How was your first time?

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    Nov 16, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    How was it when you came out to your parents and friends?
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 16, 2011 8:29 PM GMT
    My mom's first words were, "Did you sleep with him for money?" Then my Dad put me into a headlock. True story.
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    Nov 16, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    Lol, my mom told me "dont you have a dick already? Why would you want to game another one" true story.
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    Nov 16, 2011 9:35 PM GMT
    Told my folks and then left and spent a few days at my current bf's house letting them work it out. My friends didn't care.
  • wellwell

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    Nov 16, 2011 9:36 PM GMT
    Hardly spent a moment "In" (well, maybe a day or two while thinking) *blissful*
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    Nov 16, 2011 9:38 PM GMT
    My mom is still in denial... the subject has kinda put a distance between us.. its sad but whatever, shit happens
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    Nov 16, 2011 9:45 PM GMT
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  • shutoman

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    Nov 16, 2011 9:53 PM GMT
    I was 12 and called my parents into their bedroom to tell them the news. They were lovely about it. But we all concluded that I might be going through a phase and I suggested we go to the doctor (this was the 1970s). We agreed to keep it under review. Then my mother got terminally ill and it seemed churlish to bang on about it and I grew up very discreet in a rural area miles from anyone gay let alone attractive...

    Eventually, I didn't come out of the closet; I just let the door swing open.
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 16, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    I was in the hospital for a few days after my dad beat the hell out of me. icon_cry.gif
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    Nov 16, 2011 10:11 PM GMT
    malefeet saidI was in the hospital for a few days after my dad beat the hell out of me. icon_cry.gif


    So sorry to hear about this, Will. You're a terrific guy in spite of it, so just be yourself and continue to have a great life.

    In my case, I lived with my grandparents - who were pretty much okay with it, thanks to their exposure to some cool older gay friends who were great people. These older gay friends of my family paved the way for me - and were elegant, bright, learned, accomplished, successful, etc. The style and savior faire of some of these gay people made it easy for me. My grandparents might have been a little dismayed that there weren't going to be any "little blond grandchildren" but they didn't make too many comments about it. As long as I stayed in school, worked hard and led what they considered a good life (with the above mentioned attributes) they were fine with my sexuality.

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    Nov 16, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
    My rents are fine with it, but I had to come out to my mom twice because... well... she thought that it was normal for guys to have things for other dudes the same way that girls have a thing for other girls.
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    Nov 16, 2011 10:33 PM GMT
    Kawalsky94 saidLol, my mom told me "dont you have a dick already? Why would you want to game another one" true story.


    That's awesome. My mom said, "well I'm a bitch, your sisters are bitches, your brother is a dick, and your dad is an idiot.....so you're the normal one."
    Also true story
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    Nov 16, 2011 10:46 PM GMT
    My friends didn't really comment... probably because I treated it like no big deal and just worked my boyfriend into a conversation.

    My mom said, "I guess I need to read about that..." haha
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    Nov 16, 2011 11:25 PM GMT
    Completely to my surprise, they were cool with it. My mom said, "so when are we all having dinner together."
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    Nov 16, 2011 11:25 PM GMT
    In the other hand my father found out when he saw me kissing my exboyfriend he went crazy n more crazy when he found out he was way older than me at that time
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    Nov 16, 2011 11:42 PM GMT
    I had the "advantage" of my brother telling them a few months earlier that he was getting divorced from his wife. I knew how he delivered the news, and pretty much followed the script word for word until I dropped the bomb. I think they were somewhat relieved. Mom teared up and said it didn't change how she loved me. Dad agreed. Then we all drank heavily....
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    Nov 16, 2011 11:55 PM GMT
    simple we didnt talk for like 2.5 years.icon_confused.gif


    my dad and step mom my real mom was like took u long enough.
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    Nov 17, 2011 12:07 AM GMT
    I wrote a letter to my parents...which was a very stupid way to come out. I had to wait and wait for them to get the letter and then I was dreading the phone call. It turned out well for the most part. My friends at the time didn't take it well and some thought I was just doing it for attention...so I got new friends.
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    Nov 17, 2011 1:49 PM GMT
    To quote my Mom, "of all my kids, I have always thought we were the most alike...I guess we have one more thing in common." icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 29, 2011 6:20 PM GMT
    Haven't Told them yet, and I don't think I would ever do it 'cause it's way too complicated in my country , my family would just die icon_cry.gif
  • fitnfun1

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    Nov 29, 2011 6:24 PM GMT
    zachdust, thats hillarious. I haven't come out yet either, my family is LDS (mormon)
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    Nov 29, 2011 6:42 PM GMT
    Actually I was the one that went into shock, not them. They were not accepting of homosexuality but didn't cut me off. I was kind of hoping they would... The way it happened, I couldn't pull an attitude. I got depressed and was inactive for about a year while I was trying to sort my head out.
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    Nov 29, 2011 6:46 PM GMT
    There was that unmistakable sound of disappointment .
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    Nov 29, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    My mom cried because she thought I would have a harder life, but she was completely fine with it. My dad too. Nothing's changed.
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    Nov 29, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
    I told my father last week. He whooped my ass but he can't beat it out of me like my brother said. My Mama don't give a fuck about it she just say be happy icon_cool.gif