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    Nov 17, 2011 10:33 PM GMT
    Okey so I went on a party vacation with a group of friends.
    The first night out I was dancing on a bar in the club (very drunk).
    This hot guy comes up to me and wants to dance, so I jump of the bar and start dancing, and he starts hugging me and squeezing my ass.
    Btw this was not a gay club.
    10 min later I needed to take a piss, when I come back he is gone, but that was okey since it was day 1 out of 7, I was pretty sure that I would run into him again.
    The second day, went out again, in the club I see him making out with a girl on the dancefloor.
    And I thought to my self "phew... could have made a huge fool out of myself there".
    Couple of days goes by, and one of the last nights this new guy comes up and dances with me.
    All of my friends were making gestures "go for it!".
    So later he askes me if we want to go out and talk, so we go out and I just had to come clean and tell him, so I said.
    "I just wanna get this out... Do you like guys? He said "What?! Nooo, I have a girlfriend! Did you think I was gay?".
    After that I was pretty embaressed, but I was drunk so I got over quick.
    But is this normal? That str8 dudes comes up to you and wanna dance? Why not waste time at a girl instead?
    Or was it me who was desperate, or would you guys have done the same thing?
    Haha one of my friends told me "Maybe he thought you were ugly outside the club, and said he was str8".
    But I choose to belive that he had a girlfriend for my confidence sake.

    P.S. sorry about the english.
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    Nov 17, 2011 11:10 PM GMT
    You obviously don't know how to play the DL game. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 18, 2011 12:42 AM GMT
    haha in high school i flirted with all the guys on the football team. i thought we had something there... icon_lol.gif o well

    i would have been like
    icon_wink.gif me too. heres my number so we can talk about vagina and football
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    Nov 18, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    It depends on where the club is. I suspect the first guy was bisexual and that's why he was grabbing your ass. The second probably thought you might have a sister that looks like you that he can date icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 18, 2011 12:53 AM GMT
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    Nov 18, 2011 12:59 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou obviously don't know how to play the DL game. icon_lol.gif


    I actually do not... what happens after?
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    Nov 18, 2011 1:15 AM GMT
    Haha well I need to stop embarrassing myself...
    From now on I will never suspect a guy for being gay unless I feel something hard!
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    Nov 18, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    party247 saidHaha well I need to stop embarrassing myself...
    From now on I will never suspect a guy for being gay unless I feel something hard!



    ..and I think it's better to get a man that knows what he wants and will be open about it.

    -Doug



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    Nov 18, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    The part of the story that doesn't add up is...a str8 guy...at a str8 bar/club comes up and dances with you icon_eek.gif I have never...ever... seen this
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    Nov 18, 2011 6:56 AM GMT
    scottjock6 saidThe part of the story that doesn't add up is...a str8 guy...at a str8 bar/club comes up and dances with you icon_eek.gif I have never...ever... seen this


    Sweden
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    Nov 18, 2011 7:15 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier said
    scottjock6 saidThe part of the story that doesn't add up is...a str8 guy...at a str8 bar/club comes up and dances with you icon_eek.gif I have never...ever... seen this


    Sweden


    But he was at a week-long party vacation... and the OP's remarks about the unusual-ness of the event might indicate that random str8 guys running up and dancing/grab-assing with each other in a distinctly non- "no-homo, brah" way is a bit out of the norm, even for such a sexually liberated nation as Sweden. icon_razz.gif

    My take on it: Guy #1 was probably drunk and a flake. Guy #2 wants some boy-lovin' on the DL, and OP killed any chance of tapping his ass (or getting tapped as the case may be) by "coming clean".

    The only upshot from this is a clean conscience of making Guy #2 deal honestly with the situation he was about to get into (getting entangled in the str8 boy's drama of having been with a boy, should said drama arise).
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    Nov 18, 2011 7:22 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier said
    scottjock6 saidThe part of the story that doesn't add up is...a str8 guy...at a str8 bar/club comes up and dances with you icon_eek.gif I have never...ever... seen this


    Sweden


    He's right. It's the Land of the Dancing Queen
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    Nov 18, 2011 9:01 AM GMT
    party247 saidHaha well I need to stop embarrassing myself...
    From now on I will never suspect a guy for being gay unless I feel something hard!


    Hahaha even after feeling that they are still in denial in my experience
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    Nov 18, 2011 11:01 AM GMT
    oaksen said
    ThePenIsMyTier said
    scottjock6 saidThe part of the story that doesn't add up is...a str8 guy...at a str8 bar/club comes up and dances with you icon_eek.gif I have never...ever... seen this


    Sweden


    He's right. It's the Land of the Dancing Queen
    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQOtOQy_dgfRIhUEB6Kxy5


    A promising post from a forum noob.

    I have my eyes on you. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 18, 2011 11:10 AM GMT
    party247 saidHaha well I need to stop embarrassing myself...
    From now on I will never suspect a guy for being gay unless I feel something hard!


    it's happened to me a few times too in "straight" clubs. I don't really understand what's up with these guys lol, so I also choose not to get my hopes up, unless they're being really obvious.
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    Nov 18, 2011 11:11 AM GMT
    No. Straight guys do not ask another guy outside to "talk". Maybe at church, but not at a bar where sexual overtones are common.
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    Nov 18, 2011 11:25 AM GMT
    berkco01 saidNo. Straight guys do not ask another guy outside to "talk". Maybe at church, but not at a bar where sexual overtones are common.


    so when you finally get them "talking", why then are they denying being into guys, being total cock teases and ruin all the fun???? icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 18, 2011 12:01 PM GMT
    Not to sound like a total rookie.. but what is DL or OP icon_redface.gif
  • jimjock

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    Nov 18, 2011 12:49 PM GMT
    Down Low:an under cover lover, closeted, not out, won't even admit to himself he likes it.

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    An honest question is good, but I'd give Google a try first. They can be vicious in here.

    Cheers.
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    Nov 18, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou obviously don't know how to play the DL game. icon_lol.gif


    haha