Dec 01, 2011 1:08 AM GMT
So been seeing a guy now for the past 3 months. Normally it's been seeing each other every week and going someplace on his off days.
Well about 2 weeks ago, he didn't answer his texts on our usual meet up day. Earlier in the week he was saying how he was sick and whatnot, so I decided to pop by his place after the gym to see if things were okay. Well I get there and he's home but everything was out of it's normal order. Like he didn't have the chance to clean up. I felt bad for making a surprise visit but told him I was just concerned.
He explained stress at work, stress with employees and gave me a whole story. Well he was happy I came over, then we messed around and then I came back later in the night after I went to get changing clothes. By the time I got back he was in bed. I told him that I might as well go back home if I came over to watch him sleep. He apologized and whatnot but still..we talked about it, then I slept over and helped him around the house the next day.
Fast forward. Last week Thanksgiving he said he'd be working. No big deal as I'd be going out of town. He asks me to come over the Saturday after to mess around, but he had to work early. I told him I didn't want to come and go back home as I'd just driven close to 600 miles that day.
Then just a few minutes ago, I get a text saying he's working again tonight on our usual meetup night.
This is getting out of hand. He hasn't asked to see me in 3 weeks and I already haven't seen him in 2.
...At this point I'm starting to feel I have the permission to start seeing other people because apparently he's playing the avoidance game for whatever reason whether it's true or not. I mean, how many more times do I need to keep sitting around waiting for a date?
Well about 2 weeks ago, he didn't answer his texts on our usual meet up day. Earlier in the week he was saying how he was sick and whatnot, so I decided to pop by his place after the gym to see if things were okay. Well I get there and he's home but everything was out of it's normal order. Like he didn't have the chance to clean up. I felt bad for making a surprise visit but told him I was just concerned.
He explained stress at work, stress with employees and gave me a whole story. Well he was happy I came over, then we messed around and then I came back later in the night after I went to get changing clothes. By the time I got back he was in bed. I told him that I might as well go back home if I came over to watch him sleep. He apologized and whatnot but still..we talked about it, then I slept over and helped him around the house the next day.
Fast forward. Last week Thanksgiving he said he'd be working. No big deal as I'd be going out of town. He asks me to come over the Saturday after to mess around, but he had to work early. I told him I didn't want to come and go back home as I'd just driven close to 600 miles that day.
Then just a few minutes ago, I get a text saying he's working again tonight on our usual meetup night.
This is getting out of hand. He hasn't asked to see me in 3 weeks and I already haven't seen him in 2.
...At this point I'm starting to feel I have the permission to start seeing other people because apparently he's playing the avoidance game for whatever reason whether it's true or not. I mean, how many more times do I need to keep sitting around waiting for a date?
