Why are the guys I meet on here such players?

  • tenniskid1120...

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    Nov 30, 2011 7:05 PM GMT
    The first guy I met, was really cool I thought. I was going to go meet him for the first time when all of a sudden he stopped message me and I couldnt get into contact with him. Then he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship or to come out to his family. The guy I just met recently who I really started to like was cool too i thought. We were talking everyday texting and whatever. And we talked on the phone yesterday and then he hung up on me and has ignored me ever since. He deleted me off facebook everything! I don't get it why do guys do that. They just use me. I guess I need to learn to meet better guys. Oh his name on here is Derbreezy, so I suggest no one message him. Has this happened to anyone else let me know.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:13 PM GMT
    anyone?
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    Everyone I've met from RealJock has been awesome. Although the fact that I'm very selective about who I choose to meet probably has a lot to do with that.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:17 PM GMT
    I need more info before I can make an assessment.

    How many times a day did you send him calls/texts/emails/any kind of message?

    How many times did he send you messages/calls/etc...?

    How old is he/them?

    How far do they live from you? Another state? Same state different city? Different country? Same city?
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:17 PM GMT
    When I clicked on your profile just now "Mr. Lonely" by Akon automatically started playing. icon_lol.gif

    Maybe delete that song?
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:19 PM GMT
    *looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:19 PM GMT
    Try meeting guys off line? That might help.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:20 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said*looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.


    To chainers, a "hot date" is IM'ing a guy for a few minutes in chat.....
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:20 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said*looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.


    I dont get a weekly date off of this site...
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:21 PM GMT
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    unfounded7 said*looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.


    To chainers, a "hot date" is IM'ing a guy for a few minutes in chat.....


    lol some of us actually have a life outside of RJ, might want to try it for a change, or is the reality of who you married too sucky to handle?
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:21 PM GMT
    Is that what you're using this site for? That seems like a mistake...
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:23 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 said
    unfounded7 said*looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.


    To chainers, a "hot date" is IM'ing a guy for a few minutes in chat.....


    lol some of us actually have a life outside of RJ, might want to try it for a change, or is the reality of who you married too sucky to handle?


    But I want to become a "senior poster" like you!!!!
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:23 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 said
    unfounded7 said*looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.


    To chainers, a "hot date" is IM'ing a guy for a few minutes in chat.....


    lol some of us actually have a life outside of RJ, might want to try it for a change, or is the reality of who you married too sucky to handle?


    But I want to become a "senior poster" like you!!!!


    lol please, the best you can become is another punching bag like tuffguy.

    But post more, we dont have enough people who are dumb as dirt on this site.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:26 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 said
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 said
    unfounded7 said*looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.


    To chainers, a "hot date" is IM'ing a guy for a few minutes in chat.....


    lol some of us actually have a life outside of RJ, might want to try it for a change, or is the reality of who you married too sucky to handle?


    But I want to become a "senior poster" like you!!!!


    lol please, the best you can become is another punching bag like tuffguy.

    But post more, we dont have enough people who are dumb as dirt on this site.


    Ok I will chainers! My whole calling in life is to become a pale, slightly retarded looking, internet troll like you!!!
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 said
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 said
    unfounded7 said*looks up Derbreezy*

    It's the internet. If you take it too seriously, you're likely to end up disappointed. Enjoy it for what it is, a way to pass the time. Other than Chainers getting a weekly "date" out if it, it doesn't seem like too many guys are making a love connection around here.


    To chainers, a "hot date" is IM'ing a guy for a few minutes in chat.....


    lol some of us actually have a life outside of RJ, might want to try it for a change, or is the reality of who you married too sucky to handle?


    But I want to become a "senior poster" like you!!!!


    lol please, the best you can become is another punching bag like tuffguy.

    But post more, we dont have enough people who are dumb as dirt on this site.


    Ok I will chainers! My whole calling in life is to become a pale, slightly retarded looking, internet troll like you!!!


    Awe Ive pulled 4 guys who were hotter than your husband this year alone.

    By the way, you passed the slightly retarded looking all ready. Cover yourself up, we are tired of seeing you:

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    Nov 30, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    Was that the guy you pulled?

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    Nov 30, 2011 10:33 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidWas that the guy you pulled?



    You sweet cheeks, when you aint putting up fake pics.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:35 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 saidWas that the guy you pulled?



    You sweet cheeks, when you aint putting up fake pics.


    You got me!!! My pics are fake!!! Grrrrrr!!!!!
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    This is what I really look like....the horror


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    Nov 30, 2011 10:46 PM GMT
    The OP never said why the other guy hung up on him, but I have a hunch...
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:46 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidThis is what I really look like....the horror


    david-gandy-details-1111-2.jpg


    Sup...
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:53 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidThis is what I really look like....the horror


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    and the delusion sets in.

    But seriously, coming from the guy who married an individual who was so hell bent on proving to a complete stranger on the internet that he was on magazine he went and founded the magazines, took pics of them, and put them on the internet, lulz, says a whole lot about you and your visions of yourself and how much they differ from reality in general.

    Like someone told you when you first started to post, want to be liked? Do more than "Guy above you" threads on this site. Maybe then we wont see you as a the retarded engine that could.
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    Nov 30, 2011 11:05 PM GMT
    Chubs, please. You need to make up your mind.

    You say it's immature and low to bash someone on their appearance, yet that's all you do to us.

    You say we are both twigs who have never seen the inside of a gym, yet we are both Marines that have probably done way more physical activity than you have in your miserable little life. Not to mention he's a physical trainer, I don't know why you keep ignoring that. He could give you tips on how to lose that belly if you need some.

    You call me a "pathetic minority" yet I'm the one who has been in a relationship looooooong before ever joining RJ, and I have accomplished more in my life than you will ever hope too. Just bc this "pathetic minority" doesn't let RJ be the end all be all of existence (like you) doesn't mean I'm trying to insult everyone on here.

    And mnusmc82 has had those pics for awhile. Stop acting like he had to dig thru old closets and suitcases to find them.


    PS. How are my pics fake?
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    Nov 30, 2011 11:08 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidChubs, please. You need to make up your mind.

    You say it's immature and low to bash someone on their appearance, yet that's all you do to us.

    You say we are both twigs who have never seen the inside of a gym, yet we are both Marines that have probably done way more physical activity than you have in your miserable little life. Not to mention he's a physical trainer, I don't know why you keep ignoring that. He could give you tips on how to lose that belly if you need some.

    You call me a "pathetic minority" yet I'm the one who has been in a relationship looooooong before ever joining RJ, and I have accomplished more in my life than you will ever hope too. Just bc this "pathetic minority" doesn't let RJ be the end all be all of existence (like you) doesn't mean I'm trying to insult everyone on here.

    And mnusmc82 has had those pics for awhile. Stop acting like he had to dig thru old closets and suitcases to find them.


    lol make fun of people for their appearances? Honey please, you need to learn how to read. I call people retarded and idiot way more than I call them ugly. The only ones I call fat are, well fat.

    But it looks like I hit a nerve here. As for my insults, least I have three that you can remember, all you have done is make fun of me for my appearance, which is significantly better than yours.

    As for those pics, its even sadder that he has pictures of his three magazines on his computer. I gave him the benefit of the doubt there. Pro-tip I wouldnt defend him, your not very good at it lol.
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    Nov 30, 2011 11:09 PM GMT
    New post!

    God forbid a man keeps pictures of his accomplishments!!! The nerve of him!!!

    And How are my pic's fake?