Jul 19, 2007 7:17 AM GMT
Y'know, guys, there are a lot of guys who I've become friends with, who are so beautiful within and without. Some who I love like they were my own kids, some as friends/brothers, and some I plain just have a crush on. But what I see is more than the body. It's the whole person. Some put themselves down or think they are not of worth because some boyfriend or date has made them feel like window dressing. It kills me to see people, REAL people, treated this way.
Sometimes I would love to see their private pics, but I just don't feel it's appropriate to ask, because I don't want them to feel like an object to be oogled (sp?). Therefore, I don't ask.
Nevertheless, I am a man, and just like them, I feel the pangs and longings too, and appreciate the erotic nature of the male body.
I also don't feel that I should ask because I don't have any private pics up of myself. Just not fair (not that my out-of-shape body is anything to look at, here between jobs and gyms.
So how do you all feel about this subject? Do you just ask, do you wait for them to offer or just unlock the pics or what?
Let's hear your opinions and personal policies.
Sometimes I would love to see their private pics, but I just don't feel it's appropriate to ask, because I don't want them to feel like an object to be oogled (sp?). Therefore, I don't ask.
Nevertheless, I am a man, and just like them, I feel the pangs and longings too, and appreciate the erotic nature of the male body.
I also don't feel that I should ask because I don't have any private pics up of myself. Just not fair (not that my out-of-shape body is anything to look at, here between jobs and gyms.
So how do you all feel about this subject? Do you just ask, do you wait for them to offer or just unlock the pics or what?
Let's hear your opinions and personal policies.
