Am I the only gay guy who gets turned off by the sight of other guys penises?

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    Nov 27, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    Does this put me in another category or am I internalizing society's homophobia? I get turned on by most other things about hot guys, like having my dick sucked, and love plowing other guys, but the mere sight if their penis can be a boner killer.
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    Nov 27, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    you need help.
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    Nov 27, 2011 3:50 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidyou need help.


    Thanks for the support and thoughtful analysis!
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    Nov 27, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    Glad it helped you in your journey
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:01 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidGlad it helped you in your journey


    Speaking of journeys, mind if I suggest some for you? You could either take a long walk down a short pier, go jump in a large body of water, or, if your inclinations are more metaphysical, go to one of the two major after-life destinationsicon_wink.gif
  • rnch

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    Nov 27, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    while the sight of his penis doesn't exactly groad me out; it's not the most important part of the man.
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    Nov 27, 2011 4:42 PM GMT
    swimguychicago said
    Lostboy saidGlad it helped you in your journey


    Speaking of journeys, mind if I suggest some for you? You could either take a long walk down a short pier, go jump in a large body of water, or, if your inclinations are more metaphysical, go to one of the two major after-life destinationsicon_wink.gif


    You sound like a basket case. Maybe seeing another cock makes you feel so inadequate at your own equipment that you have a hissy fit. Maybe it´s not gay if the other person doesn´t have a cock. Was that the kind of analysis that you were wanting?

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    Nov 27, 2011 5:24 PM GMT
    Hmmmn. That's my favorite part. It's like the chocolate bit at the end of a drumstick, and the first thing that I go to. icon_lol.gif

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    God, why do I equate sex to food. I'm such a fatass.
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    Nov 27, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    Seeing dick isn't a turn-off, but sometimes shriveled limp male equipment doesn't do much FOR me either.

    Without getting too "clinical," it does seem like there's some low-level sexuality denial going on. I've hooked up with many a "curious" type, the kind who only want to j/o without your touching their unit or only want to get head. One guy who I met up with several times wanted his tight squeaky-clean ass rimmed deep while his back was turned to me - nothing else. icon_rolleyes.gif More often than not they have no interest in seeing my stuff, and sometimes they even make it clear that they don't want to. Whatever works. I wanna do 'em, they wanna get done, they can check their baggage elsewhere.
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:31 AM GMT
    Erect or soft?
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:32 AM GMT
    Are you recently out? If you are then maybe you aren't 'fully adjusted' to being gay. If you been out for awhile then I have no idea what to say..unless all the penises you have seen are like..deformed.
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:41 AM GMT
    lol, oh, my, cocks are pretty much a turn on. i mean, that is THE body part that makes us men, rt?
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:56 AM GMT
    um....I like the overall guy, cute/hot face , fit body more than just the penis....but obviously there has to be a cock, if the guy had no penis, that would be a nightmare. how can you call yourself gay, if you don't like to see your bottom have a penis, or would you rather be fucking a woman with a vagina.icon_question.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 12:20 PM GMT
    Depends. If it's ugly, then fair enough. But regular or particularly nice dicks are definitely a turn-on, part of being gay I guess.

    If you're turned OFF by them to the extent it makes you lose your erection, perhaps you should just have sex with the lights off?
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    Nov 29, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    I was in a LTR with a guy whose penis I was never really turned on by. It was too thick and sort of short. However that was just that one guy. Big surprise when our relationship finally ended because we finally realized that we weren't into each other sexually. icon_rolleyes.gif Other guys' penises, however, do turn me on, for example my current boyfriend's. YUM! icon_lol.gif

    Do you get turned off by every penis you see no matter whose it is? Do you like touching another guy's penis? Rubbing it?

    If your answers were yes, no, and no to the above questions, are you sure you're gay?
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    Nov 29, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    swimguychicago saidDoes this put me in another category or am I internalizing society's homophobia? I get turned on by most other things about hot guys, like having my dick sucked, and love plowing other guys, but the mere sight if their penis can be a boner killer.


    Let's just say I am the most diametrically opposed to your view as is possible in the known universe? icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 29, 2011 10:35 PM GMT
    swimguychicago saidDoes this put me in another category or am I internalizing society's homophobia? I get turned on by most other things about hot guys, like having my dick sucked, and love plowing other guys, but the mere sight if their penis can be a boner killer.
    Some of them are better looking than others. I would never say that they're a turn off though.
  • Nizzo

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    Nov 29, 2011 11:16 PM GMT
    I know a few guys like that. And both are straight married tops, lol
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    Dec 11, 2011 7:56 AM GMT
    Who R we kiddin? Some dicks are very offputting!
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    swimguychicago saidDoes this put me in another category or am I internalizing society's homophobia? I get turned on by most other things about hot guys, like having my dick sucked, and love plowing other guys, but the mere sight if their penis can be a boner killer.


    This is weird. Gay means you get turned on by cock.
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    Just buy your partner a jock strap, problem solved. Joking aside, for me it's certainly not a turn-off, but it's also not really a turn-on. I'm much more interested in nice legs, butt, chest, face, etc. And as pointed out above, some can actually be a little off-putting.
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:36 PM GMT
    Oh, and a quick follow-up: does seeing a guys penis in porn turn you off, or is it just seeing the penis of the guy you are with that turns you off?
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    Dec 12, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    This reminds me of the mother in Bridesmaids who attends Alcoholics Anonymous meetings despite never having had alcohol in her life.