Always "handsome" never "hot" or "sexy"

  • jboy84

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    Nov 28, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
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    What's the difference between being handsome and being hot?

    People, particularly on here, have called me handsome before (just look at my photo comments).. but very very rarely am I described as "hot". Whereas, I see other people being called hot on here all the time.

    It's not that I consider myself hot.. or even wish to be called hot, I was just wondering if there's a difference in the two terms?

    Hmmmmmmmmmm...
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    Maybe because you don't really have pics that are "hot" pics? Yours aren't very posed or suggestive... usually that's what gets a "you're hot" type comment.

    I'd rather be handsome though, in any case. Hot sounds kind of shallow.
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    You are more handsome than hot.

    Handsome is more proper and gentleman like and good looking. Hot is like super athletic and sexy and good looking.

    Hope it clears it up
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    Larkin_PLR saidMaybe because you don't really have pics that are "hot" pics? Yours aren't very posed or suggestive... usually that's what gets a "you're hot" type comment.

    I'd rather be handsome though, in any case. Hot sounds kind of shallow.


    You're cute-hot-handsome-gorgeous-beautiful
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    Do a bunch of pushups, get some blood pumped into your muscles, take a pic of yourself suggestively pulling at a tight pair of underwear and we'll see if you can pull off "hot." But you're definitely handsome.
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:30 PM GMT
    For me, handsome > Hot.
    You can work to become hot, but you can only work so much to become "more handsome".
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:31 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidDo a bunch of pushups, get some blood pumped into your muscles, take a pic of yourself suggestively pulling at a tight pair of underwear and we'll see if you can pull off "hot." But you're definitely handsome.

    Ugh I KEEP mixing your pic up with Iceblink's.
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy said
    unfounded7 saidDo a bunch of pushups, get some blood pumped into your muscles, take a pic of yourself suggestively pulling at a tight pair of underwear and we'll see if you can pull off "hot." But you're definitely handsome.

    Ugh I KEEP mixing your pic up with Iceblink's.

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    Nov 28, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy saidFor me, handsome > Hot.
    You can work to become hot, but you can only work so much to become "more handsome".


    I didn't really understand what you meant?
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy saidUgh I KEEP mixing your pic up with Iceblink's.

    But he isn't biting the head off of a helpless stuffed monkey in his pic. icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:47 PM GMT
    Gah! I'll be lucky to be called either!
    I get "cute" as a description. Nothing wrong with that, but it makes me feel like I'm already predetermined to have to bottom. icon_rolleyes.gif lol
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    Nov 28, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    ry77no saidGah! I'll be lucky to be called either!
    I get "cute" as a description. Nothing wrong with that, but it makes me feel like I'm already predetermined to have to bottom. icon_rolleyes.gif lol



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    Nov 28, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    I think you're hot AND handsome, I think handsome has a deeper feel to it beyond someones looks.
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:02 PM GMT
    waimea said
    TheChrisGuy saidFor me, handsome > Hot.
    You can work to become hot, but you can only work so much to become "more handsome".


    I didn't really understand what you meant?

    I usually associate handsome with a good-looking face, and hot with sex appeal, a lot of which comes from the body more than the face. I'm sure more of a face guy I guess?
    Don't worry, you're handsome AND hot icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:02 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    TheChrisGuy saidUgh I KEEP mixing your pic up with Iceblink's.

    But he isn't biting the head off of a helpless stuffed monkey in his pic. icon_confused.gif

    I had always thought it was a chicken drumlet!!! icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
    Hot = being objectified

    Handsome = being respectful

    at least that's how I see it
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:08 PM GMT
    waimea said
    ry77no saidGah! I'll be lucky to be called either!
    I get "cute" as a description. Nothing wrong with that, but it makes me feel like I'm already predetermined to have to bottom. icon_rolleyes.gif lol



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    lol What!?
    "Cute" makes me think I'm delicate and cuddly and it definitely isn't something you'd describe a bodybuilder or the like (which isn't what I am anyways...but still)

    "Handsome" sounds so sophisticated. Doesn't that sound better than "hot" or "cute?"
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    Always a bridesmaid, never a bride icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:20 PM GMT
    beneful1 saidAlways a bridesmaid, never a bride icon_wink.gif

    Aww when you put it like that...
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:23 PM GMT
    Haha! I'm not asking for sympathy. Sorry if my sense of humor is misconstrued. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:30 PM GMT
    ry77no saidHaha! I'm not asking for sympathy. Sorry if my sense of humor is misconstrued. icon_smile.gif


    It does come off as whiney. You're going to have to work on your material.
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
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    ry77no saidHaha! I'm not asking for sympathy. Sorry if my sense of humor is misconstrued. icon_smile.gif


    It does come off as whiney. You're going to have to work on your material.


    listen to unfounded he knows best.

    I should go back and start thinking about how I can revamp my material as well.
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    Nov 28, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    my brother is the only one who call me handsome man... icon_neutral.gif
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    Nov 28, 2011 6:00 PM GMT
    I think to be considered hot you have to show something sexual right ?
  • GQjock

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    Nov 28, 2011 6:01 PM GMT
    Hot .... I wanna F**k you now

    Handsome ...... Mebbe later icon_cool.gif