Gay Asians are not toys (and other blah :) )

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    Nov 24, 2011 7:28 PM GMT
    Ugh! It is so depressing to be ONLY hit on by older men! And they think that it's perfectly normal to do so. Everyone thinks that we're all effeminate and subservient and that we're easy. I am just tired of the stereotype!
    It's flattering when someone finds you attractive, I admit, but when only older men let you know they are attracted, it makes me feel like there has to be something wrong with me, or with how I am perceived.
    Maybe I want someone close to my age. Maybe I want to be treated as an equal. I always feel like I'm at the bottom of the barrel...
    I dunno how the rest of my fellow Asians feel about this, but this is how I feel...


    BTW sorry if there's a similar post like this. I'm new here and I dunno where to post and I wanted to rant on my own thread.


    TS;DR I'm new here and to introduce myself, I am an old-person magnet, but not interested! icon_smile.gif

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    Nov 24, 2011 7:30 PM GMT
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    Nov 24, 2011 7:36 PM GMT
    Ugh I know I hate being a twink icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 24, 2011 7:37 PM GMT
    Claystation saidUgh I know I hate being a twink icon_sad.gif


    lol icon_razz.gif
  • Iakona

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    Nov 24, 2011 7:38 PM GMT
    Wait......we're not just toys.....well there goes my whole identity!
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    Nov 24, 2011 7:43 PM GMT
    Ugh and then I hate it when they say something like:

    C'mon Clay, you're not going to love me long time?

    And I'm like:

    Well first of all, long time is a long time and I'm not a fucking robot, I need to sleep. Geeez why don't I just hop in my car and drive unsafely home or better yet why don't I just kung fu fly home its probably safer.

    Gah!! icon_mad.gif
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    Nov 24, 2011 7:46 PM GMT
    You aren't just toys!!! You're math wizards!!!
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    Nov 24, 2011 7:47 PM GMT
    Claystation saidor better yet why don't I just kung fu fly home its probably safer.


    Safer for who? icon_twisted.gif
  • Iakona

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    Nov 24, 2011 7:51 PM GMT
    Oh god, I am the worse asian ever....suck at math and computer illiterate.... THE SHAME!
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    Nov 24, 2011 7:55 PM GMT
    You cannot control people's attractions, but you certainly can control your reaction to them. Ignore the ones you find reprehensible, and focus on the ones you like.
  • Brick_n_Lace

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    Nov 24, 2011 8:29 PM GMT
    Im not asian but i can relate to this. i may be girly but im hardly soft spoken, and subservient. more like combat ready, baton wielding girly lol
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    Nov 24, 2011 9:12 PM GMT
    At age 21, get used to it. Most guys are older than you.

    You are right that we are not just toys. We are highly desirable sex toys! It's glorious if you just enjoy it! icon_lol.gif

    If a hot top is going to stick his dick in either a Tenga or me...I'd rather have that dick in me.
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    Nov 24, 2011 9:43 PM GMT
    Welcome to the forums. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 24, 2011 10:10 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidYou aren't just toys!!! You're math wizards!!!


    I am a math wizard but I feel that's because all americans are bad at math because they are really stupid.
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    Nov 24, 2011 10:14 PM GMT
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    Nov 24, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    Thanks for all the genuine comments! icon_smile.gif
    It's nice to hear that I'm not the only one that's feeling the same way. It's tough out there...
    I just wanted to rant. It's really how I feel. And thanks for accepting that.

    And for the rest of you guys, thanks for trolling!
    Don't feed them, you guys! icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 24, 2011 11:45 PM GMT
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    Nov 24, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    Brick_n_Lace saidIm not asian but i can relate to this. i may be girly but im hardly soft spoken, and subservient. more like combat ready, baton wielding girly lol


    ew man up. you're a man, not a girl whether you like it or not. a girly man is not cute at all. nobody likes that.

    get a haircut, wipe the makeup off of your face and stop posing like you're a broke down paris hilton. so fucking weird.
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    Nov 24, 2011 11:57 PM GMT
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    aww
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    Nov 24, 2011 11:57 PM GMT
    ry77no saidThanks for all the genuine comments! icon_smile.gif
    It's nice to hear that I'm not the only one that's feeling the same way. It's tough out there...
    I just wanted to rant. It's really how I feel. And thanks for accepting that.

    And for the rest of you guys, thanks for trolling!
    Don't feed them, you guys! icon_smile.gif


    *hug*
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    Nov 25, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    It's tough for everyone. Not just Asian guys. You honestly think this is like being a kid in a candy store for the rest of us?
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    Nov 25, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidIt's tough for everyone. Not just Asian guys. You honestly think this is like being a kid in a candy store for the rest of us?


    It's all relative. From the perspective of us Asian men, yes, the gay dating game looks to be much easier for the non-Asian men out there (all other things being equal, with the possible exception if your Black).
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    Nov 25, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    mightymanlet saidIt's all relative. From the perspective of us Asian men, yes, the gay dating game looks to be much easier for the non-Asian men out there (all other things being equal, with the possible exception if your Black).


    Looks can be deceiving.
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    Nov 25, 2011 2:01 AM GMT
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    Nov 25, 2011 2:12 AM GMT
    JakeGHK said
    unfounded7 saidWelcome to the forums. icon_rolleyes.gif

    And the assery begins.
    Im for making stickies for new members to the forums before they post.

    Pointless. Newbies never read them. Or they just claim their experience is unique and doesn't apply to all the hundreds of previous posts that are exactly the same.