Have you ever had someone out of your league...

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    Nov 30, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    Message you years after you first came across you and say something along the lines of, "I was too intimidated to talk to you." ?!?! Hotties being INTIMIDATED ugh, so sad, he was so god damn sexy. Say HELLO people, and keep talking!
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:38 PM GMT
    Weren't you intimidated too?
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    I had a baseball player from an opposing team. Does that count?
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:51 PM GMT
    Chaa_xwvn saidWeren't you intimidated too?


    Well yeah, but i made the attempt to connect. I thought it was surprising getting a message out of nowhere.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:53 PM GMT
    I don't believe in leagues but I know I've been with guys who other people wouldn't consider hot. I have a really weird taste when it comes to men because I know when someone's objectively ugly but there's something about them that makes them fuckin hot.
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    Nov 30, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    Okay, this is the second time I've read a forum about being out of someone's league. Someone please explain to me exactly what this means. I would think that no matter how two people look or how much money someone makes, if two people who are mutually interested in each other and start dating then how can either one be out of one or the other's league?
  • tuffguyndc

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    Nov 30, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    i have had that to happen a couple of times.
  • Fact

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    Nov 30, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    i get that alot haha i get really intimidated by

    pretty guys
    guys with alot of male friends
    guys who are touchy
    guys who are extremely sociable
    guys who have tattoos
    and straight guys haha
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    Nov 30, 2011 11:04 PM GMT
    Hypnotico saidI don't believe in leagues but I know I've been with guys who other people wouldn't consider hot. I have a really weird taste when it comes to men because I know when someone's objectively ugly but there's something about them that makes them fuckin hot.


    This. There are two leagues, interested and not interested, which is why rating men above you are horseshit. A 3 to one is going to be a 10 to another.

    People need to learn that there is not this hub who places people in leagues of attraction, we all determine that for ourselves.
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    Dec 03, 2011 2:02 PM GMT
    Fact saidi get that alot haha i get really intimidated by

    pretty guys
    guys with alot of male friends
    guys who are touchy
    guys who are extremely sociable
    guys who have tattoos
    and straight guys haha


    you shouldnt! Im sure they would be very happy if you would approach them. Since you know.. you are hawt icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 03, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Hypnotico saidI don't believe in leagues but I know I've been with guys who other people wouldn't consider hot. I have a really weird taste when it comes to men because I know when someone's objectively ugly but there's something about them that makes them fuckin hot.


    This. There are two leagues, interested and not interested, which is why rating men above you are horseshit. A 3 to one is going to be a 10 to another.

    People need to learn that there is not this hub who places people in leagues of attraction, we all determine that for ourselves.


    THIS! Thanks for putting it into perspective, Chainers.
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    Dec 03, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
    Daelin said
    Fact saidi get that alot haha i get really intimidated by

    pretty guys
    guys with alot of male friends
    guys who are touchy
    guys who are extremely sociable
    guys who have tattoos
    and straight guys haha


    you shouldnt! Im sure they would be very happy if you would approach them. Since you know.. you are hawt icon_redface.gif


    Daelin, you are also very hot and you have professed that you have trouble approaching other guys. Come out of your shell and let guys know that you are interested in hanging out with them. Then, when you share time alone with a guy, you can see by his eye contact, body language, flirting, touching, and other signs if he is sexually attracted to you as well. When you get the signs that he is flirting and sexually attracted to you, especially if he is touching you, then reciprocate. Touch back. Eventually, you two will kiss. Once you kiss, enjoy the intimacy.

    Hugs!
    Alan

    BTW, guys say I'm intimidating as well. I'm as friendly as can be!
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    Dec 03, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    mikeinslc said
    Chaa_xwvn saidWeren't you intimidated too?


    Well yeah, but i made the attempt to connect. I thought it was surprising getting a message out of nowhere.


    So, what happened next?
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    Dec 03, 2011 2:13 PM GMT
    We fell outta touch for a long time. It felt awkward, recently got back in touch this year. He's still cute as hell, loves to travel to Ireland, and I sit and swooon.
  • rnch

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    Dec 03, 2011 2:19 PM GMT
    only once....a heart stoppingly cute latino bartender, whom i had noticed and lusted over before, drunkenly hit on me during a memorial service for an older gentlementhat we both had been fond of.

    a perfect, tightly muscled, just shy of 6 feet tall body, HUGE even-when-soft penis, cute. boyishly-handsome early 30-something face, perfect teeth, eyebrows and hair, awesome verbal foreplay skills...

    after the memorial serice was over, we staggered back to my haus (fortunately only a few minutes from the bar where the memorial service took place), he sucked down all the vodka and orange juice i had in the kitchen, we got nekkid, after about 4 minutes of awesome foreplay he passed out while trying to suck me off! literally passed out with my rock hard, pierced penis in his mouth!!

    when i woke up 2 hours late he was gone...physically and mentally.

    he soon left new orleans after that non-event.


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