Too hot for comfort

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    Nov 18, 2011 6:52 AM GMT
    Have you ever been approached or propositioned by a guy whose physical appearance seems so way out of your league, to the extent that you're afraid to reciprocate. I know, it's probably ultimately self-defeating behavior. But on the other hand, not making a move lets me a) avoid all possible rejection, and b) hang onto that moment of initial attraction/lust. Kinda sad and perverted, huh?
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    Nov 18, 2011 6:58 AM GMT
    Not really, I don't believe in "leagues" because you never know what other guys find attractive, some guys have told me that they were afraid to approach me at first cuz they thought I was out of their league, and I just laugh because I found them super hot as well icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 18, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    You just need to not have the mindset that he is out of your league. Sometimes I feel that way just like you described. Just last weekend this gorgeous guy I had been lusting after from afar for months now actually ended up flirting with me all night and..well..spent the night at my place. Its moments like these that you gotta just let happen because there is a reason they are hitting on you.
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    Nov 18, 2011 4:32 PM GMT
    well I once ended up really disappointed one time. this super hot guy approached me in a club and we had fun that night, kissed and fondled a bit, but (for some reason) we went home seperately after exchanging numbers and decided to meet for coffee the next day.

    The next day I sensed things had already cooled, and between the lines I understood that he'd basically made out with me to escape/avoid some annoying guy.

    It was really a pity because he was totally my type, but I guess I wasn't so much his (without beer goggles)
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    Nov 18, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    If a guy is too mind-blowingly hot physically, I find its too much of a distraction. But I suppose that if it happened all the time you'd get used to it and chill out.
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    Nov 18, 2011 6:20 PM GMT
    I looked at your photos and I can't imagine very many people would be out of YOUR league. You're young, good-looking with a killer body. 99% of all men strive to be in YOUR league. You might need to work on your your image of yourself.