Ignoring=F***ing Jerk

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    Nov 19, 2011 9:19 PM GMT
    I dont know why guys think the best way to show you that they are not interested in you anymore is to ignore you. WTF!!, I am a straight-forward type of person; just tell you're done. God I feel like a dumbass when I keep texting and I dont get a response. So guys who want to end a relationship in the future just tell them, that way no one waste time or money; txt msgs, calls, etc.
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    Nov 19, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    I thought fig newtons were named after Issac Newton because it was a fig - not an apple - that Mr. Newton saw fall.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    Being ignored is hard because it leaves you space to tell yourself any story you want about what happened... Choose your story wisely
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
    SFYogi saidBeing ignored is hard because it leaves you space to tell yourself any story you want about what happened... Choose your story wisely


    This. Your best defense against the wandering mind is to know that while you weren't worth their time that doesnt mean invest your time to know something thats most likely irrelevant for such a type of relationship I recently have had this happen and letting your mind wander is a dangerous thing.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    sexything92 saidI dont know why guys think the best way to show you that they are not interested in you anymore is to ignore you. WTF!!, I am a straight-forward type of person; just tell you're done. God I feel like a dumbass when I keep texting and I dont get a response. So guys who want to end a relationship in the future just tell them, that way no one waste time or money; txt msgs, calls, etc.

    Completely agree. I also hate getting ignored by people on here and other dating sites. If I send you a message that doesn't mean I'm hitting on you or that I'm even attracted to you. I might just want to complement you or ask you a question so there's no need to ignore me.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    Haha, so true. . .if I am ignored, I make up this crazy story where I end up feeling horrible about myself - and then it just results in badness and probably some emotional texting.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI thought fig newtons were named after Issac Newton because it was a fig - not an apple - that Mr. Newton saw fall.


    That sounds very plausible Paul!

    The OP is young and cute so I don't think he needs to worry just yet about being left alone forever icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    Ignoring people is often just avoidance. It's easier to ignore someone that to have to tell them that you aren't interested or that you don't want to speak to them anymore. I'm not justifying it. That's just how it is.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:32 AM GMT
    7Famark saidHaha, so true. . .if I am ignored, I make up this crazy story where I end up feeling horrible about myself - and then it just results in badness and probably some emotional texting.


    That's where you give it an hour.. no an hour and 2 minutes... no... and hour and 5 minutes.. no - an hour and 15 minutes.. no FUCK WHY THE FUCK HASN't HE RESPONDED. Then you just send a text to make sure he's not dead or fucking someone, like so:

    You: "fuck u. You could at least SAY you hate me instead of ignoring me."
    Him: "Something logical"
    You: "Oh, you did tell me you were dropping off those home cooked meals and sweaters you knit for the homeless for the next 2 hours... I see that you're busy, my bad! Yeah. I was toally kidding. Ha... I'm not crazy. Hehehe."

    That's how I usually remedy the situation.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    maybe he is a nice guy and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    guy6 saidmaybe he is a nice guy and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.


    hurt feelings are better than false hope, and it saves you the trouble of looking like an idiot later.

    A nice guy would realize that, an ass hole would "not want to hurt your feelings"
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:45 AM GMT
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    guy6 saidmaybe he is a nice guy and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.


    hurt feelings are better than false hope, and it saves you the trouble of looking like an idiot later.

    A nice guy would realize that, an ass hole would "not want to hurt your feelings"


    then plz do tell us what you want to hear if the guy is not interested in you no more?

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    Nov 20, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    guy6 said
    7Famark said
    guy6 saidmaybe he is a nice guy and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.


    hurt feelings are better than false hope, and it saves you the trouble of looking like an idiot later.

    A nice guy would realize that, an ass hole would "not want to hurt your feelings"


    then plz do tell us what you want to hear if the guy is not interested in you no more?



    "This isn't working out, we shouldn't see each other anymore."

    "You're crazy, lose my number."

    "Go away."

    Uhm. . . .anything?
    I think you missed the point of my post. If you do not like someone, or are not interested - TELL THEM so they do not think that you are. It's not that difficult.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    7Famark said
    guy6 said
    7Famark said
    guy6 saidmaybe he is a nice guy and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.


    hurt feelings are better than false hope, and it saves you the trouble of looking like an idiot later.

    A nice guy would realize that, an ass hole would "not want to hurt your feelings"


    then plz do tell us what you want to hear if the guy is not interested in you no more?



    "This isn't working out, we shouldn't see each other anymore."

    "You're crazy, lose my number."

    "Go away."

    Uhm. . . .anything?
    I think you missed the point of my post. If you do not like someone, or are not interested - TELL THEM so they do not think that you are. It's not that difficult.


    let's see

    "This isn't working out, we shouldn't see each other anymore."
    he says - what ? why? no, can we still meet ...
    me: ignore
    him : calls and text and blah blah blah

    "You're crazy, lose my number."
    him: i hope you have a good attorney
    me: uhhh? ok

    "Go away."
    him: playfully says uh uh
    me: ignore

    so ignoring people is the best option for me.


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    Nov 20, 2011 5:52 AM GMT
    Lol I doubt you are hot enough that guys are that up on your dick. Nice try.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:57 AM GMT
    7Famark saidLol I doubt you are hot enough that guys are that up on your dick. Nice try.


    and this is another example why i ignore people...

    ahhh
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:58 AM GMT
    Maybe you are confused and they ignore you because you are an ass hole?

    Food for thought.
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    Nov 20, 2011 5:59 AM GMT
    7Famark saidMaybe you are confused and they ignore you because you are an ass hole?

    Food for thought.


    no people like you inflate my ego icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 20, 2011 6:00 AM GMT
    It probably needs some inflating since you are apparently too insecure to have any public photos.

    I'm happy to help the needy.
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    Nov 20, 2011 6:06 AM GMT
    7Famark saidIt probably needs some inflating since you are apparently too insecure to have any public photos.

    I'm happy to help the needy.


    no- after hearing the same thing over and over again, it means nothing to me. that's why people who look good act like assholes
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    Nov 20, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    guy6 said
    7Famark saidIt probably needs some inflating since you are apparently too insecure to have any public photos.

    I'm happy to help the needy.


    no- after hearing the same thing over and over again, it means nothing to me. that's why people who look good act like assholes


    And why people that are ugly do not put up pictures icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 20, 2011 6:08 AM GMT
    guy6 said
    7Famark saidIt probably needs some inflating since you are apparently too insecure to have any public photos.

    I'm happy to help the needy.


    no- after hearing the same thing over and over again, it means nothing to me. that's why people who look good act like assholes


    fyi

    i'm not here to discuss about my looks nor am i trying to compete - so chill.
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    Nov 20, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
    No you're just here to prove how big of an ass hole you are.

    "I ignore guys."

    "I'm such a badass with so many dudes up on my dick that I ignore them because it's easier."

    'fyi' - that doesn't make you sound cool, or "legit"...whatever, I guess you're allowed to have your opinions.

    even if they are retarded

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    Nov 20, 2011 6:13 AM GMT
    7Famark saidNo you're just here to prove how big of an ass hole you are.

    "I ignore guys."

    "I'm such a badass with so many dudes up on my dick that I ignore them because it's easier."

    'fyi' - that doesn't make you sound cool, or "legit"



    awwww thank you !!!!! (me smiling with tears falling - as i walk up the stage)

    I just want to thank you for giving me the biggest ass- hole award , words can not explain the way that i feel right now ... thank you (exiting music playing in the background)
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    Nov 20, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    guy6 said
    7Famark saidNo you're just here to prove how big of an ass hole you are.

    "I ignore guys."

    "I'm such a badass with so many dudes up on my dick that I ignore them because it's easier."

    'fyi' - that doesn't make you sound cool, or "legit"



    awwww thank you !!!!! (me smiling with tears falling - as i walk up the stage)

    I just want to thank you for giving me the biggest ass- hole award , words can not explain the way that i feel right now ... thank you (exiting music playing in the background)


    o and as i hold my flowers close to my chest and my crown icon_twisted.gif