Am I wrong that I don't want to hang around drag queens?

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    Dec 02, 2011 11:54 PM GMT
    A few months ago I met this girl (she's a drag queen) in one of the local bars. She came up to me and started chatting. Well we hung out a few times since then. But she tends to text and call me to death...but I'm not really that interested in hanging out with her all the time. Maybe just once in a blue.

    I gave myself a chance to hangout with her. But it's mostly been going to the bars and one time we went to the mall and she was so embarrassing: loud on the phone and being ghetto. At the 'upscale' mall at that.

    Couple weeks ago we went out to the club and at 11:30 I told her I wanted to leave and took her home. Since then I haven't answered her calls or texts. That was 2 weeks ago, and today she texted me again.

    My thing is this: for one she wants to go out to gay bars as a woman. The gay scene here is already a very male dominated scene as it is (similar to South Beach). We go out and for the 1st hour she's upbeat, but then after that she's like sitting in a corner talking shit about everyone. Since I have been going out with her, I have only been able to meet 1 guy. And when I did, she sat in the corner for several minutes and no one came up to her.

    Someone on here before mentioned: don't go to a bar with your woman co-workers as they'll form a giant vaginal wall? Well this person is like a giant mangina wall. It's like going out with her seems counter-productive. Guys probably think I'm into trannies (which I'm not) and that just prevents me from meeting anyone with the same interests.

    It's sad because at this point she's like the only regular friend I have here. But at the same time, I'm almost willing to just wing it and not have any friends than to keep hanging with someone I'm not compatible with.
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    Dec 02, 2011 11:56 PM GMT
    An exception: there was only 1 time I have hung around someone who was a trans girl, and it was one of my best friends from back home. But I met him as a boy, we had a lot in common and I was actually amused by the attention she'd get from guys!
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    Dec 20, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    You dont like drag queen then WHY THE HELL YOU HUNG OUT WITH HER A COUPLE TIMES?

    DONT BLAME HER, BLAME YOURSELF. If u dont like her, tell her.

    But when u hang out with her, You have to accept what kind of person she is. If u dont like her for the 1st time then STOP HANGING OUT. Dont bring your shitty story in here. Shame on you
  • JackDoyle

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    Dec 20, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    you shouldn't generalize drag queens, it seems like you just don't like this individual, so stop hanging around with her. simple as.
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    Dec 20, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
    I've known many drag queens in this city and while they run the gambit of personality types they have one thing in common: They need to wear a mask to interact with the world because they have some issue with the person they are and it most of the time is deeply rooted in emotional abuse and self hatred. I learned to stay away because it is drama waiting to happen.
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    Dec 20, 2012 4:27 AM GMT
    LAGuy1979 saidI've known many drag queens in this city and while they run the gambit of personality types they have one thing in common: They need to wear a mask to interact with the world because they have some issue with the person they are and it most of the time is deeply rooted in emotional abuse and self hatred. I learned to stay away because it is drama waiting to happen.


    because you are a drama guy...Of course u need to stay away. thats it
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    Dec 20, 2012 4:33 AM GMT


    Stop hanging out with her, I dont understand the issue...She's not your cup, bfd.
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:08 PM GMT
    seriously, dont hang out with drag queens.
    Do urself that favor. U deserve it.

    thank me later, b/
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:25 PM GMT
    Um... just don't hang out with her then.

    Of course, if nobody is paying attention to them at the drag queen bar, a flying phalanx of them will march down the street into the regular bar and scream and screech until they are the center of everyone's attention.

    However, I must admit that there is nothing quite so entertaining as watching a bouncer in full drag kick some huge drunks ass and wrestle him out the door.
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    mindgarden said

    Of course, if nobody is paying attention to them at the drag queen bar, a flying phalanx of them will march down the street into the regular bar and scream and screech until they are the center of everyone's attention.



    Not unlike some drunk straight chicks do at gay bars...icon_rolleyes.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 20, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
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  • Machina

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    Dec 20, 2012 8:36 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidHowever, I must admit that there is nothing quite so entertaining as watching a bouncer in full drag kick some huge drunks ass and wrestle him out the door.



    Hahaha! I thought the same thing when I read the original post. icon_lol.gif