Real Jock website, hook up site or for workout inspiration?

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    Nov 28, 2011 1:43 AM GMT
    My boyfriend and I agreed to delete all "chat" cruising sites. A natural step forward if a relationship is to be considered serious. I obviously did not delete this site because I don't think of it in that way.
    I mentioned this site and he acted as if I had broken that agreement. He said he got on here and mentioned about the cam to cam video and chat capabilities and the obvious cruising atmosphere. He then didn't buy that I did not know about this.
    Lol, honestly I think I am just out of it sometimes. I have never been in chat here before or accepted a IM. Were gay, I expect to get hit on sometimes but that is different than a cruising site.
    I use it for ideas for workouts and the forums and to be inspired to get my tired ass off the couch and into the gym by all of your great pictures. You guys have been a great inspiration and thanks for that.
    We have straightened out why I am on here and the boyfriend is okay with it and trusts me. I am still troubled at the thought of having good inspiration but being in the wrong place for it.
    So am I being gullible here? Is this site all about the hunt or is it what I think it is? Lol, alright I opened myself up. Hit me with your best shot.
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    People go to gyms to not necessarily just work out either. Are you going to stop working out there too?

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    Nov 28, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    Refusing to be a part of the Real Jock site because of some of the posts, members and activities is like refusing to go into a grocery store to buy food because they also sell magazines and newspapers. You go to RJ to get what you're looking for and ignore the rest. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    It's not "either/or," it's both.
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:55 AM GMT
    Like all other social networking / profile sites.. you get what you make out of it. If you want to use this site as a resource for health/fitness, then do so. Just ignore all the cruisy sexual advances.
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:56 AM GMT
    RJ's w/e you make of it. The workout/nutrition parts are pretty good, the forums are good, the mtg guys part is good. I ignore the parts that don't fit me.
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    Nov 28, 2011 1:57 AM GMT
    As others said, it's not a hookup site but can be used as one. So can the grocery store.

    I don't think being on realjock is near the same as grindr or manhunt. As long as you're open about your intentions.
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    Nov 28, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    Well for starters you should empty your hotlist and move everyone over to your buddies list. LOL
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    Nov 28, 2011 3:09 AM GMT
    Being in a monogamous relationship, RJ is the only gay social site I feel comfortable using. Adam4adam and Manhunt have nothing to offer for someone in a relationship. Some people might claim BigMuscle does, but there really is little there if you are not single or in an open relationship. The only other gay sites I belong to are news sites. RJ chat is one part of the site that I do avoid.
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    Nov 28, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    beneful1 saidWell for starters you should empty your hotlist and move everyone over to your buddies list. LOL


    Thanks guys I didn't think I was crazy here. This is the only site as a coupled guy that I feel comfortable on. Hey beneful1, damn. .... Busted. Lol I never even thought about that. I obviously hot listed those guys when I was single and never even gave it a thought. Definitely inappropriate at this point. Yes guys I am taken but here's my current hot list. Lmfao
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:11 AM GMT
    I thought RJ was a freebie porn site.
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI thought RJ was a freebie porn site.


    Ahhhh, you must have visited the, unlock your photos for the guy above you, forum. Lol icon_eek.gif