Gay stereotypes/gaydar

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    Nov 16, 2011 5:48 AM GMT
    Within 24 hours I am making a move on a guy that is 10/10 for what I look for, which is not traditionally considered "top notch" in the gay community because I value/appraise things differently than the norm.

    Super cute to me. Super smart. Questionably gay - gaydar pings heavy, only other person unmarried in our lecture after professor made an awk question out of a molehill. He LinkedIn my friend request. He is very skinny, taller than me, and weighs more than me weight soaking wet even if I carry a big old blanket. I emailed him notes from a class he missed in a diplomatic way

    Likely going to shoot myself in the foot on this ... but he is muy guapo.

    How do you deal with the rejection when Faggy McButterpants turns you down?
  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 16, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    Having a basement with a well is a good way to cure their lack of love. Just remember to throw down a bottle of lotion daily saying 'It puts the lotion on the skin.....'

    It is possible to make someone love you. Stockholm Syndrome is only the tip of the psychological Iceberg there.

    At a more healthier level, rejection is never really easy and there is no 'cure' except to get up and get back on the horse and try to ride again.
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    Nov 16, 2011 8:12 AM GMT
    Faggy McButterpants? You really want to date a guy whose nickname make him sound like he has diarrhea?
    You're not kidding about valuing/appraising things differently than the norm.

    So either he goes out with you or he doesn't. If you're rejected, you move on.
    The alternative is to obsess over this one thing for the rest of your life.
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    Nov 16, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
    I think you need to link a facebook so we can appraise him further and vote on his homosexuality.
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    Nov 16, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    adam228 saidI think you need to link a facebook so we can appraise him further and vote on his homosexuality.


    I like it! Very democraticicon_smile.gif
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    Nov 16, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    adam228 saidI think you need to link a facebook so we can appraise him further and vote on his homosexuality.


    Or steal him first.
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    Nov 16, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    You probably don't want to start using that endearing nickname on the first date.
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    Nov 16, 2011 2:45 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy said
    adam228 saidI think you need to link a facebook so we can appraise him further and vote on his homosexuality.


    Or steal him first.


    shhhhhh! you'll ruin the plan