use when I see a man I like in fantasy imagining I could actually use in practice your philosophies...
  • 1232121d

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    Nov 14, 2011 11:58 PM GMT
    I have the same problem. When it comes to real life, I don't know how to approach a guy who I like. Even though I have a suitable pick-up line, I think I would still be very passive.
  • Tomz

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    Nov 15, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    Kinda sucks don't it junn I know I really do...

    I can foresee another aspect of suckiness watching another guy go up to your guy your checking out and scoring hitting yourself in the head ((v-8 moment)) for failing to act.

    Oh moonhawk someguys find older guys rather hot like me for example money and muscles do nothing for me but a handsome seasoned wiser man makes me simply melt. I older guy knows what he's doing and I feel can teach me.
  • Tomz

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    Nov 15, 2011 12:17 AM GMT
    That's very sound I'll try that Moonz...
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    Nov 15, 2011 12:51 AM GMT
    funny gifs
  • Tomz

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    Nov 15, 2011 1:23 AM GMT
    That's quite adorable
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    Nov 15, 2011 1:59 AM GMT
    "Do you think this rag smells like draught of living death?" icon_biggrin.gif
  • 1232121d

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    Nov 15, 2011 3:59 AM GMT
    I just hope that everything can work out, and I can find somebody I like, also he likes me back before Christmas. Wish you the best icon_smile.gif
  • Tomz

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    Nov 15, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    I rooting for you Jinn u2 have a awesome coming xmass.
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 15, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    I would walk up to him and say..."Hey, nice shoes"....icon_cool.gif
  • Tomz

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    Nov 15, 2011 4:51 AM GMT
    Ha! I'll try to remember that-1'z