Do you feel that things need to go a certain way...

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    Dec 01, 2011 1:43 PM GMT
    to get into the type of relationship you want? Personally, I'd like to take things slowly, but that hasn't lead to any real success.
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    Dec 01, 2011 2:36 PM GMT
    mikeinslc saidto get into the type of relationship you want? Personally, I'd like to take things slowly, but that hasn't lead to any real success.

    I found that love does not have a timetable or schedule.

    -Doug
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    Dec 01, 2011 2:36 PM GMT
    I insist on complete honesty and transparency. I'm not willing to have any type of long-term interaction/relationship with any guy if neither of us can commit to being honest and transparent with each other.
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    Dec 01, 2011 4:13 PM GMT
    I am an extremely malleable person so I actually count on people in my life to expose me to new things and push me beyond my comfort zone.

    A while a go I noticed that I'm really good at getting my way and so I wind up controlling the trajectory of most of my friendships/relationships.

    I'm starting to let go of that and I'm finding that it opens me up to be happier.
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    Dec 01, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    dekiruman saidI am an extremely malleable person so I actually count on people in my life to expose me to new things and push me beyond my comfort zone.

    A while a go I noticed that I'm really good at getting my way and so I wind up controlling the trajectory of most of my friendships/relationships.

    I'm starting to let go of that and I'm finding that it opens me up to be happier.


    A while a [space] go? And you were lecturing me about verb-subject agreement?
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    Dec 01, 2011 4:47 PM GMT
    As long as it goes my way I am ok with where it goes.
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    Dec 01, 2011 6:24 PM GMT
    Paraphrasing the movie "My Bug Fat Greek Wedding", I prefer to be the neck. My guy can be the head but I can turn him anyway I want ;)