‎" I'M NOT HEARTLESS, IVE JUST LEARNED TO USE MY HEART LESS."

  • Leonard7

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    Dec 02, 2011 2:19 PM GMT
    It's sad to say it but its true.
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    Dec 02, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
    Sounds like cynicism and jadedness setting in.

    It is possible to use your heart more AND be able to make the tough decisions. From my experience, making and applying tough decisions requires using more heart to help other people cope with and accept the outcomes of tough decisions.

    It's kind of like "tough love".
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    Dec 02, 2011 2:43 PM GMT

    I've always thought with my heart, and never let circumstances, rejection, or bad relationships take this from me or damage this ability, because that would allow those experiences to control my future and happiness.

    You can grow or shrink from life. I recommend grow. One day a man will come along who will not only recognize a thinking heart, but offer his own. icon_wink.gif

    warmly,

    -Doug
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    Dec 02, 2011 2:44 PM GMT

    Oh, almost forgot, here's a huge hug.

    *HUG*

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    Dec 02, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    What's a heart? icon_twisted.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 02, 2011 3:56 PM GMT
    I would encourage you to be "heart smart". I used to be a very sensitive kid and one of the best experiences was law school for me. I learned to think very logically. Today, that logic mixes with emotion and I consider myself pretty grounded when it comes to matters of the heart. My point.. don't
    give up on love or giving or loving somebody.... but be smart about when you
    and how you place that emotion.

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    Dec 02, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    Not a bad thing if you're thinking with your head more. Balance both.
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    Dec 02, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    I've trained myself very well to protect my heart so that the bad things don't effect me. Sad thing is, the good things don't effect me as well.

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    Dec 02, 2011 4:02 PM GMT


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    Dec 02, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    So when are you gonna learn to use your nobody???

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    Dec 02, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    Congrats on choosing to take your first step towards dying!
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:07 PM GMT
    me heart and my feet share something in common... they're both calloused lol
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:07 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    I've always thought with my heart, and never let circumstances, rejection, or bad relationships take this from me or damage this ability, because that would allow those experiences to control my future and happiness.

    You can grow or shrink from life. I recommend grow. One day a man will come along who will not only recognize a thinking heart, but offer his own. icon_wink.gif

    warmly,

    -Doug


    +1
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:21 PM GMT
    Welcome to the club.
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:28 PM GMT
    Leonard7 said" I'M NOT HEARTLESS, IVE JUST LEARNED TO USE MY HEART LESS."

    It's sad to say it but its true.


    So, in terminologia anatomica, you are letting your bladder piss all over your heart? What does your olfactory system have to say about that?
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:30 PM GMT
    On this site it is safe to say I have no heart. In real life I would say empathy is our greatest asset.
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:33 PM GMT
    my mind and heart work together as one, there is never to much heart, or to much logic, they both balance each other out. in everything you do you most always put you're heart and mind into to it.
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    smthjock saidme heart and my feet share something in common... they're both calloused lol

    I've got some sandpaper. icon_wink.gif
  • neosyllogy

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    Dec 02, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    What's with all the heart/mind dichotomy.

    If you're thinking with your heart means not thinking with your head then your emotions are flat, lacking the substance that comes from inspecting and understanding what you care for.

    If thinking with your head means not thinking with your heart then you haven't developed a personally philosophy and worldview that integrates your own values.

    Heart and head shouldn't be separate.
    True, some decisions are tough and some things we want to be aren't. But part of maturing is being able to integrate the too, and love things as they are and recognize when they're not. (so to speak ;)
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    neosyllogy saidWhat's with all the heart/mind dichotomy.

    If you're thinking with your heart means not thinking with your head then your emotions are flat, lacking the substance that comes from inspecting and understanding what you care for.

    If thinking with your head means not thinking with your heart then you haven't developed a personally philosophy and worldview that integrates your own values.

    Heart and head shouldn't be separate.
    True, some decisions are tough and some things we want to be aren't. But part of maturing is being able to integrate the too, and love things as they are and recognize when they're not. (so to speak ;)


    the concept of heart and mind is an illusion, all form of thought and feeling come from the self, the I AM is not separated into parts like heart and mind, but its all one conscious self. this is the best way i can put it for the average brain link to understand.
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    Dec 02, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidWhat's a heart? icon_twisted.gif


    mighty fine eatin'

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    Dec 02, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    Chainers saidOn this site it is safe to say I have no heart. In real life I would say empathy is our greatest asset.


    Ewwwwwwww

    You have a heart?! I'm so grossed out now
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    Dec 02, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    waimea said

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    this made me giggle.

    KH fan, I think you're cool now.
  • dancedancekj

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    Dec 02, 2011 6:14 PM GMT
    I'm not heartless, but there are plenty of people who appear to be brainless. Therefore in order to not become heartless, you have to use your head.

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    Dec 02, 2011 6:54 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    smthjock saidme heart and my feet share something in common... they're both calloused lol

    I've got some sandpaper. icon_wink.gif


    you might want to bust out the jackhammer instead! ;)