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  • dancedancekj

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    Nov 29, 2011 5:48 AM GMT
    If I take things too fast, then I'm desperate and that's unattractive.
    If I take things too slow, then they get distracted and lose interest.
    If I take things at my pace, then I'm being selfish.
    If I take things at their pace, then I'm always being kept at an arm's length away.
    If I divulge too much information too quickly, then I'm sharing too early along.
    If I keep things more under wraps, then I'm not opening up enough, and they lose interest.


    What does it take to really hold a man's steady attention these days? I'd like to blame the internet, but that'd be too easy...

    Somedays, I think just joining a monestary would save me a whole load of headaches. Plus, those robes look super comfy- like organic hemp snuggies.
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    Nov 29, 2011 6:21 AM GMT


    "What does it take to really hold a man's steady attention these days?"

    You're assuming it's you. icon_wink.gif

    It takes a man that can step up to the plate who really loves you.


    They're out there.
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    Nov 29, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    "What does it take to really hold a man's steady attention these days?"

    You're assuming it's you. icon_wink.gif

    It takes a man that can step up to the plate who really loves you.


    They're out there.


    +1

    As I told my friend Ms. Stac at my internship yesterday. Many have the Potential, few are worthy! It is what it is... A guy can have all the potential to be the one but he's gotta have the balls to step up to the plate and not be a wennie about it all.
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    Nov 29, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    Not to sound rude, but that's not a gay specific dating problem... everyone, straight or gay deals with the above listed "disorders".

    it's life, you just gotta deal with it! now the fact that we're gay and picking from a smaller pool of "candidates", and other social issues from growing up gay, that does complicate things...
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    Nov 29, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    i thought this was going to be a gay Stargate thread icon_eek.gif
  • dancedancekj

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    Nov 30, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    smthjock saidNot to sound rude, but that's not a gay specific dating problem... everyone, straight or gay deals with the above listed "disorders".

    it's life, you just gotta deal with it! now the fact that we're gay and picking from a smaller pool of "candidates", and other social issues from growing up gay, that does complicate things...


    Haha, I knew that. But if I didn't make it gay, I wouldn't be able to justify posting it in the RJ forums icon_smile.gif

    Thanks to all your encouragement everyone. Life is going on as usual
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    Nov 30, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    dancedancekj saidIf I take things too fast, then I'm desperate and that's unattractive.
    If I take things too slow, then they get distracted and lose interest.
    If I take things at my pace, then I'm being selfish.
    If I take things at their pace, then I'm always being kept at an arm's length away.
    If I divulge too much information too quickly, then I'm sharing too early along.
    If I keep things more under wraps, then I'm not opening up enough, and they lose interest.


    What does it take to really hold a man's steady attention these days? I'd like to blame the internet, but that'd be too easy...

    Somedays, I think just joining a monestary would save me a whole load of headaches. Plus, those robes look super comfy- like organic hemp snuggies.


    You pretty much just described my dating world. Are you sure you're not me?
  • dancedancekj

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    Nov 30, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    @waimea - unless I have dissociative identity disorder, then I'm pretty sure I am not. Although would I know it if I did? I'm not sure...
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    Nov 30, 2011 4:29 AM GMT
    I thought this was

    Dial Home Device

    /nerd
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    Nov 30, 2011 6:42 PM GMT
    I just came here to agree with all of this, and to add that guys like to spontaneously ninja vanish.

    Also why do guys disappear after sex only to come back for more sex later...like wtf? You clearly like me and my sex stuffs.
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    Nov 30, 2011 6:45 PM GMT
    adam228 saidI thought this was

    Dial Home Device

    /nerd


    Me too, lol
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    Nov 30, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 saidi thought this was going to be a gay Stargate thread icon_eek.gif


    lol that was cute
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    Nov 30, 2011 6:57 PM GMT
    dancedancekj said@waimea - unless I have dissociative identity disorder, then I'm pretty sure I am not. Although would I know it if I did? I'm not sure...


    IF dancedance and waimea were the same person, I would kill myself.
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    Nov 30, 2011 7:42 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    dancedancekj said@waimea - unless I have dissociative identity disorder, then I'm pretty sure I am not. Although would I know it if I did? I'm not sure...


    IF dancedance and waimea were the same person, I would kill myself.


    I am not in the same league as dancedance he's too hot
  • Midas426

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    Nov 30, 2011 8:15 PM GMT
    dancedancekj saidIf I take things too fast, then I'm desperate and that's unattractive.
    If I take things too slow, then they get distracted and lose interest.
    If I take things at my pace, then I'm being selfish.
    If I take things at their pace, then I'm always being kept at an arm's length away.
    If I divulge too much information too quickly, then I'm sharing too early along.
    If I keep things more under wraps, then I'm not opening up enough, and they lose interest.


    What does it take to really hold a man's steady attention these days? I'd like to blame the internet, but that'd be too easy...

    Somedays, I think just joining a monestary would save me a whole load of headaches. Plus, those robes look super comfy- like organic hemp snuggies.
    Story of my life.