Would you relocate for a guy?

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    Nov 27, 2011 2:57 PM GMT
    I would. A new start with a new guy...great!!! icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    Happily. I certainly wouldn't want him to come here. I have acquired an active immunity to it, but Lakeland would suck the life out of less equipped individuals.

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    Naw, he would relocate for me. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    TroyAthlete saidNaw, he would relocate for me. icon_wink.gif


    This must be a subtle hint for your bf icon_smile.gif.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    Yes I would...if I truly found "the one", of course I would.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    Depends. If it was to a city I liked, I really liked the guy, AND I could find an equivalent job, sure.
  • bmw0

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:21 PM GMT
    Sure, within reason.
  • vintovka

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    Yes, but it would have to be after a dating for a while and there would need to be a discussion about what made the most sense (i.e. I move, he moves, or we both move to a mutually beneficial spot). Uprooting your life is a big deal and a bigger deal as you get older and set down roots in a place.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:31 PM GMT
    Been there, done that, got the underwater mortgage to show for it.

    We're still together, so apparently it worked out. Granted, I'm a writer... I can work anywhere.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:33 PM GMT
    This question needs more context. Are we talking about someone you've been dating for a couple of years, in your own city, who gets transfered to a new location? In that case, if the relationship is strong, and it means a positive development in his career, yes, I would--as a writer, I can pretty much do my work from anywhere, so relocating would probably not hurt my own career.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    Only for Steve Buscemi.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    jpBITCHva said
    19c79 saidThis question needs more context. Are we talking about someone you've been dating for a couple of years, in your own city, who gets transfered to a new location? In that case, if the relationship is strong, and it means a positive development in his career, yes, I would--as a writer, I can pretty much do my work from anywhere, so relocating would probably not hurt my own career.

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    Nope.

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:47 PM GMT
    19c79 saidThis question needs more context. Are we talking about someone you've been dating for a couple of years, in your own city, who gets transfered to a new location? In that case, if the relationship is strong, and it means a positive development in his career, yes, I would--as a writer, I can pretty much do my work from anywhere, so relocating would probably not hurt my own career.


    I would relocate for you, honey. LOL. icon_smile.gif

    I'm kinda over Boston right now after 90 something days there (and 9+ months left....).... maybe there will be a dual relocation.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    ZbmwM5 said
    19c79 saidThis question needs more context. Are we talking about someone you've been dating for a couple of years, in your own city, who gets transfered to a new location? In that case, if the relationship is strong, and it means a positive development in his career, yes, I would--as a writer, I can pretty much do my work from anywhere, so relocating would probably not hurt my own career.


    I would relocate for you, honey. LOL. icon_smile.gif

    I'm kinda over Boston right now after 90 something days there (and 9+ months left....).... maybe there will be a dual relocation.

    Well, then... Let's talk, handsome. icon_wink.gif

    And, yeah, as a life-long die-hard Yankees fan, I hear ya...

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  • calibro

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    nope
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 27, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    No, I'm very settled with a home, a business and all the trimmings...icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
    Let's call a spade a spade... I did in July. And it has been everything I wanted and more.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    If you asked me a few years ago, I would have said "hell no."

    Yet life currently going nowhere fast, and here I am applying for my passport because I might be doing this in the near future. It's not necessarily to be with the guy, but more for the chance to start over. So right now I'm "hell maybe."
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    No. But I would date a guy who relocated for me. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    Yep. I believe in love. icon_exclaim.gif
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:15 PM GMT
    I don't know, never been in a long-distance situation that went far enough where I started thinking along those lines. But maybe.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 27, 2011 5:21 PM GMT
    If you had asked me this question a few years ago. I would have said no but after having met someone who lives in another area of the country. I think I may have to think about now. I am not what I will do
  • a303guy

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    Nov 27, 2011 5:35 PM GMT
    While i never have relocated for love, i came really close a couple years ago, when my bf took a job in NYC. I was totally going to sell everything and follow him there, and then reality hit - i would be following him, and not walking with him. That made all the difference in the world, and I stayed put.

    We're still close freinds, but in the final analysis, his life path and mine were not joined - his life is now so completely different, and if I had gone, I would have done nothing but hold him back.
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:49 PM GMT
    Asuguy2005 said
    TroyAthlete saidNaw, he would relocate for me. icon_wink.gif


    This must be a subtle hint for your bf icon_smile.gif.


    So subtle lol.
  • baldone

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    Nov 27, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    in a heartbeat...will all the baggage here...son who sponges...daughter who wants little to do with me because of my "condition" and the ex, well the ex just makes everything with the kids rosy...so yes, i would move for love, not for love
    am thinking of relocating just to start life over.....haha at 60....lol