Dec 02, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
I came from India to Canada 2 years ago because life for LGBT is way beyond miserable. After 2 months of arrival, I met this guy who is now my boyfriend. I met him during his darkest time of his life and he has helped me in some of my darkest times. We have been in relationship for 1 year and 8 months now and I have never loved anyone in my life as much as I have loved him and vice versa. I just came to know that my work permit won't be extended further and that I have to leave the country, leave the country in 4 days. It is so abrupt. It is coming at a time when we are in such a good place in our relationship. He is the best thing that has happened to me and I can't imagine my life without him. He has become a part of me. We both had a very emotional day today. I have already started working on my re-entry to Canada but that I cannot come back until September next year. The pain is just killing me and he is equally devastated. We both want this to workout but we will be separated brutally. I know he would be very lonely without me esp. now that he is struggling to keep his job. If I knew that no matter what he will be happy that would reduce half my anxiety. I just have my head spinning. The thought of separation is just cruel. Any advice on how to handle such a situation and can anyone care to share their experience of being in a similar situation?