What do you do with these guys?

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    Nov 27, 2011 6:40 AM GMT
    Title: Hey
    Body: (Blank)/hey/you're hot

    That's it. No punctuation, no smiley, no sentence structure whatsoever. Just a monosyllabic word.

    Sometimes I get mails. (They're rare, but even not so hot guys like me do get them). I usually reply to emails even if it's just a simple "thanks", but these emails always make me feel like not replying (and I often don't). My logic is that it's so easy to compose an email that shows that you want to get to know the person instead of raping him. It's so easy to type 10 words instead of 1 word. It's so easy to end with "icon_smile.gif" instead of "...private pics?" So reading these mails just make me can't be bothered to reply since they don't seem to want anything more than sex from me.

    Am I being an ass? What do you think of these mails? Do you respond?

    And on an unrelated note, I absolutely loathe it when guys seem like such nice open-minded people in their profiles but do not respond to a friendly, nicely-written and non-horny email. I think it's because I'm not hot, but who the fuck cares? I don't.
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    Nov 27, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    I usually respond with "Thank you.", or "Cool story bro.", or something similar.

    It comes across lazy and desperate... They want to talk, or be talked to, but they wont put forth effort. I'm sorry but you're gonna have to start a conversation for me to enter it. I'm not going to do all the work for someone that is supposedly interested in me, but asks me to get the ball rolling.

    It's weird to me no matter who it's from.
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    Nov 27, 2011 6:47 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier saidI usually respond with "Thank you.", or "Cool story bro.", or something similar.

    It comes across lazy and desperate... They want to talk, or be talked to, but they wont put forth effort. I'm sorry but you're gonna have to start a conversation for me to enter it. I'm not going to do all the work for someone that is supposedly interested in me, but asks me to get the ball rolling.

    It's weird to me no matter who it's from.

    Lazy and desperate sound about right to me. Especially lazy. I can't stand it one bit. Seems to show that they don't really care that much about knowing me either.
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    Nov 27, 2011 6:49 AM GMT
    OP, what you did is perfectly fine. These emails tend to be annoying from the wrong type of people. Just thank them and move on. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 6:51 AM GMT
    I wont even respond to a FRIEND of mine sending me a text with "Hey".

    I hate small talk. Have a purpose when you speak, even is that purpose is simply to spread humor with little punchy banter... It at least warrants a response of laughter or retort. I hate forced conversation, ESPECIALLY with strangers. Don't ever "Sup" me.

    I am completely against obligatory "Good morning" and "Hello" throughout the day unless it's followed by something meaningful.
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    Nov 27, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    Stranger: Hey you're hot.

    Waimea: Oh haha. thanks I guess?

    Stranger: Is that all you have to say?

    Waimea: Oh haha. what else should I say?

    Stranger: Don't you want to compliment back?

    Waimea: ..........You're okay looking I guess.

    Stranger: Dude, after I say that you're hot? WTF is wrong with you.

    Waimea: I don't want to fuck you that's what it is.
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    Nov 27, 2011 8:33 AM GMT
    Funny story, I wrote something somewhere replying to something you said and I didn't even see you wrote this post haha my bad

    I'll let you know when I have someone tell me that
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    Nov 27, 2011 10:11 AM GMT
    I generally think, you get what you give. If a guy sends me something like "How are you?" then I'm gonna reply with "I'm doing fine". Or "Sup bro?" is gonna result in "Not much".

    Once in a while, a guy makes an effort to strike up a conversation. In those cases, I do try to engage in the conversation and keep it going. But often times the conversation fizzles anyways after 2 - 3 replies. Does my breath stink? Was he expecting me to show some cock pics? I don't know. I kinda don't care anymore. I wish we could turn off messaging too. I really don't have much use for it, since I mostly post in the forums.
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    Nov 27, 2011 10:15 AM GMT
    stranger: your hot.

    Me: [no reply]

    The End.

    Addendum: if you can spell you´re hot correctly and are cute I might reply. Perhaps.
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    Nov 27, 2011 10:21 AM GMT
    Stranger: your[sic] hot.

    Me: Thanks, you're sweet.

    Stranger: You're just so hot and cute

    Me: icon_smile.gif

    THE END
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    Nov 27, 2011 11:04 AM GMT
    Hypnotico saidStranger: your[sic] hot.

    Me: Thanks, you're sweet.

    Stranger: You're just so hot and cute

    Me: icon_smile.gif

    THE END


    I definitely see a trend ;)
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    Nov 27, 2011 11:09 AM GMT
    It makes me lose faith in us gay guys, sometimes :/
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    Nov 27, 2011 12:15 PM GMT
    No, you're not being an ass. I usually don't respond except on rare occasions. I require a sentence or two. Plus I like them to show me that they actually read my profile.
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    Nov 27, 2011 12:27 PM GMT
    I will henceforth reply simply with the URL to this thread.
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    Nov 27, 2011 1:09 PM GMT
    19c79 saidI will henceforth reply simply with the URL to this thread.

    +1 Good idea!
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    Nov 27, 2011 1:23 PM GMT
    RIGuy60 said
    19c79 saidI will henceforth reply simply with the URL to this thread.

    +1 Good idea!

    Agreed!
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    Sup = FML
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    If someone said they are hot I will have their babies
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    Claystation saidSup = FML


    Sup?
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy saidTitle: Hey
    Body: (Blank)/hey/you're hot

    That's it. No punctuation, no smiley, no sentence structure whatsoever. Just a monosyllabic word.

    What do you think of these mails? Do you respond?



    I usually ask to see a photo of their bare feet....icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Claystation saidSup = FML


    Sup?


    FML icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:07 PM GMT
    Kill 'em with nerdiness. (Then if they're down with that, great!)

    Por ejemplo: Guy: Sup?
    Me: Already supped, could do lunch on Saturday though

    Guy: Your hot
    Me: My hot what?




















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    Nov 27, 2011 5:07 PM GMT
    Claystation said
    Chainers said
    Claystation saidSup = FML


    Sup?


    FML icon_sad.gif


    I gladly would.
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Claystation said
    Chainers said
    Claystation saidSup = FML


    Sup?


    FML icon_sad.gif


    I gladly would.


    ewww you're such a creeper Gah!!icon_mad.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:20 PM GMT
    My replies:

    Thanks man I appreciate it! icon_biggrin.gif (and if they're hot or handsome I would state as such.)

    Then that's usually I would get a unlock request. That's when I dunno what to do next icon_confused.gif