Would you be flattered or would this disturbed you?

  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 27, 2011 3:29 AM GMT
    The reason I am writing this thread is because lately I have gotten a lot of emails and IMs from guys as young as 18 years old. I find that very flattering but also I find it a little disturbing too. I guess it bothers me so much because I have nieces and nephews that age. Therefore, I can not even imagine dating someone that age. In addition, I work with young men and women that age and am always baffled by the number of 30 and 40 year old men who flirt these young women. Does anyone else find it a bit disturbing? Or is it just me?
  • He_Man

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc saidThe reason I am writing this thread is because lately I have gotten a lot of emails and IMs from guys as young as 18 years old. I find that very flattering but also I find it a little disturbing too. I guess it bothers me so much because I have nieces and nephews that age. Therefore, I can not even imagine dating someone that age. In addition, I work with young men and women that age and am always baffled by the number of 30 and 40 year old men who flirt these young women. Does anyone else find it a bit disturbing? Or is it just me?


    Disturbing? Not really. There seems to be a lot of topics concerning age and attraction these days. If an 18 year old finds someone attractive, then let him pursue that attraction. Take it as a compliment. I know I sure do.

    True, I don't generally find 18 year old guys attractive, although I've seen some that made my jaw drop, but it's rare. Many young guys admire mature guys and look up to them as role models. I'm sure there are some young guys that probably have daddy fetishes, but don't we all have our kinks and fetishes, and who really cares as long as no one is getting hurt.

    I just had the opposite happen to me. A guy e-mailed me asking me if I was into older men. At first, before I replied, I was like, well, I've seen some really hot guys in their upper 50's and 60's, so I guess I wouldn't say I'm not into older guys. When I looked at his profile, though, he had his age listed as 90 years old. I was shocked! I mean, okay, I can see being attracted to a guy in his 50's, 60's, and, hell, I'll even give you 70's, but a guy in his 90's! That's a no! What do you even do with a 90 year old man? Hell, I'm not Anna Nicole Smith!
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    just you
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:27 AM GMT
    I don't get why you have to make such a big deal about it.

    So young guys aren't your flavor. . .That's fine.

    But there are plenty of young guys that like dating older guys and vice versa, leave them to their vices.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    Amnesia is a horrible thing, isn't it? I recall a huge flame war thread started by the OP on this very topic less than a week ago.

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    19c79 saidAmnesia is a horrible thing, isn't it? I recall a huge flame war thread started by you on this very topic less than a week ago.

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    I was gonna say this seems familiar. . .
    Speaking of older men, Anderson Cooper is fucking sexy.
    Ohsorry, did that disturb you?
  • He_Man

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:37 AM GMT
    jpBITCHva said
    CuddleBuddy saidWhen I looked at his profile, though, he had his age listed as 90 years old. I was shocked! I mean, okay, I can see being attracted to a guy in his 50's, 60's, and, hell, I'll even give you 70's, but a guy in his 90's! That's a no!

    And yet....and yet....your profile says you don't care if a guy is 95.....


    Please read again. It says for "FRIENDS," I don't care if there up to 95, but not dating. It really isn't that hard to see that, is it? You don't have to be attracted to somone to be friends.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:38 AM GMT
    7Famark said
    19c79 saidAmnesia is a horrible thing, isn't it? I recall a huge flame war thread started by you on this very topic less than a week ago.

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    I was gonna say this seems familiar. . .
    Speaking of older men, Anderson Cooper is fucking sexy.
    Ohsorry, did that disturb you?


    I liked him until he said he couldn't see the difference between pancakes and waffles.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    it's just you.

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    I would date a guy close to my age if I liked him, but I prefer younger. I am flattered when a younger, attractive man shows an interest or gives a compliment. I don't really understand why someone would find that disturbing.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    Rodcet said
    7Famark said
    I was gonna say this seems familiar. . .
    Speaking of older men, Anderson Cooper is fucking sexy.
    Ohsorry, did that disturb you?


    I liked him until he said he couldn't see the difference between pancakes and waffles.

    He's handsome, but his boyfriend, Ben Maisani--if they're still together--is hotter.

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:46 AM GMT
    Ehh I think Anderson is way hawter.
  • vintovka

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:55 AM GMT
    I will only date guys if the square root of their age multiplied by the number of gray hairs on their ass is higher than the mathematical value of pi. I think that's a pretty straightforward and widely accepted rule.
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    19c79 said
    Rodcet said
    7Famark said
    I was gonna say this seems familiar. . .
    Speaking of older men, Anderson Cooper is fucking sexy.
    Ohsorry, did that disturb you?


    I liked him until he said he couldn't see the difference between pancakes and waffles.

    He's handsome, but his boyfriend, Ben Maisani--if they're still together--is hotter.

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    noone is sexier then Anderson he could do me all night then i will do him after woof.
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    Nov 27, 2011 7:28 AM GMT
    ANOTHER thread about this?! and started by the same @OP. Obsessed much?
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    Hypnotico saidANOTHER thread about this?! and started by the same @OP. Obsessed much?

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    Nov 27, 2011 7:32 AM GMT
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    Hypnotico saidANOTHER thread about this?! and started by the same @OP. Obsessed much?

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    Nov 27, 2011 7:33 AM GMT
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    likewatuc said
    Hypnotico saidANOTHER thread about this?! and started by the same @OP. Obsessed much?

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    Hola puta, are we hijacking this thread? jajaja

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    Nov 27, 2011 7:36 AM GMT
    likewatuc said
    Hypnotico said
    likewatuc said
    Hypnotico saidANOTHER thread about this?! and started by the same @OP. Obsessed much?

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    Hola puta, are we hijacking this thread? jajaja

    Lets. icon_twisted.gif

    Hahaha!!!


    Okay zorra, oye apague mi IM porque no me gusta que me molesten pictureless profiles, no por ti bitch, asi que si cuando quieras hablar x IM me dices y lo prendo haha icon_cool.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 27, 2011 7:37 AM GMT
    EastCoastNAZ saidjust you
    apparently
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    Nov 27, 2011 7:38 AM GMT
    Hypnotico said
    likewatuc said
    Hypnotico said
    likewatuc said
    Hypnotico saidANOTHER thread about this?! and started by the same @OP. Obsessed much?

    HIIII!!!!! Puta. icon_smile.gif <3


    Hola puta, are we hijacking this thread? jajaja

    Lets. icon_twisted.gif

    Hahaha!!!


    Okay zorra, oye apague mi IM porque no me gusta que me molesten pictureless profiles, no por ti bitch, asi que si cuando quieras hablar x IM me dices y lo prendo haha icon_cool.gif

    Prendelo!!! Haha. Ay dios esos sin fotos como joden. Haha
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    Nov 27, 2011 7:39 AM GMT
    Speak english! How am I supposed to troll you guys when I don't know what you are saying?!?
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 27, 2011 7:39 AM GMT
    7Famark saidI don't get why you have to make such a big deal about it.

    So young guys aren't your flavor. . .That's fine.

    But there are plenty of young guys that like dating older guys and vice versa, leave them to their vices.
    because 18 year and almost 40 years old is a big age gap. which makes me think if it is ok to date someone that young. what is the cut off?
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    Nov 27, 2011 7:40 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc said
    7Famark saidI don't get why you have to make such a big deal about it.

    So young guys aren't your flavor. . .That's fine.

    But there are plenty of young guys that like dating older guys and vice versa, leave them to their vices.
    because 18 year and almost 40 years old is a big age gap. which makes me think if it is ok to date someone that young. what is the cut off?


    18, obviously - no statutory rape please, thanks.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 27, 2011 7:42 AM GMT
    vintovka saidI will only date guys if the square root of their age multiplied by the number of gray hairs on their ass is higher than the mathematical value of pi. I think that's a pretty straightforward and widely accepted rule.
    lol that was very funny