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Nov 18, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
Never felt this shitty before... Its like you wanna hold on til the very last minute. Feels bad broskis. 
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QUOTE Nov 18, 2011 12:42 AM GMT Sorry buddy. Shit sucks.
Edit: BUT... you're a good looking dude. The first break-up is always a mother fucker. After that, it's not that they get easier, it's just that you learn how to deal with the emotions. Just don't let it bring you down too far. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 18, 2011 12:43 AM GMTcock meat sandwich helps
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 18, 2011 1:00 AM GMT
MrPolish saidcock meat sandwich helps
sounds delicious right about now. -
QUOTE Nov 18, 2011 1:24 AM GMTI'll empathize as soon as I figure out what a broski is.
Is that like a kielbasa? -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 18, 2011 1:29 AM GMTAwww bro, broseph, brosephine baker, throw in some porn it'll be aight
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 18, 2011 1:31 AM GMTbroskis...Like Oh Mehh Gawwd! LOL
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 18, 2011 1:32 AM GMTTime to distract yourself with good sci-fi movies and sweet sweet Christmas ham.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 18, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
Claystation saidAwww bro, broseph, brosephine baker, throw in some porn it'll be aight
Sounds like a plan. Broseidon, lord of the brocean. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 18, 2011 1:39 AM GMT
hrhnick said
Claystation saidAwww bro, broseph, brosephine baker, throw in some porn it'll be aight
Sounds like a plan. Broseidon, lord of the brocean.
Thats Brocules to you bro -
QUOTE Nov 18, 2011 4:36 PM GMTBroke up with my boyfriend too, so I am sorry to hear that. Time is our only friend
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 19, 2011 3:28 AM GMTHang in there. Cry, get angry, blow off steam. Then move on. At least there's never a second first time.
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QUOTE Nov 20, 2011 5:47 PM GMTTime to update that RJ profile!
Then go out to a noisy bar full of broskis for some brewskis. Pick one of the teams from the football game on TV, and irrationally root for them. (Unless it's the Pats or the BC Eagles. Then you're being rational. :wink
It's all about gettin' it out'cha system.
Losing somebody you love to a breakup is just about only the second-worst thing to losing them to death. Don't pretend that it's gonna be easy at first. It's more of the proverbial "process."
One thing that works for some people is to imagine the new ex in unattractive ways: spinach hanging from his teeth, a dribbly nose, chomped-down fingernails, etc. If you keep hearing his voice, picture it when it's hacking, or maybe it whining stuff like, "I don't FEEL like it."
Jerk off to memories of some of the hotter sex you had. Be happy that those memories were made. They'll be there as long as you have the capacity for memory. This is part of "gettin' it out'cha system" too. It helps you put everything into perspective - that was then.
((("broski" hug)))
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_hZyzst6i0
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 20, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
hrhnick saidNever felt this shitty before... Its like you wanna hold on til the very last minute. Feels bad broskis.
I feel the same way, it just isn't working out for me. Gonna do it tonight, not looking forward to it at all.
Our personalities are just to different and adds a little to much stress to my life outside of work. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 20, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
Claystation said
hrhnick said
Claystation saidAwww bro, broseph, brosephine baker, throw in some porn it'll be aight
Sounds like a plan. Broseidon, lord of the brocean.
Thats Brocules to you bro
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 20, 2011 6:33 PM GMTMy first one put me into therapy.
My second one took three years to get over.
My third and most recent took 8 months.
From this sampling of personal experience and from chatting with a lot of other "broken up broskis", I've developed...
Iguana's Rules of Breakup (for relationships that last a year or more):
1) It will take on average 18 months to recover, without finding someone else.
2) Finding someone else is usually the final cure.
3) You shouldn't "try to be friends" with your ex right after the breakup. This puts you into a horrible limbo land of confusion and just extends your recovery time. It's best to take a complete break from each other until you're both detached. No in person, no email, unfriend on fb and other sites, etc.
4) Don't try to date for the first 6 months. It's gonna suck. But DO have some one night stands with hot boys if you can.
5) Spend most of your initial breakup time on yourself! Make a TODO list of all the things you've always neglected for yourself. Go to the dentist. Get that cool new haircut. Hire that trainer. Buy that mountain bike and start riding. Take that trip to Eastern Europe. You get the idea. Make yourself your best friend.
6) You know you've finally detached when you stop talking about, thinking about, and dreaming about the ex, and on the rare occasions that you do think about him, you remember mostly the positive things about the relationship. You don't get cranky about the negative things, but realize they were always there to begin with, and because of them, you've learned a bit more about what you need to make a relationship work, so even those negative memories are really a positive for you.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 20, 2011 7:26 PM GMTI hope you feel better now bro.
hrhnick saidNever felt this shitty before... Its like you wanna hold on til the very last minute. Feels bad broskis.
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QUOTE Nov 21, 2011 1:12 AM GMTWent through this back in September and it was horrible. We went from "I love you so much" to "We should go separate ways, but you're a great guy" in less than a week. Time is the best medicine, but be careful not to hang on. Don't Facebook them, pay attention to any of their social messaging, try to not see them out, and basically cut all types to the guy. If you want to be friends that's good, but give yourself time to see him as just a friend.
If you're like me there's a part that will always love him, but after a few months I realized it is better this way. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 21, 2011 1:19 AM GMT Sorry to hear!
At least you can get into a relationship without freaking out that you're gonna get hurt and running away.... lol. Avoidance is so hot right now.....
Can we have a pity party?
But really.... time will heal all wounds, as hard as it is. Keep your chin up. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 21, 2011 1:19 AM GMTFeel your pain bro. Just got dumped yesterday. Too bad we're not closer, i'd take you out for a drink. God knows I need one.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 21, 2011 1:20 AM GMT
ABC_123 saidFeel your pain bro. Just got dumped yesterday. Too bad we're not closer, i'd take you out for a drink. God knows I need one.
awe poor baby. let me take both of you out -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 21, 2011 1:26 AM GMT
somewherenew said
hrhnick saidNever felt this shitty before... Its like you wanna hold on til the very last minute. Feels bad broskis.
I feel the same way, it just isn't working out for me. Gonna do it tonight, not looking forward to it at all.
Our personalities are just to different and adds a little to much stress to my life outside of work.
I hope he does not read this before you meet tonight ;) -
QUOTE Nov 21, 2011 1:34 AM GMTMUSIC HELPS
You need a break up mix. I made one when I was dumped hard. I was broken because I had never been broken up with ever and then the first time it happened it was mean and hurtful.
LINDA RONSTADT'S YOURE NO GOOD has to be on it! Best break ups song ever!
Also hit Mariah Carey's Someday, Kelly CLarkson's All Ready Gone. And if you like country REBA: Strange, Consider Me Gone, Turn on the Radio, A NEW LOVE!!!!!
Music helps! Nothing SAD! Stay away from sad break up messages! -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 21, 2011 1:46 AM GMT
Aggieboy said
ABC_123 saidFeel your pain bro. Just got dumped yesterday. Too bad we're not closer, i'd take you out for a drink. God knows I need one.
awe poor baby. let me take both of you out
let's go, i'm ready -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Nov 21, 2011 2:03 AM GMT
chunner saidMUSIC HELPS
You need a break up mix. I made one when I was dumped hard. I was broken because I had never been broken up with ever and then the first time it happened it was mean and hurtful.
LINDA RONSTADT'S YOURE NO GOOD has to be on it! Best break ups song ever!
Also hit Mariah Carey's Someday, Kelly CLarkson's All Ready Gone. And if you like country REBA: Strange, Consider Me Gone, Turn on the Radio, A NEW LOVE!!!!!
Music helps! Nothing SAD! Stay away from sad break up messages!
Music does help.
I say anything by Mariah Carey
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