Nov 22, 2011 7:50 AM GMT
Hey nice to meet you all, gay guy here who is looking for a long-term relationship. Basically I am looking for that one in a million guy and I want to prevent myself from being 40/50/60 without ever finding love. I am sick of the saying "love comes when you aren't looking" because I believe as a man I SHOULD be looking, a man doesn't "wait" for a guy to come to him, a girl can do that of course but I don't feel a guy should be the chase-ee, unless he wishes too.
Basically without turning this into my life story, I am in a tough situation because I don't work, I am lucky to have the most awesome parents who are letting me focus on school and will support me until I can support myself, so I am learning music production thru some online schooling, however other than that I don't really "go out" per se. I am really into organic foods and humanely raised animal products so I go to my local health food stores alot, and I'm realizing since I want my guy to be into the same food ideals as myself maybe these health food stores would be a good place to go "hunting" . .
The reason I am posting this is because there is supposedly a gay club out in Los Angeles/Hollywood (I am in the suburbs of SFV) called Arena or Circus (not sure if there is a difference or same club or what??) supposedly this is where a lot of gay latinos go, and I have come to realize as wrong as it might be to be attracted more-so to a certain race, I would certainly love to meet that one in a million latino or mexican guy who is really that best guy out there. I keep hearing differing things, 1 that clubs aren't good for long-term relationships because guys hook-up there which I am not into, or 2 the other side that some guys go here (masculine laid back guys who I am into) to find dating material . .
Has anyone been to this club in particular and possibly give me some advice? I know the best way would be go just go and find out for myself, trying to be as least stressed as possible, however I figured I'd come on here and here if anyone has any stories about this place! Hope you all are doing great Nice to meet you again Have a good night
Basically without turning this into my life story, I am in a tough situation because I don't work, I am lucky to have the most awesome parents who are letting me focus on school and will support me until I can support myself, so I am learning music production thru some online schooling, however other than that I don't really "go out" per se. I am really into organic foods and humanely raised animal products so I go to my local health food stores alot, and I'm realizing since I want my guy to be into the same food ideals as myself maybe these health food stores would be a good place to go "hunting" . .
The reason I am posting this is because there is supposedly a gay club out in Los Angeles/Hollywood (I am in the suburbs of SFV) called Arena or Circus (not sure if there is a difference or same club or what??) supposedly this is where a lot of gay latinos go, and I have come to realize as wrong as it might be to be attracted more-so to a certain race, I would certainly love to meet that one in a million latino or mexican guy who is really that best guy out there. I keep hearing differing things, 1 that clubs aren't good for long-term relationships because guys hook-up there which I am not into, or 2 the other side that some guys go here (masculine laid back guys who I am into) to find dating material . .
Has anyone been to this club in particular and possibly give me some advice? I know the best way would be go just go and find out for myself, trying to be as least stressed as possible, however I figured I'd come on here and here if anyone has any stories about this place! Hope you all are doing great Nice to meet you again Have a good night
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