what shall i do to add some spicy to my LDR. ( Long Distance Relationship )

  • kemoze

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    Nov 22, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    Guys, i have met guy from south africa since 5th of nov. 2011 and we talk every day on skype .. i fell into him so fast and i love him too much.

    i am doing my best to keep our relation alive we only talk and see each other on cam. but what things i can do to keep our chatting interesting?

    we never get bored from each other instead we spend about four hours every night talking and having fun. but i thought you guys might suggest things to do.

    we love each other even our culture is different .. i am arabian, i work in kuwait but i am egyptian . but we really get into each other by time.


    give me ideas guys ... to make our chat more interesting ..
    for example i like reading and he really wants to start reading so i was thinking to buy a book and read a chapter every night together and we can share comments and opinions ..


    any ideas .,,,,,,,,,,??????????
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    Nov 22, 2011 4:22 PM GMT
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    Nov 22, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    Just kidding btw. Why don't you ask him? I'm sure it'd be easier to find out what he wants to do that way icon_smile.gif
  • kemoze

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    Nov 22, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy saidJust kidding btw. Why don't you ask him? I'm sure it'd be easier to find out what he wants to do that way icon_smile.gif


    well. we never felt awkward talking but i just thought guys here might have been through that kind of LDR, so they can give some ideas.

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    Nov 22, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
    long distance relationships dont work out..break up with him pronto..jk. Kemoze .buddy..u should do something that excites him..jack offf with him on cam. I know u dont do those types of things but this is a long distance relationship.. so u gotta do what u gotta do
  • barriehomeboy

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    Nov 23, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    you could each record cam views of your worlds and send them, The place you like, your work, your house. Your favourite museums or bath-houses. I don't know. But where is this going? An internet marriage? If one of you doesn't move, it's just internet chatter.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 23, 2011 8:10 PM GMT
    barriehomeboy saidyou could each record cam views of your worlds and send them, The place you like, your work, your house. Your favourite museums or bath-houses. I don't know. But where is this going? An internet marriage? If one of you doesn't move, it's just internet chatter.


    we are thinking of this now .. every time we meet we plan on moving to meet,
    but the problem is he has just finished after graduation studies and he has just started working ..

    we do think of moving // but we still need time to know each other
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    Nov 23, 2011 8:20 PM GMT
    I didn't know a relationship consisted of three weeks of Internet chatting. Why not see if you can first find things of interest to talk about for a few months before finding ways to keep it alive?
  • calibro

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    Nov 23, 2011 8:26 PM GMT
    how many times do we have to go over this...you're not in a relationship, you don't know what love is, and you are awful at taking advice. i think that about covers it.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 24, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    calibro saidhow many times do we have to go over this...you're not in a relationship, you don't know what love is, and you are awful at taking advice. i think that about covers it.


    hay . why you are being so aggressive to me like that ..

    well . love starts maybe at the first day and then love grows later with time,

    anyway i have participated in a website which talks only about long distance relations . guys here attack each other with no reason.. and lots of fucken discrimination and guys here only focus of how to judge and criticize ..
  • davidsticky69

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    Nov 24, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    Just take care of yourself kemoze. There is a reason why LDR is so damn hard and I am sure you are smart enough to know this.

    Don't take it too seriously lest it burns you. But I am all for having the fun and companionship!

    Best wishes!
  • kemoze

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    Nov 24, 2011 3:06 PM GMT
    davidsticky69 saidJust take care of yourself kemoze. There is a reason why LDR is so damn hard and I am sure you are smart enough to know this.

    Don't take it too seriously lest it burns you. But I am all for having the fun and companionship!

    Best wishes!


    thank you buddy .. it really hurts but its amazing ..

    I read lots of stories about long distance relationships and how some of them has already worked out .. but all are straight couples .. i only read about it but cant post my story there on this site .. lol
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    Nov 24, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    kemoze saidwhat shall i do to add some spicy to my LDR. ( Long Distance Relationship )
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    Nov 24, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    Yeah gotta agree with paul here. Try to go see him.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 24, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
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    kemoze saidwhat shall i do to add some spicy to my LDR. ( Long Distance Relationship )
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    that was cool..

    i am planning to go and see him .. but i thought if i shall wait more time .. its been only 20 days .. but i can see something real between us.

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    Nov 24, 2011 4:27 PM GMT
    Mail underwear to each other.
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    Nov 24, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    kemoze said
    calibro saidhow many times do we have to go over this...you're not in a relationship, you don't know what love is, and you are awful at taking advice. i think that about covers it.


    hay . why you are being so aggressive to me like that ..

    well . love starts maybe at the first day and then love grows later with time,

    anyway i have participated in a website which talks only about long distance relations . guys here attack each other with no reason.. and lots of fucken discrimination and guys here only focus of how to judge and criticize ..


    Ahlan wa sahlan a amreeka 7abibi... el shaks hon b'kharreh.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 24, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    earthsearch saidMail underwear to each other.


    i know all guys here are going to make fun out of this. lol.
    but still not bad idea.
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    Nov 24, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    kemoze said
    earthsearch saidMail underwear to each other.


    i know all guys here are going to make fun out of this. lol.
    but still not bad idea.


    If you think it might help you then I don't give a crap what anyone else thinksicon_smile.gif

    Good luck!

    Is your intended love interested in Cape Town? I'm from South Africa.
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    Nov 24, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    calibro saidhow many times do we have to go over this...you're not in a relationship, you don't know what love is, and you are awful at taking advice. i think that about covers it.


    who made u the love expert bitch? my buddy kemoze didnt ask for a bitchy comment from a bitch like u, he aksed for ways to spice up his LTR.so fuck off if u have nothing good to say
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    Nov 24, 2011 4:47 PM GMT
    Off topic, I know and apologize, but did anyone else notice that if you're not logged in, they take out the first four letters in "spicy?" I mean, I understand, but I still don't understand.

    Anyhoo, like most of the guys have said here, LDRs are tricky and I advise against it. That being said, you and your boy seem convinced to make it work. Keep up the resolve and hopefully it will pay off.
  • kemoze

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    Nov 24, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    we have been together for more than 20 days . every night we have a chat for at least 4 hours we might stay together on cam for 6 hours or even more .
    we talk about every thing .. its not just attraction or lust .. its real. its love.

    we know every thing about each other now .. we are way too comfortable .. i think i dont need advice to make it interesting , because we enjoy the time just seeing each other .... we never get silent .
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    Nov 24, 2011 5:22 PM GMT
    Hey OP,

    From what I take it your country of origin doesn't accept homosexuals. I understand that and I am truly sorry. As for the topic of your post...it is impossible to fall in love with someone in under a month...especially over cam. Not to be mean, and please do not take this the wrong way, but I think because of where you live, you probably haven't had a relationship yet and then you meet some guy online and in your mind you think you guys click.

    Anyone can meet someone online and think they are amazing but when you actually meet them in person...they are often different then what you expect. This is how you get hurt. I think, no I know that you like the 'idea' of this guy and the relationship you guys 'could' have. You are not in love with this guy...it is merely infatuation and trust me when I say this...this 'relationship' you guys have is mainly in your head.

    I've been there...I've done that...so I know what I am talking about. Heed my advice when I say this and do not invest too much time, and emotion, into this LDR. Try to make it work if you truly want but don't claim you guys are in love after a mere 20 days. Wanting what you can't have is what makes LDR attractive but it is also poisonous as well.

    Best of luck to you OP

    -Alex
  • kemoze

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    Nov 24, 2011 5:45 PM GMT
    AlexanderB saidHey OP,

    From what I take it your country of origin doesn't accept homosexuals. I understand that and I am truly sorry. As for the topic of your post...it is impossible to fall in love with someone in under a month...especially over cam. Not to be mean, and please do not take this the wrong way, but I think because of where you live, you probably haven't had a relationship yet and then you meet some guy online and in your mind you think you guys click.

    Anyone can meet someone online and think they are amazing but when you actually meet them in person...they are often different then what you expect. This is how you get hurt. I think, no I know that you like the 'idea' of this guy and the relationship you guys 'could' have. You are not in love with this guy...it is merely infatuation and trust me when I say this...this 'relationship' you guys have is mainly in your head.

    I've been there...I've done that...so I know what I am talking about. Heed my advice when I say this and do not invest too much time, and emotion, into this LDR. Try to make it work if you truly want but don't claim you guys are in love after a mere 20 days. Wanting what you can't have is what makes LDR attractive but it is also poisonous as well.

    Best of luck to you OP

    -Alex


    thanks a lot of being honest, i liked your comment and i am really thinking about it .. for me i liked this guy not because i cant have the same here .. instead i liked how decent he is and how we like talking about life in general ..

    i can mess around here if i care but i hate messing around .. he also lives in south africa and homosexuals are allowed to get married so .. he can have any kind of relation there but he likes me. i did met lots of guys on cam . but why only this time i have no desire to sleep .nor to eat ..

    its different .. you still right that we barely know each other but we have something between us


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    Nov 24, 2011 6:23 PM GMT
    You could start having sex with other people on the web cam. That would spice things up.