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  • werdnandrew

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    Nov 28, 2011 7:45 AM GMT
    I know it's a dumb question, cause I already know the answer. I just wanna hear it from gay men like me. If I was thin would I be more attractive. When I was younger 97 to 135lbs, I could get guys left and right, damn what happened haha.
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    Nov 28, 2011 8:13 AM GMT
    Awww... If I was your age, I'd hit ya.
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    Nov 28, 2011 8:16 AM GMT
    Its hard to tell completely from photos, but I really don't think you should be thinner. If anything, build some muscle and bring down the bf%. Just my opinion. You're definitely not unattractive.
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    Nov 28, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    steampunk saidIts hard to tell completely from photos, but I really don't think you should be thinner. If anything, build some muscle and bring down the bf%. Just my opinion. You're definitely not unattractive.


    DITTO!
  • LJay

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    Nov 28, 2011 4:32 PM GMT
    You are looking at the wrong criterion. The real question is "If I were 17..."
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:34 PM GMT
    You're good looking
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    waimea saidYou're good looking


    I agree, don't worry about it dude.
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    You're not fat... I don't think leaning up is really the direction you need to go in. Bulk up some and that should give your silhouette some shape. Right now, with clothes on at least, there isn't a lot of shape. This doesn't make you unattractive, you're a handsome guy, but it does leave the body unremarkable.
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:50 PM GMT
    You are not fat and tbh, I don't think the skinny look would suit you anyway. I think you'd look really good muscular cause you look like you have the build for it.

    But even without that shit, your still an attractive dude icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
    I think you just need to work on the fitness to tone out and reduce BF%...Trust being, thin isn't as fun as it seems...
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    werdnandrew saidI know it's a dumb question, cause I already know the answer. I just wanna hear it from gay men like me. If I was thin would I be more attractive. When I was younger 15 to 17, I could get guys left and right, damn what happened haha.


    First you need to quit equating your weight with your ability to attract guys. The guys you attract because you're thin or 'hot' are not always the ones you want to attract to be in love. It's more about your heart and your brain than the package you're in.

    You do realize that by the time most guys on this site are 50 they will have gain a tremendous amount of weight in all the wrong places, lost their hair except for the added hair in their nose and ears, will be wearing readers and never be able to thread a needle and their repetitive response will be 'huh?'.

    If you want to work on getting guys, work on your demeanor, self esteem, cleanliness and social skills. Be happy, funny and enjoyable to be around. Much more attractive than how thin you are.