Ever have a problem with being shy around new guys ?

  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 24, 2011 11:13 PM GMT
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    Nov 25, 2011 12:24 AM GMT
    no
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    Nov 25, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    no none

    lilTanker makes me nervous though, very nervous.
  • mybud

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    Nov 25, 2011 5:31 AM GMT
    Shy I'm not.....
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    Nov 25, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    I'm not shy. In fact, on most sites like these, I'm usually the person who sends the message and initiate the conversation. But then again, RJ is more for eye candy than actually meeting guys. LOL
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    Nov 25, 2011 5:42 AM GMT
    i'm shy with cute guys. guys that i'm actually attracted to. i've never been in an environment where i felt comfortable approaching masculine guys without worrying about getting a facefull of knuckle sandwich.
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    Nov 25, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    sure, who hasn't?
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    Nov 25, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    Nope.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Nov 25, 2011 5:53 AM GMT
    yes i have and still do dont know whyicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:08 AM GMT
    Shyness is nice, but shyness can stop you from doing all things in life you'd like to.
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:16 AM GMT
    I can be pretty shy in real life. icon_sad.gif

    But once I get comfortable I am better. It's not an easy thing to get over but I like people and I genuinely care about them so I think it's worth getting over those hurdles and try to make friends with them. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:19 AM GMT
    New guys? Like newborn babies?
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:21 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidNew guys? Like newborn babies?


    lolol. probably more like new gays?
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:25 AM GMT
    Not shy about meeting new guys or women and instead, I seem to thrive on it. I really enjoy talking with people, and I get a sort of 'high' doing it.

    As a little kid I was naturally shy, and I somehow forced myself to get past it with practice.

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  • biggamehunter

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    Nov 25, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    all the time. if some one can last a few weeks of doing 95% of the talking though, they generally are very surprised o find out how loud and crazy i am
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 25, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    biggamehunter saidall the time. if some one can last a few weeks of doing 95% of the talking though, they generally are very surprised o find out how loud and crazy i am


    .....and handsome also! icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
    Believe it or not - yes!
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:46 AM GMT
    yes
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    Depends on the guy.
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:51 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidDepends on the guy.


    Yeah. Some guys are just very natural at bringing out the chatterbox in you, and some guys are just horrible at it! I feel I am more like a mirror that reflects back what the other guy is like. But then if I really want to make an effort I'd find out what stuff makes this guy tick. Oh, there's always funny jokes at my disposable to tell and make the guy laugh icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:52 AM GMT
    Iceblink saidShyness is nice, but shyness can stop you from doing all things in life you'd like to.


    This would apply to me
  • Twenty_Someth...

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    Nov 25, 2011 6:53 AM GMT
    I am so shy it's not even funny.... Almost like a disease when I meet a guy i might be interested in!!!
  • okologische

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    Nov 25, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    ^ same
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:55 AM GMT
    Iceblink saidShyness is nice, but shyness can stop you from doing all things in life you'd like to.


    Morrissey ftw!
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    Nov 25, 2011 6:55 AM GMT
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    DudeInNOVA saidDepends on the guy.


    Yeah. Some guys are just very natural at bringing out the chatterbox in you, and some guys are just horrible at it! I feel I am more like a mirror that reflects back what the other guy is like. But then if I really want to make an effort I'd find out what stuff makes this guy tick. Oh, there's always funny jokes at my disposable to tell and make the guy laugh icon_biggrin.gif


    I describe myself more as a social chameleon. I adapt to my surroundings......unless it's a bunch of straight buff jocks and then I just fade into the wall. LOL!