straight is wayyyy more fun.

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    Dec 02, 2011 6:04 AM GMT
    I've always been bi and when i moved up north for work in the oil fields i figured id play my str8 side a little more. basically...gays spend way too much time on looking good and being all about sex and catty-ness...im stayin straight icon_smile.gif at least for now, ill probably end up deleting this account as a result...but just discuss this, as a gay society....cut out the bullshit and just be real people...

    Ive been to many cities around north america, every gay scene is the same...bad news bears...
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    Gay =|= Scene

    That's like saying straight is Jersey Shore...

    You sir, can stay away from us catty gays with your closed-minded attitude... I'm sorry someone pissed in your punch.

    Have fun with the ladies.

    P.S. I'm not discussing this "as a gay society"... That view is what drove you away from people like me in the first place. I'm discussing this as one gay person. You can STAY away from this one.
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    thanks icon_smile.gif

    ill never be against gays, lol, I'm still bi, I've just found women to be more appealing for the past few years and ill stick to em, but seriously...ive never been more at ease when goin for beers or just shooting the shit.
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:17 AM GMT
    we can say the scene isn't all about queens and rainbows but when/where has it changed?...
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:20 AM GMT
    You wanna know the difference?

    Gays are often more up front about their sexual attractions and endeavors because there is less stigma and pretense about it among men.

    Straight relationships = more of a game.. Takes weeks or months with a girl to figure out we're all after the same thing.

    ---Of course that's all generalizations, but hey, that's your game - I'll play along.
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:21 AM GMT
    The scene ins't all about queens and rainbows.

    At all.

    And how much time doyou put into lookng good? You don't have long hair, you don't, presumably, wear makeup. How long does it really take you

    You jsut go out in sweatpants and a baggy tshirt to straight bars? LOL


    Have found out in straight land.
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:23 AM GMT
    pat3rob saidwe can say the scene isn't all about queens and rainbows but when/where has it changed?...


    The straight "scene" is better? Hmmmm... Interesting.

    How about carving your own path? Don't invest everything into any "Scene", they're all just about as deep as your cocktail glass... Err I mean beer bottle.(Sorry, you're 'straight' now). The problem is people who think the scenes define them.

    Take them for what they are - a place to let loose and have some fun, not a lifestyle. (Too many are confused by this)
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    well, this kinda brings it to more of a civilization gradient...

    i was never treated kindly on this site, id message guys that seemed decent and happened to have nice pics too - no response... same at a gay bar or club...i left one time almost at the point of feeling bad about myself

    straight bars...people are just more real.

    im not throwing this as a lash out against the gay community, its more of a "check yourself" to a community.

    seriously, is this what we/you want to project?
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:35 AM GMT
    pat3robi was never treated kindly on this site, id message guys that seemed decent and happened to have nice pics too - no response... same at a gay bar or club...i left one time almost at the point of feeling bad about myself

    straight bars...people are just more real.


    I think people on the internet, much like people out at bars, are nowhere NEAR a good representation of actual people. Some could argue that both alcohol and the sense or anonymity/invulnerability the Internet provides, show one's true colors....
    I think they both just amplify our stupidity and can cause us to disregard our best judgment.

    If you want a true sample of people to judge, meet real people. People at bars or online are often who they want you to see, not who they are.


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    Dec 02, 2011 6:39 AM GMT
    pat3rob saidwell, this kinda brings it to more of a civilization gradient...

    i was never treated kindly on this site, id message guys that seemed decent and happened to have nice pics too - no response... same at a gay bar or club...i left one time almost at the point of feeling bad about myself

    straight bars...people are just more real.

    im not throwing this as a lash out against the gay community, its more of a "check yourself" to a community.

    seriously, is this what we/you want to project?


    So every girl you hit on responds in kind? really? I go out with girls, and straight boys. I know how they act.

    And more real? What clubs are you going to. Try hitting up a chill gay bar and tell me it's the same.

    People get turned down or ignored everywhere, by every gender and sexuality, gay men don't own the monopoly on catty and stuck up, you've jsut met asswipes.
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    almost every gay guy I've met has just rubbed me the wrong way...its sad..lol, not saying everyone, but the entire community just has a long way to go in terms of really getting with the times and cherishing some values that just can't be changed. Im not strong enough to live my life being rejected and becoming more and more jaded...im out.

    see ya dudes
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    pat3rob saidalmost every gay guy I've met has just rubbed me the wrong way...its sad..lol, not saying everyone, but the entire community just has a long way to go in terms of really getting with the times and cherishing some values that just can't be changed. Im not strong enough to live my life being rejected and becoming more and more jaded...im out.

    see ya dudes
    I dont understand how you can keep saying the whole community, You are part of that commuity, whether you like it or not, and you aren't that way right?
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:47 AM GMT
    pat3rob saidalmost every gay guy I've met has just rubbed me the wrong way...its sad..lol, not saying everyone, but the entire community just has a long way to go in terms of really getting with the times and cherishing some values that just can't be changed. Im not strong enough to live my life being rejected and becoming more and more jaded...im out.

    see ya dudes


    You'll think about this on a more rational day (if you have rational days...), or when you grow up a bit, and realize how stupid it sounds.

    Something horrible must have happened to you that damaged you a lot - I'm sorry on behalf of my people(lol, it was YOUR assumption that one of us could speak for the majority, not mine).
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    Dec 02, 2011 1:24 PM GMT
    OP is so right
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    Dec 02, 2011 1:35 PM GMT
    i agree with "ThePenIsMyTie."
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    Dec 02, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    pat3rob said...gays spend way too much time on looking good and being all about sex and catty-ness...im stayin straight

    How I spend my time looking good: I shower with a bar of soap, and use the cheapest shampoo I can find, comb my hair wet and let it air-dry naturally. Nothing else cosmetic goes on me, no hair styling, no nothing.

    I cut my own hair (my partner's too, and I'm not trained at it). I've never had a manicure in my life. I usually wear loose-fitting clothes in the Florida heat that do not flatter me.

    I attend gay bars & clubs, but to meet other gays, whose company I enjoy most, and because I'll meet my friends there, not for some "scene." I make my own scene, and if I can't have that scene in a given place as I prefer it to be then I go elsewhere.

    I rarely talk about sex (that may be a function of my age) and neither do I engage in catty gossip & behavior. My few friends who have a tendency to gossip know not to do it in front of me, because I refuse to play along.

    I think you've been running with the wrong gay crowd, and making generalizations about the rest of us as a result.
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    Dec 02, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
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    ZennedDaFuckOut saidOP is so right


    Are you serious?

    Well he is right about gays being stuck up and too focused on looks....and most everyone in a gay bar is fake as hell.
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    Dec 02, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
    Straight up agree- gays guys are always scumbags with no personality or compassion. Straight is where its at.
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    Dec 02, 2011 8:31 PM GMT
    JakeGHK said
    TheTraveler saidStraight up agree- gays guys are always scumbags with no personality or compassion. Straight is where its at.


    Is this a joke?


    Dude I honestly wish it was but it is not.
  • Brick_n_Lace

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    Dec 02, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    why are yall entertaining this fool.....
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    Dec 02, 2011 8:33 PM GMT
    Brick_n_Lace saidwhy are yall entertaining this fool.....


    Just because he has a different opinion does not mean he is a fool
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    Dec 02, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
    TheTraveler said
    Brick_n_Lace saidwhy are yall entertaining this fool.....


    Just because he has a different opinion does not mean he is a fool

    you are a fool as well. good day sir.....
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