Is there something about younger guys that just makes older studs want to stay away?

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    Nov 26, 2011 8:29 PM GMT
    Basically, discuss the subject.. I have noticed that a lot of guys check me out, and I'll message them but get no response, or if I do it's usually, "sorry you're so young"..
    Is it me? Am I lacking something?? Or do a lot of older guys simply not want to "deal" with a younger guy because of life inexperience, or for another reason?

    Any thoughts?
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    Nov 26, 2011 8:31 PM GMT
    You're cute. But I think the whole teenager thing (even tho your'e only 19) still worries people. I would have a hard time doing anything with an 18-19 year old too. And I'm just 26. Wait a year and you shouldn't have too much problems.
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    Nov 26, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    They think you're too hot for them. And their own twisted ways they want to reject you first to preserve their own ego.

    How old are we talking about btw? In their late 30s? 40s? Late 20s?
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    Nov 26, 2011 8:33 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidYou're cute. But I think the whole teenager thing (even tho your'e only 19) still worries people. I would have a hard time doing anything with an 18-19 year old too. And I'm just 26. Wait a year and you shouldn't have too much problems.


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    Nov 26, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    I'm talking guys anywhere from 25+.
    Then again there are those older guys who wont leave me alone.. then there are those REALLY old guys... ........

    It's a shame I like older guys, but I wouldn't want to get with another 18 or 19 year old tbh.. Most guys my age are immature and stupid.. but then there are those keepers, like me icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 26, 2011 8:39 PM GMT
    waimea said
    jmusmc85 saidYou're cute. But I think the whole teenager thing (even tho your'e only 19) still worries people. I would have a hard time doing anything with an 18-19 year old too. And I'm just 26. Wait a year and you shouldn't have too much problems.


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    Nov 26, 2011 8:39 PM GMT
    Augustine92 saidBasically, discuss the subject.. I have noticed that a lot of guys check me out, and I'll message them but get no response, or if I do it's usually, "sorry you're so young"..
    Is it me? Am I lacking something?? Or do a lot of older guys simply not want to "deal" with a younger guy because of life inexperience, or for another reason?

    Any thoughts?


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    Nov 26, 2011 8:56 PM GMT
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    Augustine92 saidBasically, discuss the subject.. I have noticed that a lot of guys check me out, and I'll message them but get no response, or if I do it's usually, "sorry you're so young"..
    Is it me? Am I lacking something?? Or do a lot of older guys simply not want to "deal" with a younger guy because of life inexperience, or for another reason?

    Any thoughts?


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    Nov 26, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
    I think it depends in a lot of things but in my case a lot of older guys want to be with and I'm the one who often don't respond to them
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:04 PM GMT
    I think it's just the opposite. Not a lot of younger guys want to be with an older man. I think younger guys 23 and up are great.
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said
    beneful1 said
    Augustine92 saidBasically, discuss the subject.. I have noticed that a lot of guys check me out, and I'll message them but get no response, or if I do it's usually, "sorry you're so young"..
    Is it me? Am I lacking something?? Or do a lot of older guys simply not want to "deal" with a younger guy because of life inexperience, or for another reason?

    Any thoughts?


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    Nov 26, 2011 9:09 PM GMT
    TotalTopJock saidI think it's just the opposite. Not a lot of younger guys want to be with an older man. I think younger guys 23 and up are great.


    I'm usually attracted to older guys mainly cuz the younger guys i run into are too immature or flighty. They've yet to learn certain key life lessons which makes them lousy relationship material.
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:10 PM GMT
    Not sure how much older you are talking. The idea of being with someone close to my sons age just doesn't sit well with me. Where its tough for me (being in my late 40s), is with mature guys in their very late 20s, early 30s. On an activity and interest level, I find some guys in this age bracket that I relate well to. But getting invovled with one is difficult in that I want to be with some who wants to age with me. And I'd just be afraid that in a couple years they would want to move on. So I kinda just stay + or - 6 years.
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:11 PM GMT
    jpBITCHva said
    Trollileo saidPeople don't like sleeping with guys who could be their children and I don't blame them.

    Are you kidding? My children are older than most of these guys.


    Are any of them single? The OP seems to be available!
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:12 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Augustine92 said[/cite]Basically, discuss the subject.. I have noticed that a lot of guys check me out, and I'll message them but get no response, or if I do it's usually, "sorry you're so young"..
    Is it me? Am I lacking something?? Or do a lot of older guys simply not want to "deal" with a younger guy because of life inexperience, or for another reason?

    Any thoughts?[/quote how old are the guys you are contacting? if they are older 30 than its probably because are too young for them. If they are older than 26 they might also feel like you are too young for them.
    Basically, its not you but its your age.
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    TriAthInCA saidNot sure how much older you are talking. The idea of being with someone close to my sons age just doesn't sit well with me. Where its tough for me (being in my late 40s), is with mature guys in their very late 20s, early 30s. On an activity and interest level, I find some guys in this age bracket that I relate well to. But getting invovled with one is difficult in that I want to be with some who wants to age with me. And I'd just be afraid that in a couple years they would want to move on. So I kinda just stay + or - 6 years.


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    Nov 26, 2011 9:16 PM GMT
    Augustine92 saidI'm talking guys anywhere from 25+.
    Then again there are those older guys who wont leave me alone.. then there are those REALLY old guys... ........

    It's a shame I like older guys, but I wouldn't want to get with another 18 or 19 year old tbh.. Most guys my age are immature and stupid.. but then there are those keepers, like me icon_wink.gif


    whats your preferred age range?
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:22 PM GMT
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    waimea said
    jmusmc85 saidYou're cute. But I think the whole teenager thing (even tho your'e only 19) still worries people. I would have a hard time doing anything with an 18-19 year old too. And I'm just 26. Wait a year and you shouldn't have too much problems.


    Dude you are ancient


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    hay I saw this dude on youtube . He is so funny .. DO u know his name ?
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:35 PM GMT
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    hay I saw this dude on youtube . He is so funny .. DO u know his name ?


    Luan Legacy, and lol he goes to my university.
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:46 PM GMT
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:47 PM GMT
    no offense, but i don't how mature you are for your age. if you can't sit in a bar with me it ain't gonna happen.... furthermore, the fact that you think guys my age qualify as "older studs" is revealing.
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:48 PM GMT
    The reasons are various:
    1) a perceived lack of maturity
    2) the stigma of dating a much younger guy
    3) the added hassle of not being able to take you to bars/clubs/rockshows/whatever.

    I try to not be an ageist in either direction, but the simple fact is people closer to one's own age are generally at similar points in emotional and social development. The larger the gap between ages, the farther from "the same page" you're on.

    I've tried dating younger guys, and it always goes the same: they claim that they're really mature for their age, that they can't date guys their age because they're too immature, etc... and then all they're interested in doing is going to underage parties where I feel a bit out of place, and they're lack of life experience (and immaturity) inevitably rears it's head. :/
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    Nov 26, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    arronarron said
    jmusmc85 said
    waimea said
    jmusmc85 saidYou're cute. But I think the whole teenager thing (even tho your'e only 19) still worries people. I would have a hard time doing anything with an 18-19 year old too. And I'm just 26. Wait a year and you shouldn't have too much problems.


    Dude you are ancient


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    hay I saw this dude on youtube . He is so funny .. DO u know his name ?


    I thought it was wimea..
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    Nov 26, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    You're very cute. In a nephew kind of way. Hard for me to imagine a conversation (no matter how bright or mature you are) where I wouldn't feel like I was being parental toward you. Creeped out by the thought of sex.

    I feel this way about guys in their 30s even. An age gap, a cultural mismatch.

    As you age, I'll find you more appealing. Your body will mature, your mind will focus, your emotional balance will stabilize. You'll develop skills I'll need (drywalling, for instance). But we'll never be equal. I'll never turn toward you and seek your advice about a relationship, or about my prostate.

    I also believe that as I get older and my body crumbles I'll crave human touch and attachment, and hope that you're an inexpensive escort.
  • okologische

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    Nov 26, 2011 11:47 PM GMT
    lol change your profile pic! makes you look immature :p