Help!!! .. i am not a good kisser !!!

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    Dec 06, 2011 10:28 AM GMT
    Wohoooo ... am not single anymore ... but the problem .. hmm i think i am not a good kisser ..once i try to kiss him i feel so nervous .. and i feel i dont know what should i do ..

    Please can u tell me the steps of a good kiss ? :C
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    Dec 06, 2011 2:58 PM GMT
    Practice! kiss til ur lips get dry apply some chap stick and go for round 2.
  • carew28

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    Dec 06, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    Do you like kissing ? Does your partner like kissing ? If so, then just do the best you can and work on it, eventually everything should turn out okay.-, once you get over the initial awkwardness. Especially if your partner likes to kiss.

    To be honest, kissing's never been much of a turn-on for me. I've always felt awkward the few times I've really done it. I much prefer a good, vigorous full-body massage. To each his own.
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    Dec 06, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    Kissing is a living thing, an interaction, sometimes even a personification of ones' soul. Enjoy it, nervousness will kill it.
    When you kiss, make it and keep it an interaction, both initiating and responding to his kissing. Kissing is a living thing, make it thrive and you'll both (or all) enjoy with a satisfaction that far surpasses lips just touching.
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    Dec 06, 2011 10:22 PM GMT
    practice, practice, practice, and most of all, enjoy. also remember that kissing is not just about the mouth, it involves other parts of the body. it's more...making out than just kissing.
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    Dec 07, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
    Well we lip lock only but no frenching yet .. well am not sure if i should dig my tongue in his mouth or i wait he does or what .. thats the problem .. i lock the lip lock n actually it turns me on so bad , but i still want to do the tongue thing !!
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    Dec 07, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    Man its kinda hard to explain how to kiss properly since it kinda just came naturally to me, but I will try to help u out buddy.

    First u don't want to shove your tongue down his throat. A lot of guys think kissing is just trying to get your tongue far into the other guys mouth... It's not. You want to tease him w your tongue. Flick it into his mouth, bring it back into yours but don't stick your tongue out as far as possible.

    Next don't forget the lips. I like to kiss them lightly, move my face a little away and then go back in with a little more suction/pressure. Also it can b hot to suck on one of their lips (not too hard).

    Also making out involves kissing, but kissing is not the only part of making out. Grab the back of their head when you can tell they are into it. Feel their hard pecs (I like to give light to med peck punches too, but some vanilla guys might not like that). If you are standing putting your arms around their waste or shoulders is good too.

    I hope that helps. I found it kinda difficult to exactly explain what makes a good kisser, but these r things that I do, and hope its good advice. Try not to think about it too much and just do what comes natural. Just make sure to not shove your tongue down his throat or try to suck their lips off with way too much pressure or just have an open mouth. These three things make people bad kissers. If you can avoid those u will b fine.
  • Hothouse

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    Dec 07, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    I love to kiss, as long as the guy is a good kisser. Some guys are, and some aren't. Like anything else, you get better the more you do it, and to experience kissing different guys will give you a sense of what is good and what isn't.
    Tongue can be good, as long as it is soft and easy - you can't get too aggressive with your tongue to start out, but it's cool to get more agressive with your tongue as things heat up.
    And, move your lips, don't just press them against his and hold them there - gently caress his lips with yours, I like to get his top lip between mine, then he can get my bottom lip between his.
    It is difficult to explain how to execute a "good kiss" - like love, you'll know it when you experience it.