I don't if my friend is gay, but I just want to kiss him!

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    Nov 16, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    So one of my friend in geometry class is really cute, tall, blue eyes, blonde and has a really good personality. Sometimes I think he's gay but I just can't read him. Every time I see him I just want to jump on him and make him mine.
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    Nov 16, 2011 2:32 PM GMT
    So what should I do?
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    Nov 16, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
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    Never in the history of ever, have I seen this story end well icon_razz.gif

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    Nov 16, 2011 2:36 PM GMT
    Walk up to him, drop your pants and tell him you want to put it in his rombus.
  • Latenight30

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    Nov 16, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    how about coffee or study together. maybe he feels the same thing for you.
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    Nov 16, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    One of this days I'm going to walk up to him and tell him " I want you baby" lol
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 16, 2011 4:34 PM GMT
    Roofie.
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    Nov 16, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    Grow some balls and ASK him.
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    Nov 16, 2011 4:50 PM GMT
    Just be honest," I really like you as a friend & your personality .Please don't take this the wrong way . I find you attactive,would you be interested in a date?" & then you will get your answer
  • groundcombat

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    Nov 16, 2011 5:47 PM GMT
    Strike up casual conversation where you ask if he has a girlfriend. If not, subtly ask why not.
  • He_Man

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    Nov 16, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    How long have you known him for? Maybe you should give yourself some time to just be friends, especially since you don't even know his sexuality.

    I have to agree with the above statements that it almost never works out if you try to push yourself on him and he doesn't recipricate your feelings. I've lost friends in the past because I read the messages wrong and pursued something that wasn't really there.

    If you still want to find out, you can always going drinking with him and get a little buzzed, try to make a move, and then blame it on the booze if it doesn't work out in your favor. Just say, hey man, it was the beer talking, not me! icon_twisted.gif

    Note: I just saw that you're not the legal age to drink, so I am not condoning underage drinking. Booze and drugs are bad. M'kay!
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    Nov 16, 2011 5:58 PM GMT
    CuddleBuddy saidHow long have you known him for? Maybe you should give yourself some time to just be friends, especially since you don't even know his sexuality.

    I have to agree with the above statements that it almost never works out if you try to push yourself on him and he doesn't recipricate your feelings. I've lost friends in the past because I read the messages wrong and pursued something that wasn't really there.

    If you still want to find out, you can always going drinking with him and get a little buzzed, try to make a move, and then blame it on the booze if it doesn't work out in your favor. Just say, hey man, it was the beer talking, not me! icon_twisted.gif

    Note: I just saw that you're not the legal age to drink, so I am not condoning underage drinking. Booze and drugs are bad. M'kay!


    Then you turn 21, and you find out almost everyone does them.

    Edit: Also, OP, remember their can be many things at work here. Your friend may be closeted and not ready to deal with those feelings, or he may just be in straight up denial. Making a move will not get you what you want, you are young and have time for a relationship, let him make the first move.
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    Nov 16, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    FIXED:

    "Then you turn 21 and realize that almost everyone you knew has been doing them for quite some time already..."
  • LJay

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    Nov 16, 2011 6:14 PM GMT
    You did what, T?

    OP, since his is geometry class, you gotta come up with an angle! Try inviting him for a couple of beers and at some point asking him how he handles guys hitting on him. Do it like you are asking for advice.
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    Nov 16, 2011 6:49 PM GMT
    Bad idea.
  • dabcrt

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    Nov 16, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    Chainers............you dissapoint with that reply..........we know what you would doicon_razz.gif
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    Nov 16, 2011 7:37 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidWalk up to him, drop your pants and tell him you want to put it in his rombus.


    haha NICE
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    Nov 16, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    I've been friends with him since the last 2 years, he hasn't have a girlfriend, hes always around guys but he doesn't seem gay at all! Every time I'm next ti him I just want to eat him
  • lykewise

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    Nov 16, 2011 10:10 PM GMT
    Kawalsky94 saidI've been friends with him since the last 2 years, he hasn't have a girlfriend, hes always around guys but he doesn't seem gay at all! Every time I'm next ti him I just want to eat him


    I was in the guys position actually...

    Does he know you are gay?

    I had a friend that was openly gay and he couldn't read my gayness. I wasn't open about it. I noticed he the way he responded to some hints I gave him and when we talked about stuff he always tried to flirt a little bit. I did it too, but not obviously.

    He gave up and at one moment tried to hook me up with one of his girl-friends... assuming I was straight.

    I wasn't ready for him to kiss me, but I wouldn't push him away or anything.

    I think you are in a lose/lose situation.
    You should win his trust in the hopes he might open up to you.

    Good luck!
  • Obese

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    Nov 21, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    Lol I did this to one of my friends last night accidently. We were joking around that we were gonna kiss and I didn't anticipate how close he was. Luckily we were drinking and it didn't get awkward.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 21, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    Kawalsky94 saidSo one of my friend in geometry class is really cute, tall, blue eyes, blonde and has a really good personality. Sometimes I think he's gay but I just can't read him. Every time I see him I just want to jump on him and make him mine.
    well a good way to start is to ask if he is gay. i would hate for you to lose a potential friend because you jumped the gun.
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 21, 2011 12:31 AM GMT
    Kawalsky94 saidI've been friends with him since the last 2 years, he hasn't have a girlfriend, hes always around guys but he doesn't seem gay at all! Every time I'm next to him I just want to eat him

    I would suggest that you not suggest to him yet that you eat him. If you have been "friends" with him for 2 years, you could go have a beer together, or whatever else you do together, and confess to him your "secret" that you are gay, and ask him if it affects your friendship. If it bothers him, you weren't much of a friend to him to begin with. If it doesn't, at least he knows you are, and if he is, he may be willing to reveal that to you.

    There is always the sneaky approach - go to a movie together, and let your leg "accidentally" brush against his during an exciting scene and see what happens.
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    Nov 21, 2011 12:31 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidWalk up to him, drop your pants and tell him you want to put it in his rombus.


    HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! this made me die a little bit.
  • mybud

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    Nov 21, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    Jump on said guy...If he beats your ass...He's str8..
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    Nov 22, 2011 4:56 AM GMT
    Take a road trip with him. Sleep in the same room. Maybe there will only be one bed in the room. icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif