does anyone feel like sex is overrated??

  • rogerfederer

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    Nov 22, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    ive had some awesome times just jacking. i know what i like, what feels good, etc. Its perfect. Sex i feel is like this huge overrated movie that everyone talks about but when u go see it, it's just alright. Personally i prefer to do it alone. I dnt understand what's the big deal. People act like sex is the greatest thing ever but (just my opinion) its just ok at best. And i can say topping AND bottoming both are just very blah and dont feel as good as when i jo by myself.
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    Nov 22, 2011 2:48 PM GMT
    Hmm, maybe you're doing it wrong? Sex is almost always better than jerking off solo (unless it's really bad sex).

    How much sexual experience have you had?
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    Nov 22, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    Pure saidHmm, maybe you're doing it wrong? Sex is almost always better than jerking off solo (unless it's really bad sex).

    How much sexual experience have you had?


    Even when it is bad it is still fun in a doing-it-for-the-story kind of way - it is good to have some "bad experience stories" saved up to make a friend blush, and/or laugh, as appropriate when they are having a lousy day.
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    Nov 22, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    rogerfederer said does anyone feel like sex is overrated??


    Nope.
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    Nov 22, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    from the sex I have personally had.. i would have to say yes.. but I dunno, perhaps people have better sex than me icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 22, 2011 5:20 PM GMT
    Sex with someone else can be good or bad, whereas masturbation offers a more, um, consistent experience. icon_wink.gif But sex with someone else offers a connection with that person that masturbation, by definition, can't give. There's nothing better than when you and your partner are really in sync.
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    Nov 22, 2011 5:45 PM GMT
    No.

    You're doing it wrong.
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    Nov 22, 2011 6:54 PM GMT
    idk...yet. but i highly doubt it.
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    Nov 22, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    I don't think it's overrated. When you play with yourself alone, after climax you're still alone. I love the feeling of cuddling after sex.
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    Nov 22, 2011 10:37 PM GMT
    Good passionate sex > Masturbation

    Sex without chemistry < Masturbation
  • RupCadell

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    Dec 06, 2011 2:27 PM GMT
    The author Tom Wolfe once said: "sex is god's joke on humanity."

    People kill for it, start wars for it, ruin relationships for it, destroy presidencies, candidacies, children, and childhoods...

    and it only lasts a short while, maybe an hour! yet lusting for it leaves so much destruction in its wake.
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    Dec 06, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    Im not gonna say your doing it wrg but perhaps the wrg person. Some guys can get hard and fuck at the drop of a dime reguardless if he's attracted to his sex partner or not, others need to be emotionally vested. You're 18 venture out and exploe a lil, the rt partner will change all that for u. Have fun and play safe!
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    Dec 09, 2011 7:58 PM GMT
    Yeah, sex is overrated a lot of the time.
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    Dec 09, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    yup
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    Dec 10, 2011 3:59 AM GMT
    Only with a dead lay.
  • buckled

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    Dec 10, 2011 4:28 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier saidGood passionate sex > Masturbation

    Sex without chemistry < Masturbation


    Fact
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    Dec 10, 2011 4:53 AM GMT
    a lot of the time, ya
  • jackthejock

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    Dec 10, 2011 6:47 AM GMT
    Do you ever think that it is the type of sex you're having that you don't enjoy. You pointed out that you've tried topping and bottoming, not all gay guys are into anal and maybe you're one of those. I do top and bottom, but most of the times I have sex I don't do either. You have blowjobs, frotting, handjobs, 69, making out, mutual masturbation. If you're with somebody you are comfortable with and have feelings for you can have mind blowing sex, do what feels good and don't be afraid to tell him what you like and don't like.
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    Dec 12, 2011 5:14 AM GMT
    I agree with the above, sex can be overrated, and I've felt that way before, but I realized it was because of the sex I was having and who I was having sex with. When you have random sex, there's no sense of familiarity and you go through the motions, before I stopped, I'd never had a truly AMAZING one-nighter.

    Guys that I dated, however, were different and I really ennjoyed them
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    Dec 12, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    As much as I love sex, sex can be overrated. Sometimes after a great romp, I'd get out of bed and think, "That was great AND absurd."

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    Dec 13, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    Try paying for sex...

    ...paid sex is MUCH better than the free stuff. Just like most things in life.

    Oh Gosh he's only 18 icon_eek.gif

    On a serious note...sounds like you're randomly meeting with guys and possibly settling on something you may not be really attracted to. Once you really know your type (can take people awhile to find out) you will enjoy sex that much.

    For a couple weeks, I was getting tired of topping my BF...but I surprised him and let him fuck me. You would have thought he topped all his life. And boy did we both enjoy it. After that spell, we went at it again and he made me cum twice; once at night and again the next morning after pounding his hot, White bubble butt.
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    Not at all.
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    Dec 18, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
    rogerfederer said
    does anyone feel like sex is overrated??
    ive had some awesome times just jacking. i know what i like, what feels good, etc. Its perfect. Sex i feel is like this huge overrated movie that everyone talks about but when u go see it, it's just alright. Personally i prefer to do it alone. I dnt understand what's the big deal. People act like sex is the greatest thing ever but (just my opinion) its just ok at best. And i can say topping AND bottoming both are just very blah and dont feel as good as when i jo by myself.


    It all depends on the guy you're with and his personality/attitude. It's an interpersonal reciprocation that makes sex genuinely awesome.
    I'll take a nice friendly sensual husky guy over an attitude muscular ripped jerkwad. Any day.
    An all around hott guy (nice being at the top of his attributes) is always a plus and makes a huge difference.