Hey... I got a private e-mail from someone NOT in the US continent asking almost the same thing...I gave my advise but I thought he could use plenty of advice from more than one sphincter that is Carrie's. LOL!
Here he writes (in verbatim):
I've always wanted to say hello but always felt intimidated. I thought it would be corny to just write and say- I think you have a wonderful personality. Although I still think so, I am also writing to you now because I seek advice from Miss Bradshaw of Dubai.
Your tips for bottoming were an eye opener. So much preparation, who knew ;-). I'd never been at the receiving end and it was something I was dying to do. The ROUTINE that you posted was an eye opener. I did everything I could. The toothpaste stung like hell by the way :-(
When the time finally came however, I was ecstatic- I actually managed to get him in. After that, panic set in. The sensation I got was as pleasant as taking a dump. Dunno if its weird but I actually liked it! However I kept making my fuckbuddy pull out because I felt like I was gonna rain on his parade. Eventually we had to settle for a jackoff.
Also, maybe my prostate is missing, coz I didn't feel a thing! Or was that a size issue? I deliberately picked a buddy with a small and thin member. (maybe 4 inches).
So tell me Carrie, what am I doing wrong? I've a fuckbuddy flying down from France in a few weeks and I was planning to give him a grand (ahem) welcome. However he is hung like a mule. Should I give this endeavour a rest? Am I not one of the chosen bottoms? Should I stick to top-ing?Help!!!
Anal in distress.