Did you ever think GUYS ARE GROSS?

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    Nov 19, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    I remember when I was younger thinking guys were all spit and bad smells. I've read lots of comments on Youtube (oh my) where young, homophobic guys will say things like "Who wants to roll around with another sweaty, hairy dude?"

    Something happened when I got older (early 20s) that that became a turn-on. I guess I looked at myself and said, "You're not grossed out by yourself, so why be grossed out with other guys."

    Just wondering if any of you made that switch, or if you were pining guys from Day 1. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 19, 2011 5:20 AM GMT
    Shutt up! I'm being honest. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 19, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    I still do when I see a guy spit a loogie on the ground in front of me, or when a friend blows a snot rocket out the window while we are driving, or when my best friend blows his nose on his shirt (even if it is a dress shirt).
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    Nov 19, 2011 6:38 AM GMT
    +1 on the snot rocket

    Also when guys start strutting or flexing to get women's attention. Eww, you're showing off for women? Gross
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    Nov 19, 2011 6:53 AM GMT
    I go back & forth thinking about this. Right now I'm not really into anyone at all haha
    I dont think spitting is gross. I think it's merely impractical because instead of spitting (how does anyone think this makes them look badass?) they could just swallow or drink some water if they have a dry mouth. But if someone wants to do it, go for it. I would only care if it lands on me haha.
    Regarding other gross stuff..
    I mean, anal. Having sex with the part of someone's body where the shit comes out is kinda gross in itself. Clean it, duh, but I just can't wrap my head around that. Not meaning any offense, just honestly haven't understood that.
    I don't post a ton in here, this topic just got me thinking.
    Oh one more - grossest thing regarding guys, or anyone really, is when they aren't being themselves. When they're disconnected or they tan or smoke or talk like a valley girl & it isn't them. If that's them, then whatever its all good. But I notice so much fake stuff lately
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    Nov 19, 2011 7:01 AM GMT
    young boys and girsl are also grossed out by each other at first... in Freudian psychology this is called the "latent" phase and i remember feeling it too towards boys
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    Nov 19, 2011 7:06 AM GMT
    The closest I can think of is that for a long time growing up, I couldn't wrap my head around kissing another guy. I just thought it would be uncomfortably scratchy. Fortunately, I got over that. icon_biggrin.gif

    Guys in general never grossed me. There have been a few along the way that have grossed me out, like guys that don't shower, but that's different.
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    Nov 19, 2011 7:07 AM GMT
    I recall track in field, I was always turned on by the smell of our coach for some reason after we ran. I always wondered what the smell was but I never could figure out why he smelled. No one told me it was the natural body sweat and odor. I didn't care to ask either. I just remember, track in field being fun.

    Mind you all, this was when I was like 4, 5, 6 years old or so. Nothing's changed since.
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    Nov 19, 2011 7:17 AM GMT
    Only the gross guys are gross, duh
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    Nov 19, 2011 7:54 AM GMT
    I still think guys with lots of body hair are gross. Guess thats why I like guys who are clean, shaven, and blond.
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    Nov 19, 2011 2:49 PM GMT
    That was always the turn on for me.
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    Nov 19, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    AS ALWAYS, it depends on the guy icon_exclaim.gif



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    Nov 19, 2011 2:56 PM GMT
    swimguychicago saidI still think guys with lots of body hair are gross. Guess thats why I like guys who are clean, shaven, and blond.



    so you would rather snuggle up against a guy whose skin feels like a sheet of 600 grit sandpaper than a silky, hairy guy?


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    shaving/waxing doesn't last very long.....


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    Nov 19, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    I'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 19, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?
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    Nov 19, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
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    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?


    This is the reasoning my mom had for me being straight. I only hung out with girls therefore i must've been straight. But that's only because the girls were the only kids that were nice to me. The guys almost all were jerks and assholes all the way from 1st grade through 12th
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    Nov 19, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said
    pre_mortem said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?


    This is the reasoning my mom had for me being straight. I only hung out with girls therefore i must've been straight. But that's only because the girls were the only kids that were nice to me. The guys almost all were jerks and assholes all the way from 1st grade through 12th


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    Nov 19, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
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    RoadsterRacer87 said
    pre_mortem said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?


    This is the reasoning my mom had for me being straight. I only hung out with girls therefore i must've been straight. But that's only because the girls were the only kids that were nice to me. The guys almost all were jerks and assholes all the way from 1st grade through 12th


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    feh, i look at it this way. I've got one HELL of a perspective on life, friends and love now thanks to those little shits.
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    Nov 19, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
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    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?


    Girls might say nasty things, but mean guys who are physical about it are a bigger problem, especially as a (smaller) kid. Plus -- especially being gay -- the guys are the ones who you want to be around, impress or at least be a part of, so the way they treat you matters more. And the whole way that many guys (especially jocks) interact where affection is shown with insults and crude jokes can come across as mean if you don't understand the context.
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    Nov 19, 2011 4:17 PM GMT
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    pre_mortem said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?


    Girls might say nasty things, but mean guys who are physical about it are a bigger problem, especially as a (smaller) kid. Plus -- especially being gay -- the guys are the ones who you want to be around, impress or at least be a part of, so the way they treat you matters more. And the whole way that many guys (especially jocks) interact where affection is shown with insults and crude jokes can come across as mean if you don't understand the context.


    ^this.

    it was so f*cking hard to understand most of what these kids were saying. i mean, in sixth grade they were making detailed sex jokes and saying things that i honestly didn't understand (or did and was grossed out by). I was never the most sexually-aware kid and being surrounded by a bunch of arrogant, socially immature straight kids who apparently had all inherited their older bros or fathers' porn collections didn't help the situation.
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    Nov 19, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    Yeah, often I can't stand the smell of testosterone. icon_sad.gif

    RoadsterRacer87 said
    pre_mortem said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?


    This is the reasoning my mom had for me being straight. I only hung out with girls therefore i must've been straight. But that's only because the girls were the only kids that were nice to me. The guys almost all were jerks and assholes all the way from 1st grade through 12th


    Same for me. Boys were always too aggressive and I was too sensitive. My mom thought I would make some girl and wonderful husband.
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    Nov 19, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    kandsk saidYeah, often I can't stand the smell of testosterone. icon_sad.gif

    RoadsterRacer87 said
    pre_mortem said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI'll agree that i think guys spitting, etc. is gross but i've seen women do it too. I never thought guys in general were gross, i just thought they were all mean. icon_confused.gif


    Guys meaner than girls?


    This is the reasoning my mom had for me being straight. I only hung out with girls therefore i must've been straight. But that's only because the girls were the only kids that were nice to me. The guys almost all were jerks and assholes all the way from 1st grade through 12th


    Same for me. Boys were always too aggressive and I was too sensitive. My mom thought I would make some girl and wonderful husband.


    same for me, though not sure what my mom thought back then. She was always off playing tennis and i was with my gran
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    Nov 19, 2011 5:23 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidThat was always the turn on for me.


    I gross out Dallasfan, but that is only because he hates me.
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    Nov 19, 2011 5:26 PM GMT
    By God Man I could See a Man and only ask him for my own....my self knew I was into men at a way younger age...once I got to Jr.high I found it harder then ever because most of my teachers were guys as well for coaches..um now once they See me they know I like men and all always end up saying. HOWS IT GOIN PATRICK....IM OK U? DANG IF THOSE LINES PICKED UP THEY'VE WOULD OF HAD ME ALREADY. OH WELL. So if I chose one coach to switch over to my team it would Golson .coach Golson. He is hott young and has an ok ass...ok the best ass baseball. And coaches can ever offer...yet these are men of my dreams and coach. Golson barely started to talk a stick around to hang with me...this is a dream ...if it was the real deal if coach asked me for a hand and I didn't turn the favor down and we end up alone for some time...he'd have to wink at me while saying whats goin on champ for me to even make a move and know its what he wanted and its real. We all know what I want..just a man...straight up I'm a man that loves a man..ya Digg
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    Nov 19, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    Flashahhman saidBy God Man I could See a Man and only ask him for my own....my self knew I was into men at a way younger age...once I got to Jr.high I found it harder then ever because most of my teachers were guys as well for coaches..um now once they See me they know I like men and all always end up saying. HOWS IT GOIN PATRICK....IM OK U? DANG IF THOSE LINES PICKED UP THEY'VE WOULD OF HAD ME ALREADY. OH WELL. So if I chose one coach to switch over to my team it would Golson .coach Golson. He is hott young and has an ok ass...ok the best ass baseball. And coaches can ever offer...yet these are men of my dreams and coach. Golson barely started to talk a stick around to hang with me...this is a dream ...if it was the real deal if coach asked me for a hand and I didn't turn the favor down and we end up alone for some time...he'd have to wink at me while saying whats goin on champ for me to even make a move and know its what he wanted and its real. We all know what I want..just a man...straight up I'm a man that loves a man..ya Digg



    umm...yeah, i dig. i dig myself out from under this massive wall 'o Ramblage