Do opposites attract?

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    Dec 06, 2011 1:46 AM GMT
    I have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?
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    Dec 06, 2011 1:59 AM GMT
    ColoredInBlack saidI have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?


    ah no :S
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    Dec 06, 2011 2:10 AM GMT
    TheTraveler said
    ColoredInBlack saidI have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?


    ah no :S


    Why wouldn't you think so?
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    Dec 06, 2011 2:10 AM GMT
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    ColoredInBlack saidI have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?


    Not normally. Sorry guy.


    What do you mean by that?
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    Dec 06, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    anything is possible?? anyway whats so bad about you?
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    Dec 06, 2011 3:18 AM GMT
    Brick_n_Lace saidanything is possible?? anyway whats so bad about you?


    Thank you so much! icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 06, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    ColoredInBlack saidI have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?


    Are you talking about opposites, physically? Or personality wise?
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:14 AM GMT
    Yes. A few close minded people think everybody should date inside his race, body type, age, etc...but the reality is that opposites attract to some degree.

    Just make yourself attractive by developing your social skills, keeping your appearance nice, etc.
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
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    ColoredInBlack saidI have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?


    Are you talking about opposites, physically? Or personality wise?


    Physically
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:32 AM GMT
    ColoredInBlack said
    jmusmc85 said
    ColoredInBlack saidI have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?


    Are you talking about opposites, physically? Or personality wise?


    Physically


    Meh. Mostly not. In the fickle and imaged obsessed gay world, fit,white,"straight acting" men are prized posessions. Not saying that you can't have it, but if I'm being honest I would have to say it's an uphill battle for you. No offense, but you sound pretty image obsessed yourself. Does the man of your dreams HAVE to be muscular and fit? It looks like you already have it set in your mind what you are looking for. If you won't give average looking guys the time of day, why should muscular guys give you the time?
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    ColoredInBlack said
    jmusmc85 said
    ColoredInBlack saidI have never been in a relationship before and been looking for love all my life. I would love to have a muscular boyfriend who loves me for me. Is it possible for a guy like me can attract a guy like that?


    Are you talking about opposites, physically? Or personality wise?


    Physically


    Meh. Mostly not. In the fickle and imaged obsessed gay world, fit,white,"straight acting" men are prized posessions. Not saying that you can't have it, but if I'm being honest I would have to say it's an uphill battle for you. No offense, but you sound pretty image obsessed yourself. Does the man of your dreams HAVE to be muscular and fit? It looks like you already have it set in your mind what you are looking for. If you won't give average looking guys the time of day, why should muscular guys give you the time?


    You're right. I guess I didn't see it that way. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to a certain type. I'm pretty much open to any guy who turns me on.
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:52 AM GMT
    I'm not trying to start a flame war, just being honest. If you go out seeking this ideal type of guy it will probably make you look desperate and shallow. Especially if you don't possess what you are looking for. Just be polite, open, and kind to guys who potentially might be dating material. I don't think anyone can find a guy that is 100% their type. We all have our flaws that make us less than desirable. Learn to make peace with imperfection...
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    Dec 06, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    i attract pretty much every type of guy out there i even get straight guys hitting on me, so yeah i guess opposition attract, cause i have a very manly and intimidating personality and i attract a lot of weak men, i don't mean week physically but personality wise.